I wouldn't consider myself a femcel because some guys have been willing to talk to me but they were never really interested in me. They never asked me questions, tried to make plans or even, sometimes, replied to my messages or initiated conversations. I don't consider myself too ugly. I just think I might be an utterly boring person. Right now, I'm trying to work on myself by learning how to draw and going to the gym.
>>34710337do you have a personality or are you a tiktok npc?
>>34710365What do you mean by personality? I always try to be nice and respectful to people. I don't have any dramatic emotional issues or unusual hobbies. Should I?
>>34710370I mean if you want to be interesting you need to have a personality , nobody can have a conversation with an empty person
>>34710337>I don't consider myself too ugly.You do your hair? You got a skincare routine? Do you know anything about fashion? How's your diet? Are you maybe a bit tall for a woman? Are you smiling? Not saying you have to respect all of these but they will make you more attractive.>I always try to be nice and respectful to people.This could make you a little boring. Start teasing people more so they can feel safe teasing you back.
>>34710398I know it's not my appearance because some men are willing to talk to me for a while but after a few days, they start acting uninterested.
>>34710407what are you conversations with them?
>>34710416It quickly turns into:>Hi! Hope u had a nice weekend >Hi?>Sorry been busy
>>34710613>Hi! Hope u had a nice weekend This is boring small talk and you should be past that once you have their number. If you want to maintain interest, text with purpose. Don't text unless you have something interesting to talk about or want to make plans. Incorporate a little flirting into this to inspire some competitive back-and-forth.
Hola se que a veces también puede aburrirte o sentirte mal por eso pero pues a veces es mejor también cambiar la forma donde buscamos encontrar a alguien. Muchas veces las mejores amistades o noviazgos se consiguen de formas tan espontaneas en el mundo en su vaivén del día a día
>>34710632I don't speak Italian
>>34710613that's the npc questions, do you play any video games?
>>34710337So instead of thinking so deeply about yourself all the timeHow about instead thinking about the guy? What would he be interested in? What would he want to talk about?You’re not hot enough to get away with this kind of full on solipsism so you need to start showing some genuine interest in the guy instead of expecting him to hard carry every conversation. It absolutely does get boring on our side. If they’re fading away without even asking if something is wrong, you never even fully caught their attention to begin with.
>>34710337It really is your looks. That's all it boils down to. As soon as you improve that your life will improve but it takes time and money.
>>34711584I don’t know about that. The distasteful and aggressive feminism shit has thrown kind of a wrench in all that.Obviously can’t speak for everybody but I’d -strongly- rather than have a 4/10 wife who acts like one than a 6+/10 feminist who acts more like a gay roommate than a wife.
>>34710337You're not interesting because you have nothing interesting to talk about. Get some hobbies; have some experiences.
As someone who once considered myself boring and uninteresting and can now at least hold my own in a social setting here are some pieces of advice:1. You become interesting by living life and experiencing things, very few people who just do nothing all day are fun to be around unless they’re born with natural charisma 2. Conversation is all about knowing what questions to ask someone to get them to keep talking. Easier said than done but it comes with practice. 3. You are probably not as boring as you think you are. I used to think I was someone that had no interests and hobbies but the closer I looked at myself, I realized even the tiny things you consider totally mundane can be part of your personality.
>>34710634You dummy! that's brazilian>/threadWhat is so appealing to feel like an interesting person? Does it matter at all?For example, Chris Chan is a fucked up literal mother-fucker that has a goddamn wiki and threads and so much digital ink written about him.Is he interesting? Yes. Of course. But at what cost?The point is: You can try as you like, but it's worthwhile to wonder if the grass is really greener on the other side...
Try keeping conversations going outside of just texting them. I'm sure you're more interesting than you give yourself credit for, but it's a simple fact that because of the nature of texting people, it gives you too much time to overthink your response until you just send them something unengaging making you difficult to connect with.Try sticking to phone calls or, if possible, try to make in-person plans with them. Obviously, if you're using dating apps, it's a bit more tricky, but this should still apply.
>>34710337Hi I'm sure you're interesting and have a life outside of the superficial things post your discord and lets be friends
