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My boyfriend is really homophobic and he gets upset over my yaoi habit. I have a few different gay mangas I read regularly as they're updated, I want to see how the relationships develop, but my bf just looks disgusted and says I shouldn't be looking at "degenerate" stuff like that. He looks at stuff of women I'm pretty sure so it doesn't feel fair that I'm being judged for something he does as well.
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>>34706350
It's because he thinks you're getting a sexual kick out of it and it makes him feel defensive about the sexual connection between yourself and him. He also thinks that because you are more into same-sex fantasies, you will be less enthusiastic or interested in the opposite-sex reality you share with him.
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>>34706350
He may be gay
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>>34706350
Fuck that, I wouldn’t date anyone who judges me for my hobbies. Maybe you could find a fudanshi boyfriend to talk about yaoi with
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he would fry your ass if he saw the file you used to post this thread
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>so deranged and asocial he unironically uses "degenerate" in IRL conversations
>this somehow made it past the talking stage
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>>34706681
>erm actually you can't use that word in the dictionary in a sentence...
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>>34706952
You don't know this because you don't pick up on social cues, but "degenerate" is considered a weird thing to say in modern times
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>>34706350
I don’t think he’s irrationally afraid of anything you have going on. It is genuinely weird for a woman to be into watching gay dude romance.
That said, he’s the real weirdo here for arguing with you about it instead of either accepting it or leaving. I’ve never heard of anybody who got talked out of a fetish lol
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>>34707821
It's not a fetish, I just think their romances are really cute sometimes and I like seeing the guys being affectionate toward each other. I don't read them for sexual reasons or anything.
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>>34706681
>>34707816
>erm... calling stuff degenerate is very weird and problematic to say in current year.
Go back to bluesky. I think OP's bf is acting retarded and dramatic but the word certainly still has relevance and can be used in a sentence given the proper context.
Ie Telling a friend that the dude you work with is a degenerate for over sharing his sexual habits.
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>>34706350
>My boyfriend is really homophobic
Dumb is dumb ass and get someone who respects you.
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>>34708059
I see the problem. The whole appeal of a fujo gf is the horniness. Being an asexual fujo is weird as fuck
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>>34706350
Bigot in one area = bigot in a lot of areas you just haven't seen yet



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