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I hear women talk about "where are the good men" and "what happened with good men" all the time but... what really is a "good man"? What's the definition? And WHO is the one to say what a GOOD MAN (trademark) is defined by?

Because from my observation what they mean by that is:

- An exceptionally good looking man, so that they can brag about him to their friends and make them feel jealous

- Very popular guy with easy life, who will make their life easy as well

- Unbeliveably rich man who will fund her life

- A combination of two/three of the above

- Who will still treat them like a simp would but only when they need it, otherwise they want him to be manly and controlling, but not too much...

It seems to never be about character traits, will to build something together, romantic aspects, man's behavior or morality, his relationship with family, etc. Sorry for my English, it's especially bad now during my ADHD sensory overload period.
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>>34719538
Women are not sentient beings.
Women are not human beings.
Women only imitate human language as a tool to manipulate the living organism they have in front of them.
Women don't communicate, they only throw words at you in order to manipulate you.
"Good man" has no meaning, there is no definition of what a "good man" is, they will just keep throwing that phrase at you because you care and you have shown it works on you, women will simply keep throwing that phrase at you until you cave in and do what they want you to do, also never forget that women base their entire existence on simulating suffering in order to make you feel sorry for them.
Never forget that women self inflict all their problems on them to blackmail like a girlfriend that keeps cutting herself until you cave in and bring her to do shopping.
Women are like the daughter that screams at her father "YOUN DON'T LOVE ME ENOUGH" after her father gave up one of his lungs, 5 pints of his blood and one kidney so that they could transplant them onto her, only because her father told her "I already bought you 5 iPhones this year, they're all perfectly working and I'm not going to buy you another one of the same model".
This that I just described are the good ones you will find, I really wish I could give all men a camera that when pointed at a woman's head it shows on screen what she's feeling (women don't think), this was common knowledge in the days of yore but television, MK Ultra, feminism and so on have buckbroken men to such an extent they get fed shit and taste chocolate spread.
Women make all sets of rules with the intent of not respecting them, women will always use your own morality against you and they have none.
All a woman ever wants is to have total control over you, and will use any means necessary.

Never believe women, never validate their feelings, never let them have any form of power.
If you do, they will cut holes in the boat and you'll both drown to death without recourse.
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>>34719538
>Because from my observation what they mean by that is:
Either you are not very good at observation or you've only been observing assholes.
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>>34719672
All women are assholes, they only pretend to act moral when there's a strong authority figure that forces them to behave.
Leave women alone 5 minutes and you'll come back that they have cut the throat of their newborn baby and are snorting cocaine off black dicks.
Have you noticed that now that men are learning to not care about women's opinions and don't cuck out when they get called incels anymore and are assuming "right wing" (this deserves a discussion on its own) stances now right wing women are popping out like mushrooms just as gamer girls were popping out during the 2008-2015 era and now girls that play videogames have basically vanished?
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I don't know if I'd call myself a 'good' man since I used to be an asshole all thing's considered, but when I was aiming to be a better man, I never factored women into the equation. This is what I retroactively owe my 'successes' to (I had no problems getting girlfriends, but I had gotten with toxic girls and I was unwittingly toxic myself, immaturity is a bitch). Looking back I don't call them successes but failures that at least facilitated growth, however that's not where I tried to seek my manhood, for being a proper man you can't measure it using women or their attention as the currency, just doesn't work like that. Because women are not men, and women do not know what it's like to be a man.

So if you wanna be a man you need to either go down the self-made route, or male role model/apprentice route. I initially took the self-made route but later learned the importance of tutelage and mentorship so right now I'm picking up as many new skills as I can from elders wherever I find them.

Here's list of qualities I find to be useless Vs useful as a man (regardless of women)

Dominance is shit, stewardship is superior.
Stoicism without self awareness is useless
Courage trumps bravery
Leadership is about service to your inferiors
Aggression and anger are not enemies when you channel it correctly
The risk is the reward
Failure teaches more than success
There's strength in weakness and there's weakness in strength
Physical fitness is useless as aesthetic, muscles are tools, meant for tasks, not for other people's eyes
Admitting the elders know better in most cases, learn what they experienced and you learn why they are correct.

So on and so on. A man should strive for principles, values, virtues, not to signal but to equip in his character. A man should also die to himself, that means being beholden to a creed or higher power, this prevents weakness from setting in, because our weakness is pride.
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>>34719538
A "good man" is a man with a position of respected power/status who treats her well and doesn't fuck the other 10 women who want him. If you are a good man but you don't have any status then you aren't even up for consideration.
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>>34719669
You say this while posting imagery of a female character you idolize. You even imitated her dialogue there "words are merely a means to deceive humans." You actively emulate women role models. What is with that?
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>>34719538
Just never be that guy in that image. Never beg for shit from a woman. It's ugly to both genders. The only single time a man ever takes the knee for a woman is to propose to her, or to lay flowers at her grave when he is old, and that's it.
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>>34719809
You're such a retard you don't even know you activated my trap card I didn't even set.
Glad you asked, retard.
1) What the actual fuck did you just say.
2) It's a fucking drawing, retard.
3) One thing I noticed and it redpilled me like no other is that I grew up believing women were humans because of anime and vidya, only later I realized women in manga and such are just males reskinned as females.
4) Your gotcha moment is so lame I rate it -5000/10

Be better.
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>>34719669
None of this is remotely true. Try again.
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>>34719538
it's a subjective definition, don't wrap your undies in a twist trying to treat it as an objective one to reassure yourself
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>>34719835
> I grew up believing women were humans because of anime and vidya, only later I realized women in manga and such are just males reskinned as females.

So now you found the tranny pipeline congratulations. Got your shimapan knee socks on?
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>>34719835
The reason Japanese birth rates are so low is because they are so invested in idealized cartoons which are not reality. It is similar to how Western society has romantic comedies which have ruined people's lives with their fake relationships.
You get mad at women but actually you should be mad at the cartoons.
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>>34719896
based generalizator
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>>34719835
>A children's cartoon redpilled me like no other
Lol
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>>34719896
>The reason Japanese birth rates are so low is because they are so invested in idealized cartoons which are not reality.
Not really, I could explain this topic in detail but I would need to attach several documents and write like 5-10 posts to maximum charcters.
In short: tv has brainwashed women into finding men yucky and japanese men didn't go full samurai like before the jewnited corporations of americunt invaded them so women just kept being children all their lives.
>>34719866
Not a troon, screeching is not an argument.

The japanese thing is very interesting because despite japanese women being whores like any other woman they still maintain a facade of femininity because despite the individual power of japanese men has been weakened the japanese state doesn't take shit from anybody and their central power is still in the shogunate splendor of the old days, the japanese are a topic all its own and deserve a separate discussion.
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>>34719907
You're such a nigger you can't even read, fuck off and kill yourself already.
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>>34719916
>Screeching is not an argument
You spent an essay screeching and inventing scenarios in your own head. You have autism and you have a low theory of mind, your only node of perception is an echo chamber of your own brain chatter. Please stop posting before you embarrass yourself further
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>>34719924
you're insane, stop immediately your consumption of redpilled material before you become completely detached from reality and shoot up a walmart while caught in delusions fueled by internet echo chambers
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>>34719933
>keeps on screeching and throwing le mamay buzzwords
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>>34719669
Based
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>>34719939
The only mentally ill subhuman here is you, you need to be cured with a lead pill applied to the brain.
Farting shit and screaming jumping up and down still is not an argument, but despite being a mentally ill retard you already know that.
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>>34719953
You're angry because you had a hard time in school and you didn't get female attention. You're like a child that screams for the breast because you didn't get enough milk.
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>>34719961
Am I angry?
Can you stop lying?
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>>34719953
you're insane get help
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>>34719974
Thank you for conceding, I accept your defeat. :)
Oh by the way, you will never be a woman.
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>>34719983
>Thank you for your concession/conceding

And you autists say we're the NPCs lol. Go on any 4chan board archive, type in your own sentence "Thank you for conceding". Notice the hundreds or even thousands of other NPCs who think like you. You lost your own identity to bullshit dude, wake up.
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>>34719983
you will never be a man, you are an insane guy brainwashed by the manosphere, you're a goner
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>>34719992
Oh so you really are a troon, the rope awaits you, you'll be reincarnated as the cute slut you couldn't fuck in high school. Do it.
Snap your neck and do a flip.
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>>34719995
I have zero partecipation in the manosphere or whatever the fuck that is, you're a brainwashed mentally ill retarded troon and the entire world is waiting for you to fucking kill yourself, your biggest achievement in life has been mildly inconvenience strangers that forgot about you 2 seconds later before you snap your neck with a rope, the noose awaits you.
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>>34720003
I've had sex plenty of times already, it's whatever, I don't make that my only goal in life. I had sex because I wanted connection, I did not have sex to prove a weak point to myself or to compare with other men. The only 'men' who do this are daddy issues guys, Peter pans, Pinnochios, perfectionists who refuse to be humbled in failure and only expect perfect idealism like a teenage girl. When you were trying to be perfect, I was trying not to be worthless. Manhood is earned through hardship, I had to endure shit that no amount of sex could fix. Your 'hardship' is you found out women aren't like anime girls. Grow the fuck up.
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>>34720013
you're a bingerbonkernignogger nutjobber
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>>34720015
Nice creative writing.
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>>34719538
Traits and characteristics necessary for a man to possess in order to be considered relationship material in 2026 in no particular order:

• Self esteem and self love
• Relatively well adjusted mental health
• Agreeability and temperament complimentary or compatible with hers
• Values, life goals, world view and potential similar or on par with hers
• Adequate social skills
• Adherence to social norms and expectations
• self respect
• mutual physical attraction
• an active in person social life, including established friendships
• Financial potential and ambition
• Life experience & maturity
• Independence, including but not limited to not living with nor financially dependant on your parents
• health outlooks relative to her own
• genetics compatible with hers
• good hygiene

Yeah it's over that's what it is.



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