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It's life better the more shameless you are?
Like, I've had friends who noticed how shy I was, who noticed how much effort I had to put in order to be able to talk or socialize, but when I was drunk, it took me nothing, and saw how happy I looked then.
Even then, they suggested me to drink more often, even one of them told me they did that.
Now, I'm not saying I want to drink more, but should I act as shameless as when I'm drunk? To take the same courage and do things without the fear or judgement of others?!?!
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>It's life better the more shameless you are?
Not necessarily.

Shame is, some part, related to tradition; and in tribute to tradition — what has worked for a long time(and even generations) may be worth keeping and some of it may be the very thing that's keeping you alive.

>when I was drunk, it took me nothing, and saw how happy I looked then.
Liquid courage is an aide, or a crutch of some sort; and when one is finally are able to walk, that is the first thing they discard.

Perhaps, being able to function without it is somewhere in the root of things, and how you are able to reach it.

>should I act as shameless as when I'm drunk?
I'm afraid that the consequences may be dire, everything that find its way in the internet is now cataloged and organized in such a way that numerous Artificial Intelligence-related facilities review the statistics of the internet. There is also no real proof of feedback that organizations anonymize information.

This may inhibit you from reaching some higher station in life.
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alcohol (or cocaine or drugs in general) only work so long, then you have to quit or it ruins your life and relationships

the long and hard way is raising your self-esteem step by step through self-improvement and RL wins. once you've had enough of those, you'll start feeling good enough about yourself that you quit giving a fuck about what others think. (this is equivalent to the shamelessness you seek)

see also, Nietzsche's ûbermensch
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good answers



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