How do I let a guy kindly know that I only like him as a friend after we had sex? He thinks were a couple now and I dont want to make him upset
>hey, I have the feeling you've misunderstood what's between us, to me you're just a friend with benefits, I don't see you as a partner ok?
>>34708067If you knew he was an uncertainty why did you fuck him?
>>34708088because she wanted to have sex, duhsex isn't necessarily related to deeper relationships, especially now
>>34708067just tell him asap, don't let it drag onmaybe just as not as blunt as >>34708069
>>34708093how could she tell it in a less blunt way?
>>34708067It's whatever. Just tell him you only wanted sex and you have no feelings for him. Be direct and honest without insult. If you do anything less than this, he will automatically assume you are just mixed up in feelings like insecurity or low esteem and he will try to kiss those better in hopes you will stay with him. The longer you leave it the worse his temper when you reveal the truth. You have to accept that when you get honest and tell him you just wanted to fuck and have no feelings when you fuck, your reputation is taking an ouchie. He will cry and mope about dating a BPD who lead him on or something. That's the price for fucking before actually gauging the man out first through traditional sense
>>34708092>sex isn't necessarily related to deeper relationships, especially nowIt's still in play. Men still avoid girls who open too quick. Men who only want to fuck and nothing else flock to that woman. GG
>>34708103go be an redpilled incel somewhere else
>>34708088Because I was horny, thats literally it>>34708069>>34708093>>34708098Thanks for the advice!!
>>34708110No problem, just be careful out there. Wasn't trying to shame just reminding you shit is crazy out there. Men prefer blunt direct honesty it disarms our anger quicker. Good luck
>>34708067There are two things you need to understand, here: 1) This is a conversation you should have had BEFORE having sex. So what you need to be doing is not correcting a silly misconception on his part, you need to *apologise* for being misleading. Acknowledge that the fault here is yours. 2) Accept that he is going to get hurt, that there is absolutely nothing you can do to prevent that, and that anything you do to try to hurt him less is *guaranteed* to make the situation worse. In particular, the longer you wait before saying something, the worse it will be. So, bite the bullet, and just tell him, straight out. "I'm really sorry, and obviously this is a conversation we should have had sooner, and I feel terrible that we didn't... but you have to understand that we are not a couple. I like you - as a friend - and I find you attractive, but that's all. I'm never going to be your girlfriend, and I never meant you to think that I would be."
>>34708134Nah bit gonna work. If the woman wants to close the door she has to pump a cold heart and masuclinize her response, cold hard honesty is a turn off for most men. Gives them the ICK. If she gives him flowery language like that he will still want to sniff at her flower. Birds and the bees my nigga. She need to AlligatorMAXX
>>34708147lol retard>>34708134this
>>34708151The soft gentle let down only works for women because women have vanity issues. For men it's patronising and irritating. "I'm sure another woman will be very lucky to have you!" that sort of shit. The man thinks "if that's true why isn't she feeling lucky if she perceived value between us." But go ahead and give bad advice
>>34708157incel
>>34708170Lol yes you got me I am an incel. I'm hugging my body pillow right now
>>34708067Was the sex bad?
>>34712808Yeah how was the dick OP?
>>34708088Because I wanted to have sex with him back off girl x)
>>34712808Obviously the sex was bad, this whore would be trying to lock him down if he had fucked her properly. But thats how most girls filter their men now.
