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How do I stop being a shallow horndog?

At one point in my life I used to date with purpose, not just chasing cars, but ever since I hit 30 my standards have just plummeted to rock bottom. These days I'm willing to entertain any woman whom I'm even a modicum attracted to and it keeps biting me in the ass because i find out later on either theyre a piece of shit or we were just incompatible, yet when I see some fat tits, a nice figure, and a plump ass my mind instantly wipes and suddenly I'm willing to ignore red flags or even if she's a decent woman just to get my dick wet. Any tips to get back on the ball to vet people properly?
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develop some self control unironically
this is just an issue with not slapping yourself in the face when you have those impulses
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>>34712924
Any tips to strengthen it? I do agree it's a self control issue.
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>>34712929
when you have the impulse recognize it
when you start to move on the impulse move in the opposite direction

same with anything destructive that is a habit and you want changed
usually this can be done by removing temptation in general since we're not that strong as humans to resist it
but when we cant the next best thing is removing yourself from the situation or making an actual mental effort to think about something else or the reasons why you dont want to engage
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>>34712916
God fucking damn I would drag my balls through a thousand miles of broken glass just to cum on Snarky Jay's face.
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>>34713282
She just posted her Moana live action review today and I swear to almighty christ I almost nutted seeing her walk up to the camera in the outfit she was wearing. I dunno whose fucking that but I salute him.
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>>34713131
I get what you're saying but I think it's more of a mental thing. I dont cold approach every hot bitch I see, but moreso I'll check them out and then immediately start thinking about what it would be like if I had them bent over or just fucked them in the back of my car. So whenever I do decide to engage with a chick, I'm quickly smitten by sex because the whole reason I even dealt with her was because I wanted to fuck, but that's made me waste time on bad ventures so I'm trying to learn how to see women past some tits and ass....but man is it hard.
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>>34713692
Nah, that just means you're attracted to Samoans but haven't realized it yet.



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