Tonight she sat me down and decided to tell me about how she used to whore herself out to pay bills or bring food to the table when her meth head dad left. Do I break up or just tank it?
>very low effort bait
>>34711464Bruh I wish, we been fighting about her bragging about her past at a party, god when i type it out i'm actually such a fucking cuck I should kms
If she was whoring herself out to a bunch of guys to make ends meet, I think you should still leave. It sounds like it's eating away at you, and all those guys in town will laugh at you dating the town bike. The only way I would even consider staying is if she cooked, clean, and sucked your dick on command with no bitching. Even then I would do the latter while you find a better quality woman. Weigh your options and make your choice, sleep on it if you have to.
>>34711469>her bragging about her past at a partyyikesthat's not good, anoni was about to ask you if she truly regretted it and was remorseful about it but i guess that's not the casebut if the sex is nice then enjoy yourself while at it, but break it off soon
>>34711478I learned about all this tonight so I'm trying to figure out how i feel
>>34711491I mean unlike her apparently I have feelings and i'm a beta incel who hates making people upset. She is remorseful when I confronted her but means nothing compared to how she talked about it before I was upset
>>34711453The bragging is what killed her chances. I can't tell you how to handle your shit it's your relationship but if it were me I'd leave the minute I hear her bragging. Shitposting and Chad larping aside, if a man dates or marries a former prostitute or whore and she is trying to be a better person, then I give respect to the guy who marries her because it takes a lot of humility and kindness to be the guy who shows her what real love is. But if she brags about it? Nah fuck that.
>>34711453Honestly, if someone has to do something bad because it's literally the only thing between them and starving to death, then I generally tend not to judge them too harshly for doing it. But if you feel that she should have chosen to die rather than make a person that she didn't, at that time, know existed feel like a cuck several years later, then I guess you can condemn her for that; obviously her being forced to turn to prostitution was entirely about you, not about her.
>>34711491Exactly. Whores do indeed brag. Because they brag, and in this case in public, no man can claim to be fooled by a devious slut. You meet a woman you think you want to date just do a little digging. It doesn't take much. Social media post or the people she associates with or just keep your ears and eyes open and don't dismiss the warning signs.
>>34711513I mean I phrased it bad, we were playing a drinking game and she was just saying shit she did, but doing that while hitting a little dance and also she had told me she had a bc of 4 which I know aint true now. This was an argument that led to tonight and her telling me that shit. Idk I'm blind cause I love her but jesus I feel so pathetic
>>34711516Most whores don't do it for survivalism, they do it because no dad = no discipline, they never learned how to handle their own shit & they got an empty void of fatherly love so they become addicted to male attention = they want to be paid just to have an orgasm. That's why they brag because they know it's a hustle, and they typically think men are dumb as shit for falling for it.
>>34711519She did a dance while telling you she used to be a whore? The fuck lol
>>34711522>That's why they brag because they know it's a hustle, and they typically think men are dumb as shit for falling for itThey do indeed consider it a power move. They are in control. All men desire them, even willing to pay.
If she didn't have money it's unfortunate but she didn't do it because she enjoyed it
>>34711524Eh more like a lil shimmy or a pose or something, she wasn't talking to me she was talking to her friends
>>34711534>They are in controlIndeed & Indubitably pilled. This is because close to 75-80% of men haven't figured out what women can do with their minds. Or more specifically what they can do to a man's mind lol
>>34711540>Eh more like a lil shimmy or a pose or something, she wasn't talking to me she was talking to her friendsWere they female friends?
>>34711542Of fucking course they were Idk I just feel like an insect lmao >>34711542
>>34711549Okay so you need to have the big talk with your girl then. Ask her if she is lying about lying, because if she deliberately socially humiliated herself in front of other girls that could have been a social strategy to keep other girls away from you. Girls make these social war games all the time and men typically can't interpret it. But basically by self deprecating in front of them, it signals to the other girls that they won't want to be like her, they will look at you are will stop looking at you like they want to covet you from her. Women are covetous and vain and often jealous that's their female version of how men are aggressive and prideful and solitary. Women have their own world of social tactics, and you should ask your GF if that's what's going on. Girls dont bother telling their guys about it because they automatically assume we won't get it or understand
>>34711554I know she isn't lying, she whored herself out from 16 to make ends meet for her stupid ass family. I feel like I have so much less respect for her because she had to clarify that after starting that she got into hookup culture too cause it was all she knew
>>34711554>>34711549The reason why girls do this even in front of their men, is when it comes to idk what the chicks call it "emotional intelligence" they 100% are convinced that men are as dumb as a sack of hammers. They love us but they think we're too air headed to notice the social cunning they run on other girls, they play 4D chess shit all the time to secure a man and keep other girls away
>>34711559Who knows if she she did honestly. Sorry if in projecting skepticism, it's just I've been with plenty of chicks. I've seen this shit, they will lie about the darndest things to test the man or to social signal against other women. One chick I dated lied her dad raped her, it was to see how I'd react. One lied I got her pregnant, it was to see how I'd react. One lied she had a body count of close to 59, it was to see how I'd react. One lied that she wanted to cut her tits off, it was to see how I'd react. Women are spooky like that
Dude she told you all this shit while literally fortnite dancing at youThis goes nowhere good
>>34711567At her friends lol. That's the weirdest part either she deliberately socially fucked her own shit to ward off female competitors or her goofy ass was bragging.. about OP. That she feels lucky to have him, a guy who chose to love her despite her mistakes and she was flexing on the other girls about it.
>>34711570Lmao
>>34711505If it helps, i dated a former gfe escort. She told me she was an escort one night and obviously I couldn't believe it. She quitted afterwards and we started a relationship. Still I couldn't forget her past and even though she was a "high" class escort, it does bring a lot of insecurities (such as, how many people, how many threesome/potential sex parties, is she still having sex with other clients on my back).In the end I couldn't make it work. So we broke up. She still wants me. But I cannot be committed to that relationship.
>>34711559Anyway dude women are weird, all of them are, even the virgin ones and the prostitute ones, they are all indirect as fuck socially, all of them play this social smoke and mirror game. That shits just how they are. If she has quit the old life and you love her and she loves you, then do what you wish with that it's your life, don't let any other man's judgement tell you what to do. You are supposed to know what you want.You say it makes you feel like a cuck insect. Ask yourself is this because she makes you feel that? Or is it your imagined reaction of the other men? Are you worried about her love for you or is it about respect from other guys? Figure out which one and go from there. If the love is secure, then you might wanna think on it more.
>>34711453There are ways to make money without being a whore. Its the easy temporary way out. Society doesn't need more lazy immoral people. Obviously her mind logically can realize that. Maybe it isn't even true and she wants you to break up with her. Personally I think you should set her aside kindly. No need to tell everyone since it's her thing to deal with in life.
>>34711580I don't understand this perspective. If I would be a hot girl in this modern times. I'd milk simps by having an only fans. That's the most profitable money path.So most attractive people nowadays are whores after all. It's part of the current game
>>34711469>bragging about her pasObviously a coping mechanism to help her reframe it as less traumatic.Anyway if you don't love her just leave her. You don't necessarily owe her anything. If it's important to you that your partner/girlfriend/spouse or whatever not have a troubled past try and find someone without one.
>>34711583It's the ones with weak dads that whore themselves usually. Girls are supposed to get their fill of male attention as babies/infants, the attention kind y'know a dad who actually shows interest in all their little games and activities and interests and that sort of thing. If she has a dad who just sat there like a drunk toad in the sofa, she got no attention from the chief male in her life it means she gonna fill that void by filling her purse with simp money or filling her holes with strangers
>>34711590Oh 100% agree, my previous gf went indeed into prostitution because of her stupid dad. Dad was too cold/high expectations for everyone (except for himself), so she couldn't meet her impossible demands and feel loved by him. Due to that trauma she went into escorting to feel desired/attractive to men as she was very anxious about dating and meeting expectations and according to her own words. She could date within a safe environment and have some control over the dates. Stupid ass dad, because she was a beautiful flower as a kid and she probably was stomped by him. And now you got a broken ex whore out there because of his actions.
Thread full of esl Indians.
>>34711596Yeah it's a cycle. And 9/10 times it's because the dad married a girl who did the same thing. Usually a dad who just met himself get seduced cuz he was really desperate for female validation and then they marry and she either goes full nagging wine mom or she cheats and his pride is gutted like a fish and the daughter just has to raise herself, a meme as old as time.
>>34711583Because you ruin your reputation. No Christian man wants a whore. If you only care about money, you can do what Mindy Minx did. She found a solid old guy who wanted to please her and is retired. She doesn't have to work and gets a fake job selling products on YouTube. Hes not even rich but he has enough that they live comfortably.
>>34711601>No Christian man wants a whoreActual Christian males simply want a woman who wishes to share in the faith. Their past is irrelevant since the Christian man is usually an ex degenerate as well.
>>34711590>>34711596This. Most of these women had bad Dads and were fatherless. The only thing that helps is if they found a loving church.
>>34711598Good insight, I think in this case is mostly the dad's fault though, a bit autistic and cold, so everyone had to meet his demands and imagine a young kid being 10-16 wanting a connection with your dad and being ignored because you're not good enough to engage with an adult (which is your fucking father).Some people shouldn't have kids.
>>34711602Thats not really true. Christian man wants a Christian virgin.
>>34711601Well I'm saying between that and sending simps my feet pic and maybe a butt pic i would do the latter (meaning i can simp for millions not 200 bucks per month as the vast majority out there).Society would still push for the ultra degenerate path (unless you're born within a rich household with loving parents as to not whore yourself out)
>>34711605Yeah the Trad Larpers do sure. But remember the story if the Prodigal Son & The Prideful Son Not every Christian is a prideful son. Some are prodigals who understand that virginity ≠ chastity. Men who used to be from the social underworld themselves and found God. They're the last people to deny or reject a girl from a troubled past, their joy is watching her heal.
>>34711469break up, the sheer lack of class.Imagine her telling your future daughter that's an okay thing to do because she fid it, and look how she turned out.It also puts you in a new light to others, you had to settle for a whore, not just a fat normal girl.An actual prostitute.
>>34711549you should have dumped her on the spot dude, I'm leaving this thread. You're a very obvious lost cause.
>>34711541The irony. Over half the worlds population was born with a vagina but men forget that and focus on one and live with all types of shit to hold on. Men lose everything for an obsession with one vagina.
>>34711554She didn't humiliate herself in front of her friends she humiliated OP in front of her friends.
>>34711453OP ask her if she was doing the bragging fortnite dance in front of her friends when she announced she used to be a hoe, was she doing that to brag about being a hoe or was it to brag to make her 'friends' jealous (bragging about you and being your GF)?Remember that females cannot be friends with other females, that is a total lie. The saying is this:>Males: "Keep your friends close..>Females: ..but keep your enemies closer."A "friend" in womanese has two meanings:Male friend = an option Female friend = enemy Her whole truffle shuffle fortnite dab shit she did could have basically meant "Kek dumb bitches look at me I got a kind man who actually looks past my flaws and loves me. What do you dumb sluts have? Some piece of dick that throws a tantrum because you dont look like the instathot he masturbates to behind your back? Get fucked cunts."Yes women behave like this
>>34711672>She didn't humiliate herself in front of her friends she humiliated OP in front of her friends.This would be true if women were a hivemind and their whole operation is to drag males around for fun and get the other female ants to laugh. Reality is, yes they're a social hive but the ants don't cooperate the ants passively murder each other socially in a bid to become queen bee, and they do that by competing for high value men and in the girlsphere a high value man is the one who can emotionally bond exclusively with her and no one else. The goal is to make the other female ants feel mogged. This is called flaunting the preselection bias. Women do this all the time it's why they take pictures of their diamond wedding rings to post on social media it's to make other women feel cuckedThe more 'tests' or 'assignments' the man passes the higher and higher his value goes, one big value boost is if the man knows she has a troubled past yet chooses her anyway. Women would knife each other in their sleep to have that
>>34711744A way for men to understand it is this: The movie "Hunger Games" it's a big tournament with 100 or so contestants who fight to the death and only one person gets to live. If they are popular they will get support and cheer and provisions sent to them by adoring fans if they are socially notable.That is 1:1 exactly how females see the world of dating and relationships and competing with other women. It's also why women binge those books and movies like junk food.
>>34711744Are women catty with each other, of course. Rivals, yes. But even frenemys will cover for any woman in the group. They all have secrets and they all know each others secrets. Those girls she crowed her exploits in front of already knew or most of them did. It wasn't a secret. Even OP kinda knew. I was fucking this married coworker that lived in another state. Some of our tryst were in the apartment of another female coworker that shit talked (all true by the way but because I was not emotionally attached didn't give a shit) this married woman. This hater coworker still loaned us the apartment. But even this whore never boasted about banging other men around her "friends" when I was around
>>34711765If a woman wants to destroy another woman, especially if she is a married woman, she will convince her to cheat or leave her man and if she has the chance to loan her an apartment to make sure she ruins her life, she'll give it. The married cheater ain't gonna brag because if she does that, her security tanks, she loses her supply (husband) and every single woman will drag her socially the minute the divorce hits then all her 'friends' call her a whore. And then one of the girls milks her ex husband like a farm cow and seduces him to get him to marry her instead. That's how it goes.If a woman wants a married man, she will either try to seduce him and if that doesn't work, she'll try to get his wife to ruin herself or the marriage
>>34711791>>34711765This is where females measure a man's value btw. They want to know how resistant is he against women's seduction (this is why they hate simps) and they want to know if he has at least 1% of an understanding of how females are (this is why they prefer non virgin men). Because they want the man to be wise to all the tricks so that when she marries him she feels 100% secure in that marriage, that all the harpies are locked outside in the cold and the man isn't aching to say hello to them
>>34711805I have fucked 4 different married women. I made it clear fucking was all they would get from me not an exit door for an unhappy marriage. They were relieved. All these women wanted was a good time and go home to their life. They propositioned me first but their calculation was this guy knows what he is doing and will not get attached and fuck up my life. They all want uninhibited, non judgemental sex. They can do anything they heard of or imagined and be taught a thing or two. Enjoy themselves relaxed without a care and then go home. Most enlisted help of friends and in one instance her own mother would drop her off at a hotel late night and pick her up the following morning. Her cover was spending the night with mom away from the kids and her husband.
>>34711851You don't seem to get it, you never were an exit door, they were relieved because you just said "I won't tell anyone what you are". That's where the relief comes from, that you won't blab or be out for revenge if you get rejected after catching feelings. What you don't want to find out though is what the married women whisper about the man who fucks married women. You're the fall guy if they ever get found out, you know that right? The married woman already has 10+ people in the background to corroborate a story that you were a sex pest or a manipulator or some type of villain and if they get found out, they take someone down with them to try to save their own skin. Be careful man
>>34711851>>34711883Seriously bro, don't play with fire, in just saying that man to man. You done fucked 4 black widow spiders basically. It's not their men you need to fear when you get found out, it's the married cheating woman herself. The lengths they go to in order to save what they socially worked hard for (their big day, marriage) is incalculable and their social fury knows no limits. They might not be able to physically hurt you, but socially your life is just gone. Either through rumor or false accusations from people you never even met, your name passed around communities you don't know exist and through places of employment, it's crazy
>>34711522>>34711534>>34711541How many sex workers have you guys known personally, that you've become such experts?
>>347119130 (zero) never paid the prostitute in just a guy who grew up in a pretty fucked part of life and I know the game, I just refused to play it
>>34711453Does she let you fuck her throat?
>>34711921So, in other words, you're just guessing?
>>34713378If you want to play Captain Save-A-Ho that's your prerogative but don't try to guilt other men into footing the bill for dumb Woman Moments.
>>34713378Not guessing at all, I've had to help lots of guys who got themselves into trouble with prostitutes, they've showed me their DMs and the shit they typically say about clients behind their back. You don't have to fuck individuals in order to gauge their mindset did you know that?
>>34711453Depends. Were you the one who saved her?
>>34711453She gets points for the honesty, at least.If you've already been having sex, it's not that different from what you're doing and presumably would have accepted in her past, so if anything, it's a green flag that she's willing to be this vulnerable with you.>>34711469>>34711519Wait, what? Nasty.I still don't think she deserves to be flipped out on, since the truth did come from her, but it's hardly a good sign that she outright lied to you about her past.
>>34711516No woman in the West is going to starve by not whoring herself out.