Is life worth living without sex and relationships? I have a penile condition that impedes me to have sex, I'm 34 now and I'm going through life without interacting with women.
>>34701704Absolutely yes. It's important to be able to enjoy life without depending on relationships. There is so much to explore; as intelligent beings, it's a privilege to have access to all of these technologies, enabling us to learn and discover hobbies and interests without always having to pay classes.You can learn to play an instrument, producing music, writing, reading, drawing, cooking, sports, you have to be curious ! The more you learn, the more you'll discover how each hobby is an iceberg of knowledges, more than you could imagine. Either way, let's say, even if you could have sex, if you stay in this mental state of thinking to the point that life isn't worth living without sex and relationships, you are not ready for that. You have to be able to handle yourself first before even trying to share a life with someone.
>>34701704Yeah, and I say that as a man who had sex and relationships and currently married. They're never something you cannot live without, you just enjoy them while knowing you don't need them. Men don't actually need them. They fulfill, but they're not the only way to find fulfillment. Sometimes a man won't realize that until after finding fulfillment in marriage. Other men, after being fulfilled with craft or skill or business, figure out they could have been fulfilled in a relationship. There's different paths to life and any one of those paths can be traversed forwards or backwards. And absolutely none of them, even the relationship related ones depend on the condition of the man's genitals, that's just an echo of highschool gossiping and insecurities a ghost of immaturity that buzzes around in our heads like an annoying fly, even if you yourself are already matured which you seem to be seeing as you are reflective on life's purpose. And as far as I'm concerned that makes you already qualified for a good life, because you actually critically think.
>>34701704Life isn't worth living until you've learned how to stop worrying about that crap. People who think that life is all about sex and relationships are empty, bored and lifeless.
>>34701704>I have a penile condition that impedes me to have sexDoes it prevent you from enjoying blow jobs and hand jobs? I'm willing to bet it doesn't impede your ability to use your mouth and hands on a woman. So stop making excuses.
>>34701840Women own your mind
>>34701843No, but I have very severe erectile dysfunction, and am keeping two women very sexually satisfied. (They know about each other and are fine with the situation). OP is just making weak excuses.
>>34701865I think you're posturing to make yourself feel manly or something. Stop pussy whipping other men on women's behalf dude
>>34701805>Is food necessary to live? No, and I say that as man who eats, has gone to restaurants and is currently eating abitually. It's not something you need to feel good, you don't actually need it.This is how you sound.
>>34701704No and everyone who says otherwise is bullshitting, you know this is true
>>34702673If you think sex is as necessary as food you have problems.
>>34701704OP what is your condition? Maybe it's curable? I heard this story on JRE years ago about some guy who had a micro penis and apparently he cured it by rubbing TRT gel on his dick.
I'm not gonna be one of those guys who says women don't matter etc. It's like when someone who's rich and claims money isn't everything, as if being rich is no better than being poor. Likewise it's easy to have had sex and relationships then tell other men that it's overrated, but it's totally disingenuous. I will say casual sex is overrated to an extent. Marriage definitely is. But having a meaningful and deep connection with women is a great thing and some of my best memories are with women I've dated or slept with. I'm in my mid 30s now and have zero intention on getting married or having kids, but I do still occassionally like to have casual sex or get into short term relationships and see if they blossom into something more. Do I need it? No, but it sure adds spice to life. It's not essential to our survival but I do think it fulfills our evolutionary programming and satisfies us to some extent.what "penile condition" do you have?
As someone with premature ejaculation, I feel about 40% of my life is on hold until I fix it because I cannot stomach being with a woman until it is cured.Worth living? Sure.Fun? Not really, no.
>>34703277dapoxetine is the solution
>>34703339I'm well on my way to fixing it naturally.
>>34701704Pfft, I go through life without sex or relationships or even without interacting much with people at all and I'm fine, I guess. I'm good looking ans have almost no problems with my dick (though I need to trust the other person to get it to work well), but I'm kinda intolerant and people annoy the fuck out of me.
>>34701805>They're never something you cannot live without, you just enjoy them while knowing you don't need themThis is the truth, and what made me consider actually leaving my relationship when we were in a rough time because I noticed that, despite being cared for and lusted after most of the time and being comfortable with the security of having a loyal partner, I could always see myself alone and taking care of my own desires for happiness in other things in life.>>34702673You're a virgin or a retard if you can't understand what he meant
>>34704263I think it's still worth it to be in a relationship because it's hard to deal with life on your own. But maybe it's just me.
>>34701704Of course. The amount of love you get by a relationship is balanced out by an equal (maybe even greater) amount of pain when you lose it. Relying on romantic love or pleasure to live your life is a horrible idea.
>>34701704>Is life worth living without sex Yes.>and relationships?No.> I have a penile condition that impedes me to have sexYour main problem is that you are a fucking idiot. There literally billions of people who have sex without penises. What makes you so special that you can only have sex with your penis?
>>34701840>doesn't impede your ability to use your mouth and hands on a womanI'm not a faggot
>>34704357Kys tranny
>>34701704I'm going to assume based on what you wrote that you're a virgin, or at least haven't had a 'normal' sexual experience in your life. One thing I can say is that I lost my virginity at 23, and up until that point, I had spent years agonizing over sex. I was constantly thinking about it, and worrying that I'd just end up being a virgin forever. When I did finally end up having sex, something clicked in my head. It wasn't exactly -disappointment-, but I suddenly realized that it wasn't worth all of the time I had wasted worrying about it. Don't get me wrong, sex is fantastic, but it's almost like food in a way: When you're hungry, you're DESPERATE for it, and the mind is bent on it. But once you've eaten, food is suddenly not such a magical thing on a pedestal anymore. All this to say, try to understand that we always want what we can't or don't have, and not having what we want makes us miserable. Make peace with your situation. And consult a doctor to see what your options are if you haven't already -- Maybe you're not totally fucked.There's absolutely a fuckload of women out there who either have no interest in sex, or have some similar situation to you that complicates it. Don't despair and feel sorry for yourself, because that'll just make you an unlikable person that no woman has interest in. Don't give up, anon!
>>34701840You can't form a relationship based on oral sex only, women literally need to be penetrated to feel connected, that's the natural way to own them. Otherwise you will just get cucked in a week.
I'm a virgin in my 30s and want to kill myself constantly over being socially isolated and never having sex. I can only work at my job, cook, read books, and play guitar so much before thinking about how much of a fucking isolated loser I am that has no human connection
>>34708100You've never spoken to a woman, have you?
>>34708100>Lesbian relationships don't exist
>>34703343>I'm well on my way to fixing it naturally.Teach me anon, I can only last a few seconds at max. I can't even think of being in a relationship because of it and I'm already 32.
>>34708343You and I are in the same boat. Here's the sick thing. The fitter I get. The more muscularly defined I get. The hornier I get. I ask myself....where the fuck are all the women?? Even my family admit that women are non-existent. Hell even they are hinting that I go abroad. It's that bad here. WTF is going on? I saw a White girl a few weeks ago that was a solid 7+/10. I had to stop myself from staring at her because I never see women.
>>347017041. Loads of people have had fulfilling lives without relationships and sex. For example: Nickola Tesla was celibate and single his whole life and he was successful and did a lot of awesome things. IIRC he even attributes his success to those things2. Sex and relationships are not the same thing. There is sex without love, and there is love without sex. If you can't have the first thing due to your condition, you can have the second thing. There are loads of women who don't have sex because they're asexual, or have trauma or medical conditions.
>>34702673I agree with this guy, and I think (you) >>34703077 are misconstruing his point - he doesn't believe that sex is a need like food. He believes that companionship and intimacy is a need like food. And he's right. Long term it'll have such bad consequences to your overall health. I know because I've been single for 3 years now and I'm absolutely, absolutely miserable. I'm 30 now.And before the whole huhu if you don't go out you're bound to be sad - I'm active in many festivals, I sing in a choir, I regularly go hiking swimming and rowing, have friends I meet, it does not replace companionship, love, soft care, intimacy. Retard
>>34701704Life after 30 is a slow-motion suicide without family. It's all the negatives of getting old; watching your friends drift away as they start their own families, your parents and siblings getting old and die, watching everything in your life slowly putter out as the magic fades; without any of the positives of things like family or community to shore you up. Everything rots away and you're left with the bleakness of oblivion, no hope of anything continuing. Anyone who has experienced considerable ageing among his family members (or already in himself), knows how blackpilling it is. It's really rough, once people pass their early 50s (or sometimes even sooner) you start to notice the slip-ups, forgetfulness, the declining of fine motor skills, the difficulties understanding new information. Human existence is a tragedy, there are so few years that you are allowed with full mental and physical strength. Your peak years are mostly wasted with education, where you have barely any control over your own life, because you have little to no money nor autonomy. Add to that the time spent sleeping, working, hygiene, housework, shopping, appointments, visits to the workshop - what do we have left? Everyone who has to work for a living basically leads a precarious existence, regardless of whether they are a simple worker or a well-paid employee. Before they have built up a comfortable fortune and a well established understanding of the world, the body goes downhill.
>>34708442We're talking about straight relationships I guess, but you're delusional if you think lesbians don't use dildos and toys to blast their pussies, women crave penetration, it's natural.
