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For context: I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue.

Here are some specific things I feel UNHAPPY about.

>UK censoring internet, banning SM/phones, etc., rest of world likely joining in
>Love & Deepspace scandal
>Google banning sideloading
>recent HiAnime arrest
>I fucking hate both US parties - one is full of self-hating whites and brown supremacists, the other is full of self-hating browns and white supremacists - but "doing nothing" and being a drone is cuckery too; my politics would prob. better align w/ "Dems 20 years ago" than "GOP any stage of their recent history", but even outside a US context many countries nowadays have cucked uniparties
>car-dependent suburbs and their consequences (and I'm not even going to pretend that's an American-only thing)
>the impossibility of affording anything for anyone, esp. relative to even our parents or even MILLENNIALS
>goals becoming unrealizable, like the fucked up dating market makes it impossible to date anyone (and "return to tradition" to like courting, etc. I disdain for the same reason I disdain the anti-phone movement), or travel feeling increasingly unmotivating
>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.
>the climate getting worse (lmao ik)
>the US declining, and actually fr rather than as some larper fantasy

So yea I might need some motivation kek
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These are all huge political problems that are impossible to grasp at a time - either because they interact with eachother in unexpected ways or are overly complex with lots of moving parts.

Ask yourself what can you do to your immediate surroundings... If you can one lay one brick, so be it. One brick.
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>>34692908
anon, someone in your position is more able to make a change in the world than 90% of people ever will
consider all those things you listed as possible motivation, maybe

failing that, your best bet is still to take advantage of the position you've attained & try to play on your own terms, create/protect things you care about & which make you grateful

at any point you can make an infinite bullet point list of things which are fucked, and of things which are good
things could also be infinitely better or infinitely worse, no matter what position you're in
it's not really worth thinking about, just do what you can & try to remove things from your life which give you a headache & add things which make you grateful
if everyone collectively did this the world would become good


don't let the fucked state of the world make you pessimistic, and don't blame "humanity" or whatever else, those are scapegoats
the state of the world is caused by individual criminals & incredible weapons, it's not natural in any way
know that
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>>34693379
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they want you to relinquish all the power you have in this world & be dissuaded by the unassailable octopus
but it's self-fulfilling
never give up

reminds me of that scene in the dark crystal where the skeksis make creatures stare into the power of the crystal until their life essence is drained & they become dead husks
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>>34692908
Otaku culture existed before the internet, it will keep going after the internet.
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>>34692908
Stop looking outward and start looking inward. No one has ever lived a happy or meaningful life by chasing externals. If your sole concern in life was to make your own conduct principled, beautiful, compassionate, patient and just you would go through every day with unlimited possibilities for personal growth and achieving your goals. There's absolutely no point in looking out at the world and criticizing it before you've perfected yourself.
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>>34692908
>UK censoring internet, banning SM/phones, etc., rest of world likely joining in
Not even relevant to you since you're US. Why would you give a shit. SM isn't getting banned in US, they're all US companies they need their profit. SM is fucking gay anyway

>Love & Deepspace scandal
Just googled, so a character got cancelled because fans didn't want more new characters. Why on fucking earth would you care about this gay shit

>Google banning sideloading
>recent HiAnime arrest

Just fucking use nyaa retard

>I fucking hate both US parties

You should hate the debt spiral your country is forced to face regardless of who's on the podium

>car-dependent suburbs and their consequences (and I'm not even going to pretend that's an American-only thing)

Huh? Just get a car or move somewhere with public transport. The fuck are you whining about this time

>the impossibility of affording anything for anyone, esp. relative to even our parents or even MILLENNIALS

More reasons why debt spiral is so fun

>goals becoming unrealizable, like the fucked up dating market makes it impossible to date anyone (and "return to tradition" to like courting, etc. I disdain for the same reason I disdain the anti-phone movement), or travel feeling increasingly unmotivating

What even are you complaining about, the modern dating market, and also the historical dating market, and also the anti-phones, and also travel, like what? Maybe you're just too ugly and nobody wants to touch you with a 10 foot pole, sucks to suck

>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc

What? I'd say the Japanese have far more dominance/better in arts than any of them. How is that even relevant to race superiority? That has little relevance to actual genetics, but you aren't even using any proper measurement yourself, so. You're just making baseless claims.

>the US declining, and actually fr
Everything went to shit in 2013
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>>34693666
>social media
Google Project 2029

>L&DS
because I'm an Asian man, and L&DS has been great Asian male rep - I've experienced plenty of this IRL

>mass internet censorship + sideloading ban
the vast majority of the population isn't going to become based / install Graphene / use a VPN, I'm afraid you seriously underestimate how cucked the average normie in America or just about any country is. And I know this better than you because I'm Chinese American and have visited family tons of times in China. As long as 95% of the population doesn't evade the Firewall, WHICH IS THE CASE, the Firewall ends up working.

>hating both US parties
then where the fuck do I go?

>suburban hell
this is an America-wide problem, and I already have a job in the burbs locked down that I need to drive to... rn what I'm to do is borrow my folks' car and live at home for a while (could be rest of 2026), then buy a car / move out at the same time (which sounds like a lotta money ngl)

>debt spiral
well wtf am I supposed to do? kms?

>dating market
ideal dating market IMO was probably after the 60s sexual revolution but before dating apps took over everything

>Chinese race
Just look at China they're mogging us in every aspect. Japan is a dying fossil and if I were a young Japanese I'd have nothing to hope for, unlike if I were Chinese.

>US decline at 2013
Out of curiosity: how old were you in 2013?
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>>34692908
>>Love & Deepspace scandal
Why do you care about this lmao, are you a foid?
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>>34693666
Garbage advice lol "just get a car"? I'm under the impression you creatures are just miserable but get offended when someone else admits it

>>34692908
Honestly OP, as someone who's on a really hard time of life: some things are really a wakeup call. I don't meant it as another person trying to blame you or double the responsibility on your shoulders, but as an actual advice, some things are becoming worse with no sign or changing, whereas others are not worth giving a damn about (and both often overlap). I trust you to do that discernment. As for dating since it's often what weights on us the most, emotionally: genuinely just avoid most of the rhetoric you see here. If you find constructive enjoyment in your life and work your confidence (notice which clothes and spaces make you more comfortable and loose), you already solve the biggest issues. No need to go looking for some bitch who lives off of trying to have others thirsting for them and is expecting idiots fighting for it, which is what you'd find in expensive parties.
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>>34694266
I'm an Asian man, and this game's helping foids actually respect Asian men for once.

>>34694289
Part of the problem with dating ngl is that even if you doll yourself up and make yourself as attractive as can be to the point that it actually works in pulling hoes... they're hoes. Half the women these days are fucking cuck foids who I wouldn't wanna date or marry. They just suck and either are brown or ACT brown.

This is why I enjoyed going back to China earlier this year. The hoes there aren't sorority girl pussy foid cucks.
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>>34694355
Reading what you said, I just realized finding good people also results from improving yourself. You'll learn which spaces are worth participating in, you'll more accurately pick shitty traits from others, you're just going to better filter your social interactions in general. Funny how obvious it sounds in hindsight. I think a big issue most people have is that they aren't willing to admit they're better off on their own path, as opposed to chasing the rat race and pretending they'll eventually be the piece of shit they envy. It's so much easier and happier not to engage with the norms in general, and part of it is molding your expectations.
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>>34694378
IDK. Many things about America I find dystopian. But many things about places other than America I find dystopian.

I can improve myself all I want, and yet all I keep running into are the same people. I just hate being stuck in this stupid suburb full of people I know from high school or their friends or their friends' friends.

Literally every single day in my life I am reminded of how horrible America and Americans are. I literally don't have anything to really even look forward to. Women? They all fucking suck, and none will ever match my "ex" from college (if you can even call her one, it was so fucking retarded). Literally January 2023 and to this day I still haven't gotten over it.

(And lemme be absolutely clear before you mistake me for the next Elliot Rodger: I no longer want a "white girlfriend". I just don't want a black or brown one - or a black or brown idolizing one.)
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>>34694478
Yeah I won't deny your suffering from other americans, I'm brazilian lol so I guess you can imagine how well it relates. As for your ex, it always feels bad at first but with hindsight and life changes you'll eventually get over it, don't worry. But yeah, just don't let the feeling get too strong, if you notice it coming just ask yourself "why am I thinking this" without answering. I feel like this exercise helps
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You probably can't prevent the internet from going to shit but you can prepare and just hoard whatever you care about.
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>>34692908
>I'm a birthright US citizen
Gee, I can remember when that used to mean something
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>>34698836
I'm not a jeet fyi thank goodness

(Nor pakis if you wanna be pedantic)
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>>34698947
what are you then
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>>34692908
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQUXbqkJZvk
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>>34698958
a chink
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L&DS situation seems to be worse relative to when I posted this BTW, my foid friends have been bitching about it a lot
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>>34692908
My reason is to struggle against all that.
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side question

how bored have any of you been

like ever

it's fucking boring over here and i fucking hate it
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>>34692908
>one is full of self-hating whites and brown supremacists
That you believe such a blatant lie is proof you've let your brain become infected with memes designed to guarantee your misery.
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>>34702038
"Love and Deepspace[a] is a Chinese mobile game [...]Love and Deepspace is an otome game rendered in 3D graphics.[2][3][...] The game is a live service game that uses a gacha system"

So it's something of zero value and people are getting upset about it?
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>>34702400
are you even american lmao

dems are full of, like, new england white people who bitch about how awful they are, as well as like actual brown poor people / criminals in the inner city

while republicans are for hick rednecks from appalachia, and, like, cuban beaners who really wanna be white and so performatively imitate said rednecks and advocate for restricting immigration just to pull the ladder
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>>34702377
i'm really bored atm wbu
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>>34702377
Boredom is the only thing affordable anymore.
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>>34709655
and it fucking sucks
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personally, i've been coping with the boredom by teaching myself Japanese
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>>34692908
sex is incredible

looking at mature Asian women makes me euphoric

coffee is euphoric

sex.
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>>34714248
Forgot to mention but I am the OP
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>>34699001
The CCP is waiting. Time to claim your place above the goyim, King.
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>>34692908
It is different for everyone. For me, it is my garden and my aquascaping. It is hard for some people to find joy or passion, especially when they are depressed. When I was sad, meditation would help me. Meditation for me was going on night walks in the woods and smoking a cigar or pipe, looking for small things in nature to try and appreciate life and the world we live on.
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>>34692908

>picrel
That's a really dumb way to commit suicide.
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>>34692908
FUCK YOU! If only there was a party that actually had White supremacists. No the chinese are not superior.
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>>34719688
Y'all age poorly and smell like butter.

At least we both hate the same browns. But I know better than to claim to be an honorary you.
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>>34694142
china is very good at spieing and hiring dissuaded former pilots/army dudes to give them training/plane/military shit building
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>>34692908
>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.
You had me about ready to give you a serious answer for your bait thread, but you just had to sneak that one in there like a faggot. You know that isn't true, and its likely that this singular talking point was the entire point of you making the thread. Here's your (You), Sum Ting Wong.
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>>34692908
Everybody can achieve absolute inner bliss, while still recognizing the world is in shambles.
Being overly concerned with the state of the world though is a sign of inner imbalance. It means you spend too much time thinking about other things, while there could be something wrong within you that you are avoiding
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Most of this stuff is either arguably not true or doesn't affect you much at all. Just stop worrying about it.

Most people would be happier without democracy and politics.
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>>34692908
>>34694142
>>34694289
If you can't drive or don't like driving you're a poorly coordinated spastic. Whenever I hear someone complaining about driving or "car culture" I assume they're a dysgenic social reject retard loser and guess what, I'm always right.
Driving is freedom, with a car you can go anywhere you want.
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>>34692908
There's no reason to live if you're a man.
There's no reason to ever kys if you're a woman.
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>>34721752
Well uhhh too bad I'm a man
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Being a man is tarded af i wanna be a girl
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>>34725270
Same
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>>34721724
I don't mind driving but car-centric city planning leads to tons of wasted space and suddenly everywhere is a giant parking lot where instead you could have nice parks drizzled throughout. I think suburbs should be more dense so you can walk to the grocery store / other essential stores without a car. In my US city everyone is a fat landwhale. I'm always thinking "man if it wasn't impossible to go literally anywhere without a car I wonder if more folks would walk around and get some exercise in". Plus it hurts the ability to just run into people walking around and have spontaneous conversation
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>>34692908
My will has been exhausted.

The lockdowns (2020) combined with discovering /pol/ as well as other alternative outlets and learning the truth has crippled me.

Always was an outcast but when I finished high school and went down the self-improvement road I had a plan and hope for the future. I spent 2 days in college before the lockdowns began and both men and women swarmed to me.
Weight loss, strenuous exercise, grunt jobs, martial arts, cold showers and austerity beyond normal, all self-imposed for years combined with surrogate and academic education on all practical subjects was my path to becoming what can only be referred to as Nietzsche's Overman.

But my will has been exhausted. The veil has been lifted. Reached the conclusion that I am a tax-cattle serf in a prison nation where everything human and masculine is either illegal or prohibitely expensive. I can't hunt, I can't own firearms, I can't drive a motorcycle at full speed. Can't be a man. My only options are to drink, smoke, do drugs and gamble. If you keep up on global events you can see everything and everyone has gradually become gayer and more retarded and insane. Consequently I have become more alienated and ostracized.

I'm fine with being alone. Fine with nobody remembering or caring about any important conversation. I'm fine with life being cruel and unfair. I'm fine with at 24 never having had a social circle, a woman, real friendship, or any other milestone. I said it'd get better. It's fine. Life doesn't guarantee "Happiness".
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>>34725770
Asian suburbs do it so much better. I will die on this hill.

(I mean European suburbs are technically better from a purely urbanism standpoint, but come on, you got "diversity" fucking that up.)
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>>34725770
Being able to centralize things like stores is just more efficient. NYC has bodegas and things but they just aren't as good. The selection is ass because of pricy sq footage and if they had too much to pick from the produce would go bad before they sold it. You have to carry your groceries back home meaning more trips out to the store wasting your time.

What you are really complaining about is that life in the majority of the US is too well designed and therefore too comfortable which leads people to get fat and lazy. Making life harder is never going to be a popular issue.
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>>34725270
Then transition you repper.
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>>34692908
>>Google banning sideloading
If this is about the android shit you'll be able to continue using non play store apps after going into developer mode and waiting a day or so or something like that. I still hope they keep the pressure on against google and these types though because they need to mind their necks.
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>>34725770
People don't want public transportation because of POCs, especially black people, they don't wanna get shanked or robbed just living their life.
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>>34727820
Which is a gay humiliation ritual to be bemoaned.
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>>34728073
And that's precisely how I think China will weather a sustained Iranian Hormuz blockade that'll culminate in an embarrassing US civilizational collapse.
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>>34692908
Watching hot young women who be coveted like gods in their prime grow old and seeing that unmistakable pain in their eyes as they watch the world slowly lose interest in them. No amount of makeup, healthy lifestyle and positive thinking can make the pain fully go away. It's a pain they can't hide no matter how hard they try because you've seen it in the mirror for longer than they have. It's fucking wonderful. It's a schadenfreude almost as wonderful as it is tragic.
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>>34692908
You accidentally wrote love and deep space instead of snow break
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>>34731400
No, I meant what I write.
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My Asian parents are arguing like black hoodlums and it can fucking suck lemme tell y'all
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>>34731395
Well then maybe it's great that I'm not a foid lol.
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I'm about to start a new corporate drone job (finally, months after graduating), but I'll still be living with my parents since the entry level pays like shit. :)
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>>34693407
Based
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It is 8 pm, my mother and brother (and now my father) are bitching over how late he can go out to work out or why he should've done so earlier today. It's fucking infantilizing and I'm 22.
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Something tells me life now that I have a job is worse now than before I got it

Fuck suburbs

Fuck America

Yimbies ftw
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How much jerking off is healthy if you live with your folks?
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>>34742969
Once a day at most.
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Old Reddit just died w/o sign-in for me.
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>>34692908
>I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue.
The good news is that OP is a troll, most likely of the Yuropean kind. No American starts a post off like this kek. The ones who went to a good Uni will usually state the Uni’s name, as they tend to assume people have heard of it (even if that’s not what they assume, most alums make a point to brag). What’s more,
>birthright US citizen
kek

The one thing Americans take wholly for granted is their citizenship. They have no idea it’s something that’s largely coveted worldwide.

But anyway. Carry on, I suppose. Not like anyone here is old enough to know how to handle being trolled by some Yuropeein wanker.
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Jesus fucking christ the snails banned social media

If i were in france and i had one of those bans i wouldve killed myself. Maybe even others.

The whole world is fucking cucked and I am beginning to hate literally everyone in it

Everyone's a fucking clown. No one is even worth dating. The fuck is even the ulimate goal? Sexy time? STDs? Having kids born into a smoldering dystopia?

Yay I have a job I have money. But EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE FUCKING SUCKS so there is no point.

I will even bet the US legislates their own version of this act into law before this thread expires. Even with Lindsey Graham neutralized.

Every single country is cucked, and watching everywhere cuck to judæo palantir faggotry is like the 2026 version of watching every country/state lockdown or close schools during 2020

Flock cameras too.

Obligatory "I hate my parents" three

At least china has no immigrants mucking about with its censorship and there are things to admire about china like how they're literally living in the 27th century (in a benevolent way)
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I wish I had free will but my parents won't let me have it
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>>34692908
My problems kind of boil down to
>feel like I have to wear a constant mask with friends and strangers and what little family I have
>family and friends have me pretty fucked up romantically with no hopes for love or anyone to take care of me

Political issues aside, I get the idea. I think part of your depression might be resulting also from shit like lack of sunlight or physical activity (this is my cope)
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>>34692908
>What are reasons life is worth living? What to look forward to?
couple years older than you, still figuring that one out lol
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>>34739896
I feel this deeply brother, you are not alone.
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My parents are bitching at me again, and they're fucking pissed. Like being really loud and calling me useless. This time for not being willing to pick my family members (them and siblings) up. I made them know how much I hated driving, and when they asked me how else I was to commute to work, I told them I wasn't doing any of this willingly.

"You've got a son at home and he won't help you."

Growing up, I wouldn't have thought living in a country as "free" as America would've made me this depressed.
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>>34692908
>What to look forward to?
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>>34750940
How the fuck does anyone even have a will to live after gradding college and entering a corpo grind

>marry
Foids suck

>buy a house and have kids
In a fucking dystopia where everything is cucked?

>go on vacation
temporary bandaid fix to a permanent problem
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>>34692908
Because if you try to kys, you might be an idiot about it and use a retarded method.
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>>34751161
I oscillate between becoming a monk or indulging in hedonism by becoming a tranny and when I hit 30 I'll kms. God punished me with AGP
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>>34692908
2y ago I planted peach tree.
This year I had my first harvest.
Made me proud and happy.
These trees will make great fruit way beyond my lifetime
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>>34693379

yeah read 12 rules for life and OP should too.
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>>34751230
The tranny option isn't even available to me as long as I live with Asian Christian family members. They're not that bad... unless it's for being a tranny.

Who the fuck even knows how trans people even transition? Even the college ones if you're gonna be coming back to home every summer, especially in this economy in which internships and jobs can be quite scarce.
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America bad
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>>34692908
>>22115444
I used to be that guy. No job, no clue, just stuck doomscrolling and wondering why nothing was working out. Life felt like a co-op game where I forgot to pick up a second controller. Then I tripped over something kind of wild the army's got this #QuickShip thing where you can pull in $40k just for signing and showing up. Not even joking.


I'm not trying to LARP as a drill sergeant or something. I'm just saying: if you're sitting around wondering how the hell to get ahead, this is one of those options that somehow exists but no one talks about unless your uncle brings it up at Thanksgiving. Except now they're throwing real money at people who are willing to step up.


I know what you're probably thinking. Military=war, scary stuff, not for me. I thought the same. Full-blown tech nerd over here, never touched a weight, social skills at 15%, maxed out in sarcasm and caffeine dependency. But the truth? Most recruits never see combat. You're more likely to end up learning stuff, getting in shape, and figuring your life out than you are running into anything risky.

It's more "life reboot" than battlefield. You build structure, get confidence, and yeah people actually treat you with more respect. You stop feeling like a background NPC energy and start showing up like a main character.


And the kicker? After your time's up, you've got $40k+, free education, benefits, the works. Start a business, buy a house, whatever. It's like real-life NG+ with unlockable perks that don't expire.


Not saying it's for everyone, but if you're even a little tired of sitting on the bench while life keeps loading might be worth looking at. No hype, no pressure, just putting it out there like someone should've done for me.

If you're curious, there's a site I found that breaks down how #QuickShip and bonuses work. Look it up, do your own digging. Just maybe don't dismiss it like I almost did. goarmy.com
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>>34692908
Go back
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>>34725842
>Weight loss, strenuous exercise... Nietzsche's Overman
Looks like you have some great taste. That's worth a lot

Embracing the doomer pill has a season. Don't adopt it full time.

Let me help set you on a better path.

Ride a motorcycle as fast as you want, in another country. But I seriously don't recommend going over 80kmh. Faggots exists.

Hop off /pol/ until you can laugh at it. That shit will rot your brain.

Those are not your only options. Those are the options losers choose, and then get mad their life is shit for some reason. Don't take the goynip. Do not.

Do stuff because it's fun. Travel to Asian and have crazy sex, ride motorcycles, eat like a king, and lift.

Save lots of cash in your 20s. Invest in ETFs and GICs asap. It will make you feel so comfy in 10 years after you get a free 100k from gains. You really don't want to be stressed about cash when you hit 30.

If you like gayming, do some of that, but you really need additional hobbies you can continually get better at with time.

If you don't enjoy sex, life will not be as fun, but you gotta find your obsessions to chase. That's what makes life worth living.

t. environment induced schizoid and almost 30
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>>34756145
OK then, where the fuck am I supposed to go "back" to? My mother's womb? I was born in America to Chinese parents and it's not like I had a say in any of that. China doesn't consider China my home. They sure wouldn't let me in for anything more than a short-term visa, now, would they?

Or maybe Hell is the only country that'd let me in.
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The hope that life will get better but then I constantly fail at improving and realize that having a decent life gets further and further out of reach as I get older
t. mid 30s
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>>34756665
Are you living on your own? If so you already win.
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>>34756393
I bet your mom is unbelievably beautiful
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My parents have been bitching about lunch. Should I skip lunch?
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also holy shit i know i've already stated this in THIS FUCKING THREAD of all places, but the old reddit having to log in thing is extremely depressing and makes me wanna commit arson in minecraft
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I don't think I've ever felt more like a fucking Jew in my whole life.
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The Duolingo owl can take his stupid energy system up his fucking "culo"
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>>34757683
6>3>2>5>1>4
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>>34760876
I swear to god never before have Duolingo and Reddit ever made me want to chuck a refrigerator against a dog or something

In Minecraft of course

don't worry feds reading this I don't have a dog irl
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I guess this is the dedicated whining and suicidal thoughts thread.

What should I do with my life, now that AI is slowly ruining all creative fields and turning the internet into shit?
Things I used to care about:
>writing
>art
>music
>programming
It all seems so pointless now. What's even the point of being alive when everything that is beautiful and human is going to be created by machines soon?
Do I just hunker down and hope Skynet kills us all? Please give me something to do with my life.
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>>34692908
>>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.
As a Chink-American I hate when people make these things a racial difference rather than a cultural difference. I was born in the US, grew up in an environment that encouraged my creativity and critical thinking rather than suppressed them, and have no interest in worshiping Grandpa.
I share a few of your complaints about the world and am upset about them too, but you're still making yourself miserable with the racismbrained notion that race ought to be such a big factor in your self-esteem and how you evaluate others. Even your assessment of the political parties is obsessed with race when for most people it's more about economic policy and differing definitions of fairness.

Also, if it's any comfort about the other things, every time period has its own problems. If it wasn't this set of bad things, it would be a different set.
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>>34692908
>graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job.
your life is already about 50 times better than mine
i feel like this is bait or a joke or something
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>>34692908
If you want to hate life, spend time online. Watch the news, doomscroll and stay REALLY focused on what the internet force feeds you. The Internet is a tool designed to demoralize you, keep you angry, afraid, antisocial, and distrustful/resentful of your neighbor. It's the perfect tool to make people complicit through sadness.

If you want to enjoy life, go live it. Put your phone on power saving mode, restrict the apps to the bare minimum. Go for a walk, hold the door for someone, go dancing, see a show, check out a small restaurant, smell flowers, pet a dog, go lay in the grass, sing a song, go to a night market and buy some stupid little trinket. Make a girl laugh, learn to make some wicked pancakes, wear a really good sweater, go for a swim, play an instrument.

Technology is cancer to the human experience, go outside and live.
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Post numbah 100!!!!!!!

I want a tomboy girlfriend so bad
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>>34762497
>If you want to enjoy life, go live it.
Circular. The wanting is already intact, what's broken is the bridge from wanting to doing. This restates the problem as if it were the solution.

>Put your phone on power saving mode, restrict the apps to the bare minimum.
Removing the distraction doesn't conjure a fulfilling life. You trade scrolling for silence. The phone was the symptom, not the load-bearing cause.

>Go for a walk
Gated behind activation energy you don't have. If you could reliably stand up and go, you wouldn't be reading a list telling you to.

>hold the door for someone
A two-second courtesy for a stranger you'll never see again. Many feminists will complain anyway.

>go dancing
Presumes a body you're comfortable in, a place to go, people to go with, and the disinhibition to actually do it. Four prerequisites, none supplied.

>see a show
Passive consumption. You sit in the dark watching other people be alive, then it ends and you're returned to exactly where you started.

>check out a small restaurant
Costs money and is built for company. Alone it's just eating in an unfamiliar room, everyone noticing and judging.

>smell flowers
The sensory-gratitude move only lands if the reward circuitry is online. When it isn't, you smell the flower and register nothing rewarding.

>pet a dog
Borrowed warmth that walks away when the dog does.

>go lay in the grass
ONLY good accessible suggestion here

> sing a song
Performing cheer doesn't manufacture it. You just get to hear your own flat voice in an empty room and how embarrassing you are at modulation.

> go to a night market and buy some stupid little trinket
Consumption as mood repair. It's landfill by Tuesday and you knew that at the stall.
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>>34762497
>>34763919
>Make a girl laugh
Presumes access, fluency, and a girl. For a lot of people that single line is the entire problem. Girls don't like or want to spend any time interacting with us, even asking for the time gets an
>I already HAVE a boyfriend

>learn to make some wicked pancakes
Pancakes are good one at a time, then they suck and you have too much batter leftover.

>wear a really good sweater
Aesthetics standing in for interior state. You can be well-dressed and hollow. /fa/ and hundreds of other "nerds autistic about style" forums prove it

>go for a swim
Expensive or contaminated

>play an instrument
Expensive grind through months of unrewarding practice first, which takes the exact reserves you're short on.

The unifying flaw stands: every item is an cargo cult of performing a good life. Well people do these things but doing them doesn't make you well.
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>>34692908
Well, consider that with global warming running amok it's very feasible that we're going to reach +3° by the end of the century or even 2050 so it's very probable that the bipartisan US system will stop existing (and possibly even the US itself). Then everything will probably self-correct.
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>>34763919
FYI just for clarity this isn't OP. I'm the OP.

I wonder if HRT would make things better lol. Problem is one of my problems is being stuck with anti trans or LGBT parents. They'd fucking flip if I did anything to transition - even only socially.
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Just go for the money and that will make you happy
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>>34764151
Does money buy happiness?

I mean it does buy hrt lol
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>>34763963
Is "climate refugees" a legit thing
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>>34763919
>>34763942
>Fuck my fucking chud life it's SO OVER WHY DO ANYTHING

You can nitpick anything, sure, but it's better to try and fail to experience life while learning the process than it is to sob on basket weaving forums.
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>>34764080
>still have parents
jfc what don't you have? i'd die from death by fire ants if it meant being reborn to your life
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>>34768106
OK OK honest answer I've been heavily evading for no good reason for almost 1 month

The ability to wear this w/o fear of mom and dad blowing up
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>>34768582
... i'm so confused. you're an adult. so like do what you want??? do you have a single actual real life problem? is this a brag thread?
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>>34768747
I still live with my parents who are asian parents did you fucking read
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>>34692908
Fucking bitches, lifting and getting more attractive, doing drugs, playing cyberpunk on drugs, playing modded Skyrim on drugs, go to raves, travel, dj, get into hijinks, listen to nigger rap, enjoy my porch. Make music cause I'm good at it. I got lots of stuff faggots pro tup never have kids
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>>34769146
no. i actually can't read. feel bad now?

but really if that's your biggest problem then you're road is paved with literal gold
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I feel like when I get off from work I go back to work

Very first thing that happened in my parents' house after I got off from work today was that they were bitching to each other + a sibling about "oooh la la do your fucking SATs you fucking cunt" and calling it "helping" or "for your own good"

This drove me crazy and made me feel like I hadn't progressed since high school

I have coworkers who really love commuting and I can scarcely see their problem
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>>34692908
你他妈脑子进水了吧?作为一个支那人能出生在美国,你真的应该感恩戴德了。你为什么会觉得中国发展比美国更好?你这个年纪的中国人绝大部分只能进流水线一天工作12小时,领800美元的工资,中国人的权力还不如猪圈里的猪。感谢你从福建坐集装箱偷渡来的爸妈把你生在美国吧。
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>>34692908
no use worrying about things you cant fix
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>>34692908
do retards really let things that they don't control affect their lives?
grow a pair, faggot. stop worrying about stupid shit.
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>>34756092
>You stop feeling like a background NPC energy and start showing up like a main character.

ai generated sentence straight from the cia headquarters lmao
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>>34773054
Ai always just lists stuff like a action movie trailer
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My parents are bitching at each other again. If there's any proof money cannot buy happiness it's THIS bullshit.
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>>34770863
>he doesn't exert any control over the universe
Everyone laugh at this cultivationlet.
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>>34692908
hey man if you want to feel better just send me a couple grand and know that it is going to a good cause.
That cause is getting myself a dirtbike and making some fun memories.
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>>34774448
Yes, saar.
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>>34775620
Not even an jeet, I am just some retard wageslave from bumfuckville dead industrial NY
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>>34692908
life is meaningless (nihilism); so you make up your own meaning (existentialism).
if there's any meaning to life it is natalism (procreate).
you can make your own choice whether you go to heaven/hell, reincarnate, or just process down into oil and become a mile of fuel for a fat boomers adventure fan.

where you are retarded is you have a rabid case of /pol/ brain.
any time population peaks, quality of life for the individual tanks. you're worth nothing.
unironically mass disasters are when quality of life goes back up (black death, ww2, 30 years war) because even the shittiest serf is now knighted to peasantry.
politics is gonna get worse. it just is. the entire west gave up and we're still in the world war 2 timeline. there's good in the bad though. in the us, move to the northwest states like montana idaho wyoming alaska. hell even eastern oregon isnt that bad despite retarded state politics.
you gotta serenity prayer your life and let go of the shit you cant change. for me it was the 2020 elections rigging and then realizing both parties were compromised. if you're not going to be the leader to change things, then wait for that day to come that a leader shows up, and fix your own life and problems in the meantime. buy an ar-15, train, get fit, pray/meditate, write, walk, enjoy the simple things in life and retardmax.
people hate politics because fags that get into it act like the world is ending and they are exhausting to be around.
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>>34751163
bro i wish guns were legal here why do we must so suffer if we want to end it
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>>34692908
Instead of using the world's problems as a shield to justify your own failures you should realize that nothing matters for real. And with that go have a beer and do a bbq for yourself on your porch and smoke a cig or weed while doing it. Enjoy the sun. Nothing matters, god isn't real, there is nobody watching you, nobody cares. What does this mean?
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>>34692908
Because things often get very bad before they get better. Go see the world, and realize how easy you have had it to some, and how much wonder there is out there. Living behind a screen and polluting your mind with current events isn't good for you lol
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Read John and then 1 John (the letter)
I think it's beautiful
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How do I not let this blackpill me bitterly
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>>34776487
I've already read so much of the bible in my childhood

Religion is a cope excuse for getting together
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>>34782553
To elaborate: there are so few 3rd spaces in the US that (((church))) often serves as one.
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If your parents are calling you useless for not driving your siblings to fuck around with their jeet friends or cleaning the toilet, and you have a well-paying job and are employed etc., does that give your parents the right to call you fat and a loser? (Literal words btw)



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