I found out one of my childhood friends became an hero. We were close in middle/high school and he had a direct impact on who I am today.We would sometimes text or I’d visit him at his job after high school but eventually we separated. I sometimes wanted to reach out to him to text but never did. I regret not doing it now but there is nothing I can do.His memorial service and visitation is Wednesday and I work then but I’m tempted to go and show support for him and his family, maybe learn a bit about what he was up to before he died. I haven’t spoken to him for about 7 years.Should I go? I am worried I would seem out-of-place but his dad likely remembers me. How does one usually dress for a visitation? I don’t really have anyone irl I can talk to about this.
>>34718684Go. You will be welcomed and appreciated. It will NOT be awkward or intruding.
Follow your heart on this one.
>>34718735Thanks, I think I posted here just wanted someone to say that, I'll go, I know /adv/ is slow these days so if the thread is still up I might post an update.
>>34718738Also ty. I know i'll regret it if I don't. I was reading his obituary and it seemed like he had some of the same aspirations as me which really took me by surprise. I'm glad he is at peace now.
Go and wear this too
Yo I’m his family member. Please don’t go man. This is personal and intrusive
>>34718684Of course you should go anon
>>34718684>Should I go? He was your friend and you still care>I am worried I would seem out-of-place but his dad likely remembers meIf anything they'll be glad someone outside of the family remembers him>How does one usually dress for a visitation? Suit and tie, no bright colorsSorry for your loss man
it’s me, your childhood friend I’m posting from heaven don’t even think about coming to my funeral bro close friends and family only fr
>>34718684>Should I go?Definitely.>How does one usually dress for a visitation?A dark suit and tie.
