>26 yo/tall/fairly good looking>own 3 apartments, live in one rent the other two >have loads of money saved up.>be a neet for the last seven years>lose all friends during covidBasically, I don't have a social circle to meet girls. I tried dating apps, but the girls there only wanted to fuck. Also, all of my hobbies fall much more into solo category:>gaming (single player games)>literature (book clubs only have old ladies)>hiking (i almost never meet anyone on the trails)Loneliness is getting a bit tedious, so I would like to experience what it's like to be in a relationship.>inb4 kys or buy a hooker no thanks
>>34700546Try volunteering for something you care about, then just show up consistently and talk to people.
>>34700620Bold of you to assume he cares about anything that involves other people
>>34700546Move to a more urban area and use leasing the apartments to fund your rent for your new place (now you will be renting out 3 and living in a 4th one). Then go to bars and all the social events to meet people. You will meet girls and other guys who also want to socialize, and from there you can expand to social circle to meet more girls and more guys who want to socialize who can help you meet more girls and guys who want to socialize and so on and so forth.TLDR: network in a city.
>>34700546Man that really sucks that the girls you met on the apps only wanted to fuck.
>>34700620Tried that. 99% old people. Thanks anyways.>>34700642I do live in a big city, and I sometimes go to bars to socialise, but nothing comes out of it. Thanks anyways.
>>34700546What state are you in anon? :3
>>34700546Find a third space in your city. Bring a book, handheld console, or something else to occupy your time while you’re hanging out until you’re comfortable to talk to someone. Go Monday-Friday for a few hours. Here you’ll establish a friend group or maybe even a gf.Likewise, why not reach back out to your old friends?
>>34701554I live in Europe.>>34701933>Likewise, why not reach back out to your old friends?I had 3 friends. One moved to another country, another one to another city and the last one i have no knowledge about and no contact.Regarding your suggestion, as I said in my earlier response I tend to go out to bars, but nothing comes out of it. Thanks anyways.
you need to do something young, active people dolike sports
>>34702099Bars are not a good third space from my experience. Instead, find a coffee, tea, or other non-alcoholic beverage serving location that hosts local music shows. These sorts of beverage spots require growing a community as their business model, their venues are designed to be comfortable enough to stay for hours. You need to try other spaces besides bars. Research where people your age hang out and then go there. I’m sure you can find discussion about it online.
>>34702184>Instead, find a coffee, tea, or other non-alcoholic beverage serving location that hosts local music shows.I guess i didn't try this out. The problem is in my country spots like that are very underwhelming i.e. very few people and very boring atmosphere. Bars is where the social life happens.
>>34702360Making friends outside of the bar is meant to give you a squad to go drinking with and monkey branch into other opportunities, like being invited to friends events. Look into how people typically meet their partner, through mutual friends is always in the top 3. Just from my own experience, I’ve never had a friendship develop after a night on the town. Sure, I’ve made temporary fellowship partners but at the end of the night, I don’t reach out, they don’t reach out. And I don’t think I’ve met someone who’s introduced their good friend by saying, “We met at the club.” Now, that could jus the my own experience, and maybe it’s just different in your country, but I can only offer what’s worked for me, which involves building a friend group first and then starting to hit the nightlife.
>>34700546>book clubs only have old ladiesYou say this as if it was a bad thing.>i almost never meet anyone on the trailsTry different trails. There's one near me that is chock full of hot women. You'll want a trail within an easy drive of a large town, with beautiful scenerie for their IG or FB or whatever.Also, you should inform /out/ about the trails you use, because they claim that every trail everywhere is overcrowded.
>>34700546All the attractive women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>34706342>All the attractive women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest.I don't care about that though. I don't want to marry or have children. Hell, I don't even care if the girl is not some 10/10 supermodel. I just want her to not be fat and that she takes care of herself (workouts, eats relatively healthy). Pic rel is a good example of an average looking girl that I find pretty. All I want is a girl to have a relatiionship with. Somebody to spend time with, talk about our day, laugh at memes etc. As I said in the op I tried dating apps and ALL the roasties there just want ons. They don't care one bit about my interests or telling me about theirs.
>>34700546>but the girls there only wanted to fuckOhhh no poor you, quick can we do anything to soothe the pain? Thhats so horrible , girls who want to fuck, I'd literally kill myself am Ir ight guys haha Literal nightmare. Girls who want to fuck me. Nothing worse I could imagine.
>>34706545But she's cute fr
>>34705383Look mutt, the United states of Shart works very, very different from a normal country. In normal countries, bars and other alcohol spots are the center of social life as people can consume freely without triggering a host of mental diseases.This is due to normal countries containing predominantly normal people and not serving as Europes loony bin and genetical experimentation spot. So kindly refrain from givign advice.
>>34706636Calm down, amigo. Maybe you should get off our websites if you don’t care about Americans? Where are your l33t institutions? I’m sorry that coming to our websites, groveling on all fours like a mule, gives you a cortisol spike, but do refrain from replying to posts made by Americans with your cockamamie copes concerning genetic drift and misspelled words (it shows you’re careless or stupid or, most likely, both).
>>34706545>spent time with some ugly or mid womanhard pass bro
>>34702099Would you want American wife? c:
>>34706545Anon, pls I'm not on dating apps and I take care of myself. Let me be your wife c:
>>34707715>>34707718Sorry, the distance is too big of an issue ;(
>>34700546>own 3 apartments, live in one rent the other two>have loads of money saved up.fuck you
>>34706614nta but fuck you dude some of us actually want a girl that loves us and wants a future together all that hookup shit is for teenagers
