Everywhere I go when they notice me they do sudden involuntary movements like push their hair back or touch their head. It makes me feel weird and self conscious like I’m in the Truman show and can potentially put me in danger since women do this involuntarily in front of their boyfriends or husband. I’ve thought about wearing a mask but that aside from looking suspicious it will draw even more attention. Thoughts on what to do here? I like walking innawoods the best but live in an area where I can’t do that everyday to unwind and have to participate in society.
wear gay clothing
>>34716587They're just fidgeting because they're uncomfortable being in your presence. Especially when you're staring at them all the time analyzing their movements and trying to look for "signs and hints" you saw in PUA redpill videos so you can delude yourself into thinking they want to fuck you.The solution is to just stop looking at them and mind your own fucking business when you go out instead of ogling women to see if they flip their hair and imagining that's some sign she wants to give you a blowjob.
>>34716587I've been a retard my entire life and I never bothered to learn women's social signals until now as a married dude. I wish I could unlearn it now because I notice the stares and when they pull away and smile, and it's freaking me out because I don't want my wife to feel shit. Had the same involuntary look from a girl with her boyfriend as well and dude was taller than me and in thinking to myself "fuck fuck fuck. Big bro is gonna start shit" Anyway it's not a mask you need to get the looks away, women only look for facial symmetry as far as male looks go. Here's what I found out about women, this is what they visually scan for within 2 seconds of looking at a man:>Face symmetry, specifically his eyes and his mouth >Upper body, specifically shoulders and chest >His posture >His clothing >His left hand (looking for a ring) That's just the first 2 seconds. If you show any behavioural signals that sign "safety" she looks even longer. If you're smiling, being nice to an animal or an elder or if you're walking with your girlfriend or wife, basically if you seem prosocial, they will stare and throw out signals to you. Apparently 54% of all women consciously do this, and a chunk do it without thinking and the others are just zoned out and it's a coincidence. Shits crazy
>>34716622Im literally wearing sunglasses not even looking at them and they do it to get my attention you dumb fuck
Get checked for schizophrenia Are you actually a 11/10? If not check your ego. You are almost certainly overreacting to normal things women do. They touch their hair because they care about their looks (especially if with their partner), not because they care about you
>>34716634>Thinks he has to be 11/10 to get a look from a womanLow self esteem as fuck
>>34716631You have to be looking at them to notice them uncomfortably fidgeting in the first place you even dumber fuck.Here's a very easy way to check: next time you notice this happening, go up to one and try chatting her up and see if she's responsive (beyond the polite courtesy women show even to freaks like you). >buh-buh their boyfriends are gunna beat me up!Sounds like you're just making an excuse for yourself because deep down you already knew the truth. If you really are attractive to women it wouldn't be exclusive to girls who have big hulking boyfriends.>>34716627You're probably a bit deluded as well but you have no idea how heavy pre-selection can carry you. Even if you're not wearing a ring, even if you're meeting them for the first time in both your lives and they know nothing about you, a woman can still tell if you're fucking another woman or not. It's their sixth sense. And if one woman can tolerate you, then obviously you're not so bad.OP just sounds like a deluded lonely schizo.
>>34716634Im pretty sexy but it’s definitely the same movement from a lot of women at the same exact moment of noticing me.
>>34716663You’re obviously a seething woman or physical reject of a male who is upset that people can pick up on your NPC ass involuntary behaviors bot
>>34716653He’s saying that he gets excessive female attention to the point where he needed to make a post for help getting rid of it lmfao. Do you really thing your average dude experiences this?Obviously if you’re average it’s possible some women might be attracted to you. But not to the amount that OP self-describes.
>>34716670You're obviously getting angry because you're being confronted with an uncomfortable truth about yourself and it's damaging your self-image.Nothing more NPC than that, really. You're literally demonstrating in real time that you don't have self-awareness.
>>34716663I'm not deluded, I am walking past them in narrow streets and I am looking where I am going to skirt past them because if I don't look where I am going I am bumping into people. So yes my eyes happen to glance over the woman but when I do that she's been eyeballing me. One girl even turned back to keep looking at me. I don't think OP is a schizo, if he has broad shoulder to waist ratio it does it. If his face has symmetry, even an 'ugly' symmetry can do it, if he was in the middle of smiling or laughing, that does it, or idk walking an old lady across a street. Women are looking for visual cues that say "This man is not a danger in fact he is the opposite he is a sweetheart". When they see those signals she becomes attracted. Because the main ingredient of a woman's attraction compass is security, that's just reality.But whether or not a girl acts on it is a different matter. Most don't, because most women don't initiate to begin with. The way women make moves is passive signalling. And what makes it strange is 54% of them consciously throw out the signals on purpose with the hope the guy approaches. So 54% of women out there are hoping the man cheats his girlfriend for her.
>>34716587thats nice dear
>>34716664Well first you need to actually confirm it’s not just in your head. Go out ugly asf, wear stained clothes or some shit and put on a mask and glasses and a beanie. Preferably ugly and clashing. That should stop any “flirtatious” gestures and if it doesn’t then you might be a lil insane.Obviously if you’re like 6’6” or something ridiculous people are gonna stare anyways, but if you look weird and awkward instead of hot they should react differently
>>34716688From the typing it’s obviously a man hating woman or other such adjacent creature. That can’t fathom you have to look where you are walking on narrow sidewalks because it never goes outside. Of course I’m not schizo these signals are so fucking obvious it’s painful which is why I made the post it’s awkward.
>>34716710If you want to get the looks to stop, you need to dress more antisocial. Thicker clothing hides the shoulder ratio, conceal your hands by keeping in pockets, and if you catch a stare break the stare and avert gaze that should do the trick.
Alright the consensus seems to dress like a retarded clown. That would draw more attention than dressing normally honestly but I’ll try.
>>34716738>>34716710But do note, apparently some women get pretty pissed or hurt if you do that by averting your eyes away on purpose. This is probably why male autists ain't getting shit because averting eye contact is a slap to their vanity and they are repelled. Male autists suck at eye contact and avert the gaze by default
>>34716710>Bro every woman I see in public becomes obsessed with me and gives me "I wanna fuck" signals like I read in that Roosh V blogpost but it's so awkward and their boyfriends always want to beat me up!Schizophrenia and narcissism are often cluster conditions. It's not too late to get on a solid dose of Abilify or Seroquel, get involved in a good group therapy with a qualified mediator, and come back to the world of reality.>>34716688>But whether or not a girl acts on it is a different matter. Most don't, because most women don't initiate to begin with. The way women make moves is passive signalling. And what makes it strange is 54% of them consciously throw out the signals on purpose with the hope the guy approaches. So 54% of women out there are hoping the man cheats his girlfriend for her.This statistical nerd shit is put out into the world with the purpose of inflating low-esteem autist's egos and make them interpret every flip of the hair or eye contact as some secret symbol that they want to fuck.The truth is, not one of you supermodels has actually tried GOING UP AND TALKING TO THEM. I don't care that you are married, there's nothing that says you can't just have a conversation with a woman. That's the actual barometer of whether or not she wants to fuck you, or if she's just staring because you have a booger. I've had girls stare at me all night in parties or bars, just for them to totally disregard me when I actually shoot my shot. It happens, we're all human, but very conveniently, none of you supposed gigachads getting all this female sexual attention actually want to take that leap, because it would shatter the thin ice of your delusions and plunge you into the cold water of reality.
>>34716803I can see why you give all the girls the ick. Thankfully not all of us are like you
>>34716811You can say whatever you want, at least I'm not a coward living in my own head like >(You)
>>34716825Im not in my own head. I offer real world observations while you are shilling big pharma drugs and running cover for women’s frankly embarrassing tendency of showing involuntary attraction.
>>34716851>I don't live in my head! I just spend hours obsessing and micro-analyzing strangers' small movements and feel so self-conscious about it I need to try and talk about it with strangers on the internet!Even if what you were saying about the women being attracted to you were true, there is no way to deny that you're doing greentext related.Honestly, this is starting to toe that line between "funny" and "sad" that exists for messing with retarded, crazy people. I hope you can find peace, even if more likely than not it comes from a pill bottle.
>>34716891>Micro analyzing strangers small movements They are quite obvious and there is not much to micro analyze. The whole point of the thread. The rest is projection because you are unfuckable I guess.
smell bad, wear uncool clothes and don't shave and walk around without styling your hairthis is obvious how is this even a question
>>34716803>The truth is, not one of you supermodels has actually tried GOING UP AND TALKING TO THEM.Yeah I'll admit to that, I'm the married anon. I've never cold approached a single woman in my entire life because I have street smarts and I know that when you run that shit, you look either desperate or spooky. It only works if you're in an established social context. Or if you're with a group and you leave the group to go make the pass. If you're out there like some lone wolf doing that the public thinks you're the town rapist lol.All of the chicks I was ever with approached me first. One drunk girl even tried to grab me by the arm and yank me into a guest bedroom at a house party, total strange girl. I pulled away and told her no thanks. And the thing is I'm not a supermodel I can assure you, most of the incels here mog me in lots of physical attributes. If you think women are playing it by looks, and you tried preening yourself to look like a chad most girls think that's vanity and they associate that with being feminine or closet gay.I'm not saying this to be a dick just passing the message
>>34716751>Alright the consensus seems to dress like a retarded clown. That would draw more attention than dressing normally honestly but I’ll try.Yeah just do shit that goes against social grain. If it's cold out, wear shorts. If it's hot out, a jacket. Make yourself look like a social retard and the girls go away
>>34716587These are just boring expressions of casual social interest. They aren't necessarily thinking about having sex with you or even being in the slightest casually attracted or turned on to you. Trust me, when a chick is genuinely attracted, you'll _know_. She'll literally be scheming for you two to be physically close together in that special and intimate way.
>>34717676Well in order to even be scheming to be close together and intimate you have to be quite close already. And it’s fucking weird to have boring expressions of casual social interest to randoms. I don’t quite follow.
>>34717961>And it’s fucking weird to have boring expressions of casual social interest to randoms. I don’t quite follow.You're a mentally ill schizo with obsessive thought patterns and narcissistic delusions, it figures that you think normal human behavior is weird and that you can't follow it.
>>34717975I hope you ain't a guy because you sound really catty and jealous that's something I'd expect from a girl
>>34717980>you must be a girl because you're jealous of me...a guy...who is getting girls....You know, making half-cocked arguments with no logical bearing because you're emotionally disturbed by the deconstruction of your self-image is classic NPD.
>>34717983>Classic NPDLmao diagnosing people from your phone /computer in your bedroom. Yes I am the heckin' evil narcissist! Give me your mental energy so I can transform into the Narcissus Maximus Vampire. Get a grip.
>>34717983Also>Deconstruction of your self imageYeah self implies self. Only the individual understands their own self image. The fact you think you can deconstruct other people's self image for them over the internet shows you're full of hubris. Might wanna take a different guess on who the "NPD" is or something
>>34717987You're certainly being an emotional vampire with me right now with every indignant, unqualified response you make to me with quickdraw, rapid fire speed.I left the thread several hours ago to go do shit and only checked in out of boredom because I'm between sets at the gym. What the fuck did you do all day except for waiting for me to respond because you got your fee fees hurt?
>>34717993Oh, wow, a double reply! You really are upset, aren't you?
>>34717994>Waiting for you to respondYeah that's right I was by my computer lying in wait for you, because you're the center of my life, it's your world I just love in it. Holy shit you're so full of yourself. Anyway I'm not the guy you were arguing with, get a grip
>>34717994>>34717983This dudes a fag and needs to get beaten up asap, sounds like a catty British homo. Kill his family
>>34718036It was a good laugh I’m OP pls spare his family (strong hunch tells me it’s a her)