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Why do women have to send signals instead of just telling you how they feel?
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They actually tell how they feel way too much. All they talk about is their damn feelings.
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>>34712544
Why is attraction the one feeling they don't want to tell?
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>>34712562
Why do you assume they're attracted to you and just too nervous to tell you? That's an extremely bold assumption, not to mention pure projection on your part.
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Because they don't have to, men are going to approach then anyway. If you didn't have to do something, why would you do it?
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women dont 'send signals' much more often than men
when flirting they do because its socially efficient
you get to field more attention from the men you want and less attention from the men you dont without having to outright reject or accept someone who may not have been aware to begin with

but other than flirting that idea doesnt really apply
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>>34712539
Because Schrödingers attraction states that a woman can feel interested and not interested at the same time and that this superposition collapses the second it becomes clear whether the man is going to ask her out or not
TLDR if she needs to tell you it means she already lost interest
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>>34712539
this is only true in patriarchal societies. women are socialized to let men take the lead or they're not feminine. the majority of them are also insecure. in matriarchal societies this does not apply and women straight up walk up to you and tell you they want to fuck you
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>>34712539
women that are forward like that get shamed as whorish sluts starting at about 12 years old by men & women until they reel it in and only do signals
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>>34715603
>this is only true in patriarchal societies
So all of them?
>matriarchial society
where are these mythical matriarchal societies where women court (average) men? I don't think anything like that has ever existed in the history of humankind.
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>>34715634
in my home country (Philippines) i witnessed it everyday. i remember girls walking up to me and asking me for my number. theyre also more open about expressing their attraction for men. its hard to fathom this unless youve grown up there yourself. i dont know if that still happens since i havent lived there for 16 years.



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