>know woman (call her A) for many years through uni>1st time we met actually made out at party. Nothing happened after>Years later, other party. We ha sex>A goes to other country in couple months> We can have sex and be friends without needing to talk as she will leave country anyway>A returns from abroad>Lot of drama why she had to leave Murica suddenly, so she feels mentally not too good>We meet again couple of times>I help her feel better>A Always weird on text (texting first but then not responding. Texting at night). But when together all fine>After couple meetings, try to kiss her>No anon, sorry, my head if full and I'm not ready for anything right now.>That's no problem A, I dont mi doing slow.>Noo anon, that's not fair to you. I would keep you on hold for yourself.>A has bf 1 month later.>bf cheats on her a year laterNow what?Can't even believe I don't respect myself enough to put this out of my mind.I guess what I wonder about most is if things just went as they did and she told me the truth 'when she wasnt ready' , or whether I was just nice for attention when it suited her...Also not sure what to do now. Our contact already subsided when she got the bf (mostly from her part).
>>34710222Idk man, I read like six words of that. Have this bump to speed things up.
>>34710344Hahaha fucking Goat man. >>34710222So, I was invested enough to read the whole thing, and here's what I have to say -First of all, you're a niggerOkay I'm kidding, you actually sound quite white from the way you write.I will help you along with the usual stuff - women say they aren't ready, means they aren't ready for YOU. They're ready for the Chad when he comes along. Always. Please, I know it's hard, but try to not take it to heart.SOOOOOOO MUCH EASIER SAID THAN DONE. I know brother. I know the IRL pain is just excruciating. But think about it this way - there's nothing back then or today that you could have done or can do, to change the outcome.So what CAN you do? Well, you can learn and change your expectations for the next girl or next interaction with the same girl - you will say to yourself, if she's not on me now, I'd better not hold my breath. Easier said than done, but a mindset of abundance is always better than getting stuck on the same girl. So, don't shed no tears or difficult evenings spent wondering about that girl. You're better than her, and do you know why? Because she's a fucking retard slut like the majority of them. This is why Muslims put them in locked rooms and underdark fabrics covering their full bodies. Those women don't deserve choice, but they have it. You got this brother. Work within the framework. <3 (not justifying Muslims btw I hate them and I would choose this system over theirs every day of the week)
>>34710222first , just understand that when a girl just want you as a friend it's only to talk to other people without her cheating (so she doesn't feel guilty) now , when she told you she wasn't ready it's probably because she wanted to be a "good girlfriend" for her boyfriend and start a real relationship and she probably felt too guilty to admit it to you directly. What you can do now is to not do the same errors again with the next girl. Don't let her think you're easy and dumb. Let her know exactly what you want from the begining
>>34710222Let's talk about a guy named B-B meets girl at party and makes out with her-Years of no contact later B meets girl and has sex-Girl goes away and returns having had some unnamed bad experience-B wants to pick up where they left off -Girl says she can't.-B sulks-Girl finds new guy-B sulks some more
>>34710222>> I.e. a fornicator is surprised when sexual degeneracy backfires on him
>>34710222Just leave, this is your sign, she's crazyIf she's flakey, just don't get attached, and ignore her in a sexual or romantic manner
