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How do I stop being a nice guy who gives women the ICK?
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>>34704553
Stop asking how to (change X or Y) to win female approval. You're welcome.
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>>34704611
Real response
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Realize that most women (much like men) have actually very little to offer.
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The answer is, literally, stop thinking about it.
Look, the first rule of caregiving is that self-care comes first. Your situation is not that different.
Work harder to build your own life up into something you truly enjoy. Surround yourself only with loved ones. Take better care of your parents and siblings.
Point being, a dynamic man with plans, energy and goals, coupled with interests that make him satisfied, gives off a vibe that will attract women. You need to bring something to the table! Not for her, ironically enough, but for yourself, which she will see. End result is that with or without a woman, you will be more fulfilled as a person... you won't be needy , and that is deeply attractive.
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>>34704693
>you won't be needy , and that is deeply attractive.
True. This is how I had success with women throughout my youth. Unfortunately for those women it wasn't from a place of confidence but shameless apathy, I just didn't give a fuck about anything including women and they flocked for whatever reason.
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You know what? Fuck the idea of doing the practical thing. Giving up your ideas of what you like so that you can fulfill this grand idea of what normal men do in society.

>"Oh hurr durr I go to starbucks to joke about Trump to make a obnoxiously elitist becky to then go back to my nice jew Apple laptop to do taxes from my 401k to then go meet up with my girlfriend cucking me for twitter views. Oh best part too is all I do is just say shit not do shit. Tehehe so much for not going the path most Americans go.

Fuck that. Be yourself. Have balls being you. Laugh at the world laughing at you for the hole it puts you in. Refuse to be the libcuck it desperately tries to make you as. Because one day if you go with the world you'll be more miserable than had you been in the hole it put you in if you do not follow your dreams.
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>>34704611
fpbp
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Stop giving women the ICK.
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>>34704553
Not to be a dick, but how do you need advice on not being nice?
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I ain't got no love for hoes.
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Op is a narc projecting erping as who he's complaining about. He does it a lot.
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>>34705095
Meds
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>>34705095
Based knower
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how do you stop making abhorrent threads? you mangled abortion?
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>>34704553
If they seem asexual around you its because you're seen as unattractive. They become whores in the presence of the right guy, I've seen it myself. Used to work as a bartender for a while, the behavior I've seen was enough to blackpill me for life. Even the shy, mousy ones become whores that grope and grind. Those same girls act like royalty in the presence of their beta male friends and they even get offended and disgusted if anything related to sex comes out of the mouth of a man they don't find attractive. If a girl is ever acting appalled at the mention of women even so much as having a libido, its because the man that's even so much as going into that topic without being attractive, is deemed as a creep instantly. They will try to shame you into going back where you belong in their imagined hierarchy. They don't want ugly men seeing them as the whores that they know they are, especially in friend groups. If the ugly ones found out the girls were giving ass to their attractive male friends, that could potentially open them up to approaches from those same betabuxx friendzoned guys and they couldn't explain away the dynamic without social incrimination.
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>>34704611
This is the dumbest thing I've read today. Congrats.
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>>34704761
You are resoundingly stupid.
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>>34704553
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>>34705627
This. Anon seems to think the the only two options are soiboi or MAGAt. This is obviously false. The hilarious part is he thinks the soiboi has greater reproductive success, but still clings to MAGAtry.
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>>34704553
Genuinely nice guys are very attractive to women. The ones who aren't are the ones who are nice only because they expect sex in exchange.
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>>34704553
Be a bad boy that attracts women.
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>>34705827
Simp. Maybe nice guys that are 6 ft 6 pack and 6 figs.
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>>34704553
It has nothing to do with personality, anon. You're just physically unattractive.
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>>34706140
Damn, you don't have to do a nigga like that
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>>34704553
As a femoid, grape.
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>>34704553
Being a nice guy works if you find a girl that’s used to being treated like shit
It’s actually kinda sad how happy my ex would get just from me responding to a text right away or saying she’s pretty



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