Genuinely how can I last longer in bed. Unless she’s on top I nut within 1 or 2 minutes. This isn’t from a lack of experience either I’ve been with the same woman for years. Do I just need to get boner pills from the doc so i can keep going after or what
>>34708352does she not like that? just get her off with foreplay or a toy-er somethin.
Yeah try boner pills. You can probably just have sex twice once for you once for her or whatever. I dont really care about your love life. Just finger bang the hoe I unfortunately have found that my finger bangs make women cum more than my penis. I have big hands and hit the g spot and it just works but my hands get really fucking tired to the point it will just refuse to move anymore.
>>34709318Yeah, she likes being on top and usually will get off that way. Problem is she likes me on top too… You know kind of being dominated and what not. We found a new position she loved the other day and she was like a wild animal for it but I nutted almost instantly. She’s a good sport about it and I’m probably thinking harder about this than she is, but I can’t help it feel like I’m disappointing her. She’s not on the toys or anything and she’s never even masturbated. >>34709446Unless she’s really, really horny, all the hand does is just warm her up. She wants the dick
>>34709849Well I've never cummed from sex, so it's like asking the blind how to see. I wish you luck.
Talk with her! I know it might seem like you're "less of a man" because of that, but if you straight up talk to her, I'm sure it'll be fine. Otherwise, yes, use your fingers and your tongue. You mentioned she's not one for toys but there's plethora of different ones, not only vibrators or dildos. Maybe try light BDSM or hell, try edging yourself. As a woman, I love seeing men enjoy themselves and being in control of that too. Maybe just me though. Wishing you luck anon!
>>34709996Thanks for the positivity. As I mentioned, she would not be into the idea of toys at all… That’s just how she’s wired - she likes sex, but she’s a bit prudish with anything out of the ordinary(this doesn’t bother me fwiw). She’s mentioned before lots of times she likes watching me get off and a lot of time that helps her. I know that women have different needs and wants out of sex, which is fine, but there’s just been too many times I’ve felt like I was on the verge of completely rocking her world only to finish too fast and feel a bit disappointed for my sake and hers.I read somewhere that tensing your pelvic floor during sex(which I do) can also increase your chances of finishing quicker… So maybe I just need to relax
>>34708352Foreplay. Loads and loads of foreplay. But don't think of it as foreplay, but as the main course, with p-on-v as the dessert. Give her an O or two by hand or mouth before you even think about climbing aboard and she won't care how long you last inside.
I have this unless I drink which I very rarely do. Its weird because jorking it I can last however long I want but with sex with current gf its like I can go from 1-100 and nut too fast with little warning whereas jorking I can feel it start to happen. With an ex though I used to be able to last a very long time so I'm not sure why either. Ive considered just saying that I'm going to blast the first nut off then go for seconds because the second wouldn't be nearly as fast.
switch over to eating her pussy every time you feel its time to bust