How do i tell a co-worker that I like her?
"I like you."
>>34706435I like you too. But i asked a question.
>>34706621Go up to her, give her a nice, firm, handshake and tell her "I'm your guy".
whenever you greet them use the -chan honorific
do a no pressure asking for her time to be spent with you, in the next several days, 1v1, at a pleasant public location
>>34706357
>>34707399Lmao
>>34706357fucking don't unless you're 100% sure she likes you too, you still have to work with her if she says no.
>>34706357What has two thumbs and go to HR if you say yes to the next question?Trust me this works every time.
Shot my shot with my coworker so I can weigh in here:Ignoring the obvious fact that it’s a bad idea, first off, have you had any indication she might be into you? Give us more context
I did this once and she got fired not me LOL
>>34708503Why is that LOL? you're a fucking tard.
>>34706357Don't do it, if she doesn't like you in the romantic sense it make things awkward. Or not. Who knows.
just send her this thread
>>34706357dont
ask her if you want to grab lunch sometime. if she politely decliens then you know where things stand. if you spill your spaghetti and she's freaked out, then you'll also know where things stand but you'll also get fired
>>34706357First try to find some common ground. Find out her hobbies, or other things she likes. Don't force this tho; do it when you're together in a group, eg at lunch or during drinks.Then another time follow up on that conversation. Eg. when she likes movies,Tell her 'X is premiering soon, what do you think?'.See her reaction. If positive, ask if she plans on going or wants to see it. If she does but has no plans yet, loosely suggest to go together. Is very safe. If she refuses, you know l you need to know.If she agrees, report back to /adv.
Back when I started work in the 90s I screwed a temp, a co-worker and my female boss (over a period of time obviously not all together) and it was fine; no bullshit at work and although none of the relationships lasted ,no awkwardness when they ended.These days I wouldn't even think about it because women are way more deranged than they used to be and it's just asking for trouble.
>>34710267She said she wants to see it but she doesn't think her husband will let her. Which isn't a "no" per se.
>>34706357Chat. Then "It's fun chatting with you. Want to continue at lunchtime?"
>>34707399Jokes on you, I wanted to get fired from that lame workplace. Besides it's not like HIPPA was being violated or anything.
>>34714320If you truly don't care you would just take the risk and do it instead of asking for permission on a message board
>>34710335>over a period of time obviously not all togetherAmateur
>>34710260What if she says yes, gives me her insta, but then never accepts the follow request, and begins ignoring me every time she sees me from that point onwards?Asking for a friend.
>>34707645And? Just don't be a sperg about it. Simply pretend it never happened and she will be happy to do the same. Ez pz>>34706357Advanced: Ask her if she wants to come to your place after your shift endsBeginner: Ask her if she wants to do something outside of work , get drinks or whatever
