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>Be me, lose my 20s and early 30s to a horrible auto-immune disease
>Finally get healthy and finish highschool and get my drivers license
>Pass the engineering school entrance exam, get ready for study
>Women ignore me unless I lie about my age and filter my looks despite my psychologist telling me it's OK to continue my life as if nothing ever happened

What's wrong with women, am I not entitled to my special first kiss and sex after all the shit I have been through? I want to work for Mazda or Ducati but I want a gf and some friends first (same experience).
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>>34703063
That's rough buddy.
Literally lost all of your youth to illness. Shit like this is proof of God's nonexistence.
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>What's wrong with women, am I not entitled to my special first kiss and sex after all the shit I have been through?
No. Life goes on. Sorry that happened to you but most people will not care about that enough to give you the benefit of the doubt
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>>34703068
>Shit like this is proof of God's nonexistence.
funny, i had the same happen and found god
OP it will be rough but i've had women approach me and they didn't care about my health issues or fucked up body
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>>34703068
I regained it, got a perfect on my full physical. Also did an advanced prep course on full scholarship.
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It is what it is
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>>34703119
His youth is gone. Like nigga you're 30s talking about a first kiss most people have that at 12. All that's left for OP is to graduate and betabuxx for a single mom or used and abused girl and get divorced a few years later. It's fucking over dude.
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>>34703073
My psych. told me people wont care and that I should just go with the flow now that Im normal again.
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>>34703134
Or you know find a much younger good hearted girl that will help through his studies? Why should he settle for trash. Age of consent in Europe is 16.
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>>34703134
He won't be able to graduate snd betabuxx without ezperiencing friendship and romance, hence this thread.
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>>34703134
you're on an advice board not giving advice, kindly fuck off
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>>34703063
No you can't fuck kids because of your arrested development. You will be arrested.
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you aren't entitled to people regardless of what you do or what you've been through
nobody is
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>>34703063
>What's wrong with women
Nothing. It's kinda normal for women in their early 20s to not want attention from a man in his early 30s. Try interacting with women your age.
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>>34703063
>Women ignore me unless I lie about my age and filter my looks
Git gud. Looks matter. Hit the gym, dress better, get a better haircut. Don't do anything retarded like smashing your jaw to looksmaxx, that shit is retarded and nuke your confidence which is even more important than looks.

Don't lie about your age. Lies are hard to maintain and the eat at your self-esteem.
>my psychologist telling me it's OK to continue my life as if nothing ever happened
A fucking lie. You lost a decade through no fault of your own. It sucks, it's unfair, it should have never happened, but that's life. Everyone else has lapped you before you ever set foot on the race. You gotta run, my dude. Run like hell and never look back.
>What's wrong with women
Nothing at all. You should be asking what's wrong with you.
>am I not entitled to my special first kiss and sex after all the shit I have been through?
You are entitled to nothing. The world does not work that way.
>I want to work for Mazda or Ducati but I want a gf and some friends first (same experience).
Perfect. Great dream, you're not a directionless, lazy bum. You want to work for Mazda or Ducati, so you're picking up skills and such that will make you a better fit for the position than anyone else who competes for it by showing up for the interview. Apply the same logic to everything else you want. What makes you a better boyfriend or friend than anyone else who competes for the time of the hot girls or the good people you want as your friends?

t. someone who lost his 20s and early 30s to depression and is doing better than his younger self could have ever imagined now that he is in his late 30s.

>>34706207
>It's kinda normal for women in their early 20s to not want attention from a man in his early 30s
Ahahahaha. The average man in his 30s is a fat slob with no life, no hobbies, no confidence and no game. Become far exceptional enough in the things that matter and age becomes a positive.
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>>34703063
Nobody has ever been entitled to a kiss or sex.
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>>34703063
Ur entitled to pay a beautiful escort like ten times to learn the ropes and then u can make up for lost time. Hell tell them ur story they can get u up to speed on everything. Ur not entitled to anything on someone else's body and to think that way is cancerous for yourself first and foremost



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