How do you get a girlfriend if you're troubled? (overworked, studying for a competitive test, micromanaging troublesome relatives, NEET or laid off).I mean, the only thing in your mind at that point is the trouble and the circumstances surrounding it. Sometimes that last years, how do people get together in these conditions?
>>34710970>overworkedGet a better job.>studying for a competitive testWait until it's over>micromanaging troublesome relativesYou're fucked if you don't get someone to share the burden.>NEET or laid offYou have all the time in the world to get a GF.
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Divine benevolence. I'm 100% serious and unironic. Has nothing to do with the religion too. You have to tap into your destiny and feel it flowing around you. Look for patterns in your life and follow them. Yes , I know it sounds schizophrenic, but this is how it went for me and how I realized it's real.
>>34710970>(overworked, studying for a competitive test, micromanaging troublesome relatives, NEET or laid off).Which are you? some of those are opposite. You are better off busy because women tend to choose what they can't have.
>>34710970Divine intervention. Pretty sure of that at this point if nothing else.
>>34711651Currently NEET. I forgot my entire field of study and need to remember all of it if I want to work from the thing I graduated from again. I don't really like it but otherwise I would only get minimum wage jobs like someone who never went to college in the first place. After that I would have to job hunt and move abroad, which I'm uncomfortable doing but living in a shithole goes nowhere. It seems that I couldn't force myself to finish studying in 6 months, but I've been doing nothing productive for so long that I'm feeling ashamed of not seeing my life go anywhere any longer. My family are all no fun allowed so I can't reach out to them and lay the pressure off. Anyways, that doesn't have anything to do with the question. The question was what can you do to get a girlfriend when relaxing seems to work against you, or when stress has piled up so much you can't get thinking of responsibilities off you at any moment.I have never had a girlfriend. I don't know how the social game works. I am ashamed of sharing my unhappiness with other people and I know people out there are looking for high value and not wrecks. I'm 31. All I want is someone to carry the load with, because life can't just be chasing after the next thing. Like, I and my family are the only retards self-sabotaging like this.But I get likes attract likes and maybe there's no other option but be a lonely wreck until some despairing woman picks me up.
>>34712819you need to get really physically fit or have some status or money/job so work on getting fit because you have the time. You aren't going to get hired by anyone so forget about that. Also if you have stylish clothes and are a bad boy that can work.
