I'm 21 and I lack direction in life. I was enrolled in college courses for 2 years but I stopped showing up one day because my social anxiety was downright crippling. When I say it was bad, I mean I'd sustain an erratic heartrate for the entire 50 minute class duration while shaking nervously and stuttering when speaking in front of the class. Like it was fucking baaaaad and it was so humiliating I just couldn't bare to attend class any longer.I'm still technically enrolled but I haven't done shit since the winter. And frankly I'm scared to show back up. I don't even know if I want to finish getting the retarded business degree or if I should just start over / do something else entirely. And part of me is kind of embarrassed to start college over again at 22.All of this is to say I just have no idea what I want to do in life and I really need to figure something out soon. How do I figure out what my purpose is and what it is I want to accomplish? I do have certain strongpoints that people comment on frequently, like how I have a very soothing deep voice. Should I look into voicework?
>>34710402Become a recluse and stay away from people. That's when it'll come to you. People like you only thrive when they become hermits. You're too weak and self conscious to be around people consistently. Isolating is actually good for people like you. Remove and/or stop doing anything that gives you anxiety or makes you nervous.
>>34710443>Remove and/or stop doing anything that gives you anxiety or makes you nervous.Wouldn't a better option to be become more socially savvy
hola se que es muy dificil saber el hecho de que los demas pueden hablar o simplemente socializar de la manera mas facil y tu no. Pero eso no significa que seas mala lo que significa es que tienes tu personalidad honestamente lo que creo posible para superar tu capacidad de socializar seria pidiendo ayuda a alguien . si se que te da cosa hablarle a la gente pero si preguntas como lo haces por aqui tu veras resultados diferentes y una buena experiencia claro que tienes que saber a quien preguntarle. Animo sigue adelante las personas como tu son personas muy capaces solo tienen que dar sus pasos
