I know I should be concerned about this but I don't think I'm in a situation where I have a reason to be. While I'm sure that this girl and I would not make a good match at all, this still isn't keeping me from stalking her and her GF's socials and one of my closest friends currently has already (lightly) rebuked me for this. Today on one of her Instagram photos I saw her in a bikini for the first time — her GF took it while they were out on a beach day about a week ago miles away from their homes on their parents' money. I felt conflicted about jacking off to it but managed to cum to it anyway. Felt good physically but mentally I felt the same as I do when I come across some petty inconvenience, like coming across an unflushed toilet with a bit of shit in it when I want to take a piss.My friend who I mentioned earlier is right in saying that this is keeping me from being open for when a girl that's right for me comes along but I don't have space in my life for a GF yet. Me still having some attachment to this girl in relation to my judgment that I don't currently have space in my life for a GF is a chicken-egg question. Anyway, I find my life at present to be satisfactory — have been seeking more vegetables in my diet, can practice my hobbies in peace, have law school that I can order my life around. Why should I kick my habit now instead of wait for some event that would put me off of doing it for good?
>>34706221Get in the gym bro and shut the fuck up wtf are u even saying
>>34706221What do you want advice about?
>>34706221So in summary: You are happy with jerking off to images. You want a GF but you don't want to give up your lifestyle of jerking off to images, because having a GF implies giving up your lifestyle of jacking off to images. You don't know if you should give up now and wait for a GF, or, wait for a GF and give up when you get her..I think you should give up and then look for a GF. Wasting that sexual energy means you have less motivation to look for a GF.
>>34706230"Why should I kick my habit now instead of wait for some event that would put me off of doing it for good?"
>>34706231What if I give up but not look for a GF?
>>34706244That's a rhetorical question, though, isn't it?
>>34706251If you give up and not look for GF that would be a life improvement. Wasting your male energy on ejaculation robs you of redirecting that energy on non-sexual activities such as tending to hobbies or pursuing productive things.
