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22F dating a 25M
I have a survivor's guilt of sorts.
My boyfriend is popular. He has a lot of girls in love with him. Some that have had feelings for him for years.
He never liked any of them back. I'm the first person he's ever liked enough to date.
We've been together for four months and I feel guilty because I know our being together must hurt some of his friends. Sometimes when we're having sex I think about how much it would hurt all his friends in love with him if they saw how intimate we were being, and it makes me not want to kiss or have sex at all.
What do I do?
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>>34691339
Does he know that they like him?
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>>34691365
Yeah, he's aware of their feelings. They've all told him at least once. Sometimes more than once. Here and there over the years.
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>>34691339
Do you love each other? Simply open your heart and all your fears and doubts will melt away.
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>>34691396
Yeah... we love each other very much.
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>>34691339
Develop a cuckquean fetish. Soon you will be getting off at the thought of cucking those girls.
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>>34691391
Is he in contact with them regularly? When that happens to me as a guy and I know I don't like them I just keep a social distance so no one gets the wrong signal anymore + the woman I'm with doesn't have to deal with annoying social games.
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>>34691407
<.< Evil...

>>34691409
He stays friends with them if they want to stay friends.
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>>34691339
Well then just share him around and have an elevensome orgy or however many orbiters he still has
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>>34691339
you care about the feelings of women you don’t even know more than this guy. Let him out of this fuckface relationship.
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>>34691339
I know how you feel kind of. I really hate hurting people's feelings and do my best to avoid it in all things. It's unavoidable in love, though; sometimes people want you to feel a certain way about them and you just don't.
If he's 25 and you're the first person he's reciprocated feelings for then I'd imagine you really mean a lot to him. You can feel glad that you make someone you care about happy.
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>>34691339
You're retarded and he's manipulating you btw
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>>34691339
Become a cuckquean and watch him fuck them
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>>34703854
How am I retarded and how is he manipulating me.



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