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Hi, I hope I’m not bothering, feel free to reply or not. (Sorry for any mistakes; English isn't my first language.) Since I was young, I’ve really struggled to make friends or talk to people; I’m too introverted and can’t find anyone who shares my interests. It’s only getting worse as I get older. I’m 20 now, and I spend my days in my room doing absolutely nothing but scrolling and playing games on my computer. Naturally, I’ve developed an addiction to hentai and adult content, though I’m too scared to actually finger myself (I just can't manage it physically). As you might guess, my love life and sex life are non-existent. Then again, I’m far from pretty—I’ve known that for a long time; I’m underweight, only 145 cm tall, and flat-chested. I feel like I’m at rock bottom and losing hope. I’m posting this just in case someone has an idea to help me improve—both physically and in terms of my personality. Thanks for reading.
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i can't tell what's bait anymore
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>Since I was young, I’ve really struggled to make friends or talk to people; I’m too introverted and can’t find anyone who shares my interests.
interests don't matter as much as shared experiences do
you can have not much in common with another person, but if you go through crazy things together, you'll naturally form strong bonds and build trust
this is especially true as people get older, you need to go through shared experiences in order to form lasting relationships, otherwise it will feel shallow and frustrating
"shared experiences" can mean different things, like school or urban exploration or camping trips or working on a boat together or sparring or whatever
>I’m 20 now, and I spend my days in my room doing absolutely nothing but scrolling and playing games on my computer.
do you live at home?
did you go to school?
you should probably give more context to your life, what it's like rn, what direction it had & has, things you feel led up to it
if you want better advice
>As you might guess, my love life and sex life are non-existent.
these things take care of themselves when you're living properly, so please try not to ruminate on them
>I feel like I’m at rock bottom and losing hope. I’m posting this just in case someone has an idea to help me improve—both physically and in terms of my personality.
those things are mostly irrelevant, you should focus on doing the right things instead



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