how do i stop being a control freak and letting every little thing get under my skin? i take everything too seriously and get instantly assmad when things don't go my way. it completely ruins my judgment. how do i stop overthinking and learn to just coast?
you should have learned that before coming to yotsuba, and if you haven't learned it from being here within a couple months, you probably shouldn't stay
>>34707746one day, you'll get tired and just stop caringor at least that's what happened to me
>>34707746So you're complaining about yourself about pattern recognition and prediction from survival instincts?You know how incompetent other humans are around you despite how much you tell them to be. This is why we can't trust each other only at mere desperation.You are there where you are because you care about your progress and yourself. Unlike those example of family bonding with your distant family which has no value for you to care a single shit about them knowing they're irrelevant to your life, other minor things are obviously a huge deal to you because you put effort and passion into it.Environment molded that way unless you want to be a drug addict and ruin your life which solves those problem. I'm not telling you to do drugs, you're smarter than this. You're just surrounded by the wrong people which made you that way. It's like asking why everyone's racists when it's due to racial stereotypes. You avoid them than do genocide or discrimination. Being a control freak means finding the right people around you and avoiding the chuds.
>>34707779how old are you now? i feel like it's less about age and more about personality, some people just lose their temper easily.
>>34707746Just taking the racist Chud part of your post and going from there>how the fuck are you going to be the guy who calls others the n-word and then turn around and act like one yourself?It makes no sense. You need to go out of your way to cultivate some inner peace if you’re the type of person who gets so mad so easily.If you’re going to spend so much time being racist, at least be good at being a white man while you’re at it. Otherwise you’re just making other racists look bad.
>>34707829what on earth are you talking about?
>>34707832Which one of us is having a stroke?It appears to me that OP has a “based racist Chud” image along side a post about getting too angry all the time. Am I mistaken?
>>34707837i'm dying lmao, you have little to no selfawareness, man. why are you so pressed about something so stupid? are you a girl or are you trolling? and to calm you down, i'm rarely racist online or irl, i just blurt shit out from time to time.
i'm the op, by the way.
>>34707868Lmao I see>I didn’t post what I actually mean it was just ironicThat’s fine but some people are dead serious about that shit here. Surely you’ve been around the block enough times to know.
are you schizophrenic or just mentally impaired?
>>3470782027maybe having random suicidal thoughts (not that serious) kinda helps with the "tiredness" and turns into "i don't care, anymore"
>>34707947whoa there anon, are you medicated or getting some kind of help atleast?
>>347077461. Resolve not to sweat the small stuff.2. Recognize that it is all small stuff
>>34708133thanks for the concern, anoni don't have meds and stuff but i think i'll manage
>>34708254stay safe please.
>>34708245it's all about manipulating yourself into not caring about bs, not that easy.
