>>34722321
Are you able to orgasm easily from masturbation? Are you circumcised? If not, do you have Phimosis?

>>34722321
How often do you jerk off, and do you use porn when you do?

>>34722321
You have to realize that the no sex before marriage thing comes forma time when people would marry at 16 or so into an arranged marriage. You'd have at most a few casual chats with your bride before the families finalize all contracts and you can commence with the fucking.
Hanging out with a woman for two years without doing anything is utterly whack, you are either not attracted to her or intentionally tortured yourself.

Its easy to tell that your attitutde towards sex is totally fucked up, you cannot even write the word "sex" while on a website where people freely call each other niggers and half of all posts are basically porn.
Sex is not a "stupid hurdle", but something to be enjoyed for its own sake. Quite literally: Because humans are complex organisms, fertilizing a human female takes upwards of 100 attempts and requires booth partners to be solidly horny. We simply are too complex as organisms to get away with ten minutes of humping during mating season, sorry bud.

Arousal in humans is also to a large part mental. I suspect your beliefs regarding sex make you unable to let yourself go and enjoy the whole thing to the point where you can cum. I'd advise you to learn to reconcile your fanatical belief with a healthy sex life, otherwise your marriage is going to suck and depending on how fanatical your wife is either end in divorce or basically being roommates.

>>34722406
Yeah it only takes me about 5-10 mins by myself. I'm uncut and there's no phimosis as far as I can tell. It was a little tight before I started having sex but that seems to have loosened it up

>>34722434
So many words used to contribute absolutely nothing of value to the conversation

>>34722452
Look , tard. One of my school friends picked your route, and he married the girl after 8 months because after his own admission, he wasn't able to stand being around her without banging any longer.
They are apparently happy and have multiple children.

You on the other hand cannot even write a completely inoffensive word like "Sex" like the grown up adult you are larping as. So its not hard to deduce that there is something fundamentally wrong with your attitude, as even other devout Christians seem to manage just fine.
Why ask for advice if you proceeed todismiss it?

>>34722321
We need a lot more information here, so I'm just guessing, but based on what you've told us, it's very obvious that the only times you've managed to come are times when you weren't expecting to and weren't trying to. So I suspect the problem is psychological: you're worrying so much about coming that the worrying is preventing you from doing it.

What you need is to change your whole attitude towards sex. Stop thinking of it as a performance, stop thinking of it as something for which orgasm is the objective. Start thinking of it as an emotional experience first and a physical one second. Concentrate on feeling love, closeness, emotional intimacy. Take pleasure from touch without it even necessarily turning sexual. Learn to kiss properly; spend an hour just making out; stuff like that. Sex is supposed to be a way that you express and intensify your love for someone. And stop thinking of sex as being penetration: penetration is just one small part of sex.

You probably need to talk to a sex therapist, and you probably need to do Sensate Focus exercises (see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sensate_focus ). But don't try to DIY that, they need to be done under supervision.

Other suggestions:
- Stop masturbating. If you're horny enough, you probably won't have problems coming.
- If you must masturbate then NEVER use porn. Porn is responsible for so many sexual problems these days. It really is toxic. Quit it forever.
- Don't start penetration until you are right on the edge of coming already. You and your wife probably both need to learn to use your hands and mouths properly.
- Try and forget about orgasms. As I said above, they happen much more easily when you're not trying. Focus on feeling pleasure and arousal. If an orgasm comes along, great, if it doesn't it's not a problem. Focus on enjoying every sensation; keep your mind in the present ("God, that feels good!") not in the future ("When am I going to come?")

>>34722438
You're still not answering some important questions. How often do you masturbate? Do you use porn? Are you able to come from a hand job or a blow job?

>>34722321
Are you taking any other medications that you haven't told us about - antidepressants, for example? And how's your diet? Are you getting enough zinc? Enough Arginine and Tyrosine?

>>34722452
I am Not That Anon, but he or she has a point. Your problem is clearly psychological, not physical, and so the fact that your whole attitude towards sex is seriously messed up is not something you can afford to ignore. You've probably spent a long time wanting sex and feeling guilty about wanting it; that doesn't go away overnight, and it's probably causing you problems now.

>>34722479
My bad. Fap frequency is about twice a week max but if the mood is as low as it has been lately, sometimes it's several weeks with nothing.

I haven't used porn in years, and even if i got the temptation now the real thing has made it hard to ignore how goofy and unrealistic it is.

So far I haven't gotten off from a handjob or blowjob but they feel great so they get incorporated when we feel like it

>>34722485
As far as meds go, just finasteride (0.5mg) and minoxidil and the 2 meds mentioned in the OP (but the courses of those have both finished)

Started taking zinc, lecithin, l-arginine and folic acid daily since last autumn. Should i have a serious look into Tyrosine?

>>34722321
Try different positions. The front wall of the vagina is firmer than the rear, so doggy or other rear-entry positions may give you the pressure/friction you need.

I'll trade my premature ejaculation with you.
t. lasts 5 minutes on a very good day

>>34722321
God doesn't want you to cum. I would not worry about it.

>>34722532
>Started taking zinc, lecithin, l-arginine and folic acid daily since last autumn
Do you browse /fit/?

>>34722321
Curious if this is a nofap catholic or no

>>34722603
It will balance out if you and op have sex

>>34722803
No anon
(Infinity + 30 seconds) / 2 = infinity

>>34722532
>As far as meds go, just finasteride (0.5mg)
Oh, that's the problem, then. Finasteride is infamous for causing loss of sexual function, including ejaculatory problems. Try quitting that. It may not help, because the damage it does to your sexual functioning is often permanent, but give it a try.