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07/14/26(Tue)01:43:51 No.34722154

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Anonymous 07/14/26(Tue)01:43:51 No.34722154

It's late but it's on my mind.
How do I stop viewing women as objects of desire?

Anonymous
07/14/26(Tue)02:05:07 No.34722195

Anonymous 07/14/26(Tue)02:05:07 No.34722195

>>34722154
View them as ornamental

Anonymous
07/14/26(Tue)02:14:05 No.34722202

Anonymous 07/14/26(Tue)02:14:05 No.34722202

>>34722154
it sounds counter-intuitive to some, but literally just talk to them like they're dudes or regular people alot of the time.

Anonymous
07/14/26(Tue)02:22:14 No.34722216

Anonymous 07/14/26(Tue)02:22:14 No.34722216

>>34722154
Stop watching porn or at least cut down on jerkin it since that creates an unhealthy association of women as sex objects in your mind

Also I second the treating them like dudes women at the end of the day are just people too at least the chill ones are so if you treat them like your goal is to get in their panties theyre going to steer clear of you so yeah just treat them like people

obviously there are bad women who do shitty stuff to guys but that really isn't all of them you just have to be okay with casting a wide net until you find the right person if the girl youre talking to is showing bad signs and red flags its okay to cut her off and talk to someone else

At the end of the day its your life man but to answer your question stop associating them with sex so quit watching so much porn its jewish made goyslop

Anonymous
07/14/26(Tue)23:05:14 No.34724871

Anonymous 07/14/26(Tue)23:05:14 No.34724871

>>34722216
Porn is my only release please understand

Anonymous
07/15/26(Wed)13:33:41 No.34726196

Anonymous 07/15/26(Wed)13:33:41 No.34726196

>>34724871
It will end up being your only release lifelong. NGMI

Anonymous
07/15/26(Wed)14:37:14 No.34726415

Anonymous 07/15/26(Wed)14:37:14 No.34726415

>>34726196
not using porn doesn't make you desirable.

Anonymous
07/15/26(Wed)14:41:35 No.34726430

Anonymous 07/15/26(Wed)14:41:35 No.34726430

>>34722154
You don't have to choose just one. Someone can both be an object of desire and other things as well. This is the foundation of all human adult relationships. Your partner is your defender, your teacher, your source of comfort and the object of your desire all at the same time.

Anonymous
07/15/26(Wed)20:59:33 No.34727612

Anonymous 07/15/26(Wed)20:59:33 No.34727612

>>34722154
That's the neat part, you don't

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