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How come not a single girl in all of my 30 years of living has ever found me attractive?
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>>34709940
they have. a lot women "show" attraction by glancing at you repeatedly feeling embarrassed and then desperately looking anywhere except at you.
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>>34709965
But women never look at me
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>>34709940
You may be feeling like that because you mentally filter out the women that would find you attractive.
You know very well that if you lowered your standards enough, but you're not gonna do that.
So raise the standards that you expect from yourself. Unfortunately as a man you have to be what you would consider a 10/10 chad before women that interest you even start thinking of you in a romantic way. Good luck.
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>>34709984
People always say this to lie to themselves, nice try.
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>>34710007
I obsessively glance at every woman near me to see if I can catch them looking at me and they never do
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>>34710007
Not OP but why do you think it is impossible for someone on 4chan to be unattractive enough for this to happen?
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>>34710042
It's /adv/ it's hardly 4chan
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>>34709997
Not true. I used to be pretty popular in high school and Stacies were in to me and like 2 or 3 years after leaving school the ugliest of uglies in my entire school like a literal -1/10 added me on Facebook. (I never spoke to her before) I guarantee you event he ugliest of uglies will always go after above average guys. Below average guys literally do not exist for women even handicapped ones retarded ones special ed ones...
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>>34710054
You'd be surprised. A lot of people ask for advice but they don't want to actual improve. Compared to other boards yes this place has less "unusual specimen" but it's still 4chan at the end of the day.
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>>34710054
What boards would you consider yes this is 4chan.
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>>34710069
Probably all of them, >>34710065 is technically correct. I personally just know /b/ /s4s/ /r9k/ /int/ and /pol/, and they all have a level of misery to them that even /adv/ doesn't come close to.
Not to mention that this board has practically no cultural hurdles and you regularly see people basically admitting to being newfags or underage.
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>>34709997
W*men flip the genders around and think something would remain true. You are genuinely retarded and need to off yourself, femon.
>>34710007
Why is the idea that someone is genuinely ugly so hard to accept?
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Stick figure inkwell bread
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>>34709940
Wrong question.

How come you have never been aware of women finding you attractive?
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>>34709940
>>34709984

Because you don't stand out to women or even people in general. You blend in the background of whatever environment or social setting you're in. At best you may get some people to acknowledge your existence but it never goes further beyond that. This isn't solely based on looks or attractiveness. There's plenty of average to even ugly guys who have no problems getting women to take notice of them and date them. You just need to figure out what makes you interesting and learn how to express/display that to others.
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>>34710552
>W*men flip the genders around and think something would remain true. You are genuinely retarded and need to off yourself, femon.
I'm a guy, I just prefer being approached over approaching, and from my experience, and what I've seen happening with my friends is that if you don't approach you NEED to look like a demigod to get with a decent looking woman
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>>34709940
maybe because you're ugly as fuck
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>>34711731
Forgot to mention, you can also be an ugly manlet and have insane game if you just approach, I've seen both happen
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>>34711741
Why are we as men okay with women forcing us to approach?
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>>34711467
I don't do the signal bullshit. Why can't women just say they're interested?
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>>34709940
Because you have gay physiognomy perhaps.
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>>34709940
They have but you tell yourself that to make it feel like your failure was preordained rather than you just being a pussy.
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>>34712902
>>34712407
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>>34709940
because you aren't attractive
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>>34709940
go to /fit/ get gud be more attractive
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>>34712402
Slave mentality that is beaten into every man by their mothers and every woman they come across.
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>>34713168
Bro what. Women don't approach. They don't need to propagandize us into approaching because they can literally force our hand. Unless you're willing to play the long game because around age 40 the dynamic reverses
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>>34713175
The mentality to always serve women and do what they want is propagandized.
Being forced to approach is a natural consequence of that.
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how come all threads with that drawing in the OP are absolute dogshit? could it be that there's a single mangled retard behind all of them?
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>>34713607
He’s been doing it for 9 years too



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