>>34718843
movies, ice cream, take her to your fav places, museum, aquarium....

>>34718883
its kinda difficult tho i barely know the city and dont know any good places i hope she will :sob:

Nigga how did you plan it if you don't have any idea what to do

>>34718897
idk :(

>>34718904
Did you ask her just to meet up? You didn't specify anything?

>>34718907
she said were gonna talk about what were gonna do when were there. but its kinda weird to say "idk whatever you want" no?

>>34718931
hey! thats what i wanted to do but she refused cuz she has job tommorow. also we would have to go to a pub thats pretty far away from her home since its the only place where they would sell us alc.

>>34718933
>"idk whatever you want"
Don’t ever say that!!! Unless she has something highly specific in mind, that’s going to be a specific turnoff and it will lower the energy by a lot. I don’t know why they’re like this but just don’t say that. Since you guys said you guys would discuss it when she gets there, instead say something like
>I don’t know the city very well lol, so is there some place you think would be really cool to show me or should we explore a little bit until we find something?
That would have DEFINITELY worked on my wife back when we were dating. (Also, have a couple backup ideas ready to go just in case. google some shit for your city specifically. “Activities for couples in [your area]” or even ask fucking chatGPT “what are the most popular couple’s activity in [your area]? List them from least expensive to most and dig deep for interesting things”)

>>34718948
omg thank you! thatll really help ill take a look at some stuff!!

>>34718961
No problem, anon. It’s supposed to be fun and it gets sad reading so many posts by anons who never get this far lmao. If she actually wants to be around you, just going to Costco to eat samples can be silly and fun.
If you can find something about which you’re genuinely excited, that’s even better. Enthusiasm goes a long way and she’ll match that energy if she’s happy to be there too.

>>34718971
thanks! its actually our second date on the first one we just went to a park sat on a bench and talked and it was really fun too!! i just wanted to take it a step further this time.

>>34718978
Tell us what you decided to do

>>34719492
okay so i just got home and we had a super great time ill write about it cuz like im so happy
>so i was there first i waited at the bus station for her and then she arrived and we were like hi how are you bla bla and then it got kinda awkward cuz we didnt know what to do so i just said lets go to the square
>we walked to the square we were talking about something and when we got there i lowkey ran out if ideas so she was like take me anywhere youre gonna lead now!
>so i was going somewhere completely random i didnt know where i was going but i got lucky and found this really pretty place there was like a little castle or more like a palace with a fountain flowers and benches so we sat there and talked and something it was so pretty and she liked it too.
>after that we decided to go for a walk like along the river we stopped on a bridge and watched the fish and then walked back to the square we did like a circle
>then i saw some people with ice cream so i wanted to get some luckily she knew where it was i bought her ice cream and we found a bench to sit on and eat it
>some random homeless guy begged us for money so he could buy alc and i refused and we walked away back to the bus station and waited for her bus the bus came and i lwky blew the chance to hug her but whatever said bye and waited for my bus and thats it now im going to the pub with my hbs to celebrate this lmao oh yea and we also agreed we ll go to another date!! very happy with how it end up thanks yall for advices!! i hope shes not secretly a 4channer and wont read this haha

>>34719794
That's great. Do you oive far from each other? How did you meet?

>>34719805
*live

>>34719794
Noice. I was hoping you had a good time!

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>>34718843
It's too late now, dude, you should have organised this days ago. Best you can do now is find a decent restaurant based on Google reviews and hope for the best

>>34719805
we live like 20km away from eachother. we met when we were both really drunk at a rave i saw her and she was pretty so i tried dancing with her we hugged held hands and all this then i took her to sit down and she asked for my insta and after that we were texting until we met again thats pretty much it