How can I find a wholesome & sweet girl to live a simple quiet life with?
>>34708138they are all taken by high school college the latest, this isn't a sacred refusal it's a gestation go back to school if you want the girl and learn how to draw. Or whatever lol
>>34708138Find an industrious wife (proverbs 31).
>>34708167Yeah this. Very hard to find but only because they are often in plain sight.
>>34708173Hot take: Average women are industrious, but not in a trad way... Which is to say daily beautification, keeping up with trends, have many social relationships, politically aware, studious, and work day jobs.Of course there are plenty of women who make up the other side with drug abuse, pettiness, promiscuousness etc.
>>34708167A profound mistranslation. The original Hebrew means “soldier wife” or “warrior wife”, what people would nowadays refer to as powerwoman or girlboss. Never take dating advice from a women, let alone your own mother.
>>34708182unneeded symbolism
>>34708194???
>>34708180The woman described in Proverbs is considered a rarity, compared to jewels so about as hard to find as gold or rubies in a quarry. Proverbs is great because its ancient wisdom that's applicable today:>Don't simp>Don't try to buy women (women who are on sale are not the woman you want)>Don't pedestalize women, you become easy to seduce by low value womenIn other words self respect gives you the necessary vision to find the woman. Because that type of woman only looks for the man with self respect.
>>34708198NTA but what specific verses talk about this? It seems like valuable information
>>34708138The simple answer is you can find this if you broaden your horizons towards fat girls
>>34708247It is valuable information. I recommend reading the entirety of Proverbs, it's a short book, can be read within half an hour. The background of the book is that it was written and compiled by King Solomon. King Solomon is universally respected as being one of the greatest custodians of the virtue of Wisdom. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone who would argue with or disrespect of what insights he had wrote down, whether it's Christians, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Occultists, or even Agnostics or Atheists. One of the focuses is about women, specifically how to look for character and personality and behaviour, and how to get good at identifying that by being a paragon of principles yourself so that you find her very easily. It also tells you the character and personality and behaviours of men & women who are what we call today as "crabs in the bucket". It's a roadmap on how to seek wisdom to light your path.
>>34708393And if you find yourself as being said crab in bucket (most who find themselves reading Proverbs had been) then it simply tells you how to get out the bucket. You figure out we've all been in the bucket, and tells you what the game plan is moving forward when you're out. It's a good read.
>>34708393>>34708402I don't mean to be disrespectful as this is a genuine question but didn't King Solomon end up falling into lust and degeneracy eventually? If I remember correctly he also had demons build a temple under his command
>>34708491He did, yeah. His insights in Proverbs were captured at a time of prosperity before even he fell, not following his own wisdom. The lesson there is, it's because Wisdom doesn't come from man, not even from Solomon. When Solomon was close to her (Wisdom is referred to as a woman in Proverbs), he thrived. When he betrayed Wisdom, he fell. That's what makes Proverbs so valuable, it shows what had worked, and what happens when ignored.
>>34708138They don’t exist anymore.
>>34708138You have to go outside and talk to people. Sorry to tell you it's already over for you.
>>34708138Become chad
wholesome and sweet girls who want to live life with you are fat. Just get used to it bro. Grab a chubster with a nice face and put her on ozempic. This is like buying bitcoin in 2010. There is gold in the street waiting to be picked up
>>34709241I like chubby girls honestly, they are soft and easy to cuddle with. The problem is me because I'm really ugly lmao
>>34709308ugliness is much less fatal than most guys think. You can get jacked and get a cool personality and style yourself well and you will be fine. I know from experience as I have a severely fucked up nose from breaking it as a kid and still have had a lot of success with women by being muscular and fun to hang out with and bringing a good sense of humor and generally being a solid guy.
>>34709342Thank you for the encouragement. That's true, I think I tend to scare women away by me being depressed than anything else
>>34708182>what people would nowadays refer You're trying to make a modern reboot with an ancient story. None of this jew crap applies to real life today.80 iq
>>34708138don't look for girls who cake on make up and take selfies like you posted, because those are vain and attention seeking whores
>>34708182It is quite obvious from context of the rest of the psalm, “industrious” is a very fitting translation. It goes on to talk about spinning wool and farming and merchants activity. Why are you corrupting?
>>34708138Move somewhere wholesome and sweet and simple.
>>34708138Isekai. Find some fast-moving traffic.
>>34708138try not being an internet addled retard as a first step. pic related, it's (You) despite repeat warnings.
>>34710108Stop acting like a woman to OP.
>>34710123>noooo don't point up why i'm a retard on the internet, that's what a woman would do!really i don't blame you guys, i blame all your deadbeat parents for failing you.
>>34710140My parents owe me a hundred and fifty five grand.
>>34710108How is asking for a wholesome gf retarded?
>>34710181>illiterate retard conflates things and creates a meaning that wasn't therei guess that's not surprising, a self fulfilling prophecy really.
>>34710198I mean the topic of the thread is precisely that yet you are tossing the label "retard" as if it gave you any sort of authority
>>34710244>still not getting itokay i'll spoonfeed you. the person is not retarded because he asked that question or made this thread. he just happens to be retarded- and not being retarded is the answer to his question. is that clearly spelled out enough for you?
>>34710254>and not being retarded is the answer to his questionI mean, is being retarded or not really a choice?
>>34710279it is 100% an active choicec. literacy and capacity to learn are both skills you build with dedicated effort. why else would i so passionately hate retards?
>>34710286Some people are more gifted than others intellectually and that's determined by their genetics or enviorment (which on itself affects their genetic potential) so assuming everyone is acting 'retarded' willingly is simply not true, they are either unaware or unable to change due to being limited by their genetics
>>34708143is that you, Der Schooler ?just want to let you know I'm actually starting a course soon, will let you know if I get luckyGodspeed, Der Schooler, pray for me
>>34708182>The original Hebrewyou mean Aramaic
>>34708323fat is uglyugly people are evil
>>34710302you give people way too much leeway.
>>34708138>live a simple quiet lifeLate stage capitalism has deemed this unprofitable to the billionaire class so it is now impossible
>>34710604Both your statements are false.
>>34710286You are the retarded one not OP. Being on 4chan is the number one green flag for us women
>>34710990you can say jew brothey hate you more than you can imagine, it's ok to say the word
>>34710993physiognomy is real
>>34708182You're right that אשת חיל literally translates into soldier woman or woman of the order (a military order, specifically), but we also say in Hebrew, when trying to convince someone - תעשה חיל meaning "do military (?)" which, in actuality means - "do right by me" or "do me right/treat me well/be an upstanding citizen and do me a solid"So I think when they say military/soldier woman, they mean a woman of upstanding moral beliefs and order, who's a go getter that does good things. It's a good connotation not a bad one. Girlboss or power woman is bad because that's associated with fierce independence and disdain for help, while a "soldier woman" is supportive, cooperative and morally good.You're welcome :)
>>34708138All the attractive women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>34708138Go back to the 1920's and find yourself a evangelist
>>34708180both of those sides are unappealing to me.>maybe you just don't like womenNo I do, but they are clearly exceedingly rare.
>>34711375Hmm
>>34710604This thinking is the reason you're alone
>>34711375Lemuel’s mother describes her ideal wife (the woman of military virtue a.k.a valor) as a: textile producer, clothing producer, merchant, trader, wine producer, vineyard owner, farmer, agricultural producer, real estate investor, businesswoman, entrepreneur, importer, manager, employer, supervisor, charitable worker, teacher, counselor, financial manager, craftswoman, artisan, retail seller, wholesaler, etc., etc. The point is she is describing a full blown high flying CAREERWOMAN (aka girlboss), and NOT a TRADWIFE as some religious people seem to think. Horrible dating advice. Meanwhile religious people like to read things into the biblical text that are not actually there. In conclusion, never take dating advice from a woman, let alone your own mother (or Lemuel’s mother). By the way, Jewish men are famously known or stereotyped as momma’s boys under the thumb of their domineering mother. Have a nice day. :)
>>34711952There is no mutual exclusivity with being of good moral upstanding, supportive and cooperative, and having any of the jobs you listed. I don't know who Lemuel is and I'm not religious in the slightest, I'm not even sure what you're arguing for (or against?).Having a wife who's a functional human being first and foremost, and of good moral standing, are the most important things.>>34708138And to OP: I don't think you can really work towards it except for one, simple, silly little thing, and that's looking good, healthy, fit, feeling good, and then volunteering as part of a group or some sort of scouts program. Only kind hearted people go volunteering, people who have time to give, people who aren't fighting for survival like niggers and Filipinos, so, I would unironically say, volunteer so you can spend time getting to know kind hearted people, it increases your chances but it is never a guarantee. So be prepared to just volunteer and to give your time. At the very least - you will do something nice for others. Best of luck
