>girl seems excited about our second date>have been friends for a year but things recently shifted partly because now both single/available>ends up saying she’s sick the night before>has used this excuse before but was also legimiately sick that time>she seems genuinely disappointed, says “i think it’s not okay, let me make it up to you?”>say “lol how will you do that?” in a playful tone + “it’s okay, you cant control being sick” etc etc>has fucking disappeared and never texted backIt’s been a week now. I just don’t get it.
>>34711492Have you messaged her recently?
>>34711495No. I figured the ball’s in her court. We’d been planning the date for weeks (brutal work schedules) and she has a history of cancelling as friends at least.
>>34711492I'll make a suggestion. No man should focus all his attention on one woman. When you do you become angst riddled and cannot think straight. No man is the only man a woman is seeing.
>>34711525This.Imagine all this for a woman who’s ultimately “talking to” several other guys>>34711514It is in her court. She just doesn’t care.
>>34711548I just have a hard time accepting a friend would let me down in such a shitty way as leading me on and then ghosting. She’d even said she had feelings for me too and was suggesting other dates
>>34711586Sorry to inform you OP but being a friend or maybe lover or lover still doesn't mean there are no other men she gives access. At best you are sharing space with at least one other man and likely that is where she is right now. She'll float back around ultimately. Your issue is having expectations of being more than a friend. Her issue now is knowing for sure you do so she has to start lying.
>>34711742I don’t think there’s another man, she just isn’t interested in me. I just won’t talk to her anymore or initiate and it will die, so no pressure anymore
>>34711492have sex with her faggot
