Let's say you have a friend who is 26 years old, 5'9", 5/10 face, 5 inch penis. He doesn't have a lot of money, he is currently in college for a boring accounting degree, he has average hobbies like piano and gym. He has zero dating experience, cannot talk to girls, no girl was ever into him and he has never even been on date.Like in an RPG. What would you do to transform him into a guy who gets girls and eventually a girlfriend? Like what training, steps, XP farming etc. would you do?
>>34722575find a niche. that's what every 4-6/10 should do. if you want to think about it like an rpg, you currently don't have a class. choose a class (or a few) and go full-in on that. you should have an identity, i.e the metalhead guy who does drugs, the guy who's making his own video game and only plays retro games, that one wigger friend who is funny and always gets invited everywhere, just be memorable. you already have a personality, now develop it.
>>34722575>he has average hobbies like pianoAre you fucking Chinese?
>>34722615I am Austrian, we have a big music culture here. Almost everyone plays a classical instrument like piano, violin, cello etc.
>>34722575>another Austrian ginger threadThe average guy DOES get girls. You are below average.
>>34722591ooor you could learn to make eye contact and... talk
>>34722575 Your entire post reads like you’re intentionally trying to frame yourself as an overall average person. And no one likes that, especially girls>>34722611 this is a good advice overall
>>34722575women fucking annoying dude why would you even want that?
>>34722611I am a chud loser but I'm aggressively trying to pursue this path. Only problem is I'm shit at everything unfortunately, but I agree with the logic
>>34722575>collegeGo to parties. All of them. At least once a week.
>>34722575I would force him to meditate an hour a day, lock in at the gym, and do yoga following the yoga sutras of patanjali Once his mind his settled and his noob gains come in fully I will get him on reta, slim brody down, i will then teach him the art of blunt rolling then we will go to festivals and spiritual max with wool thots
>>34722575Start by increasing your general social contacts. Meet more guys and girls in non-romantic settings. Talk to classmates, residence hall neighbors, people on lines. Go to campus social events. Join a club, a team, a church.The more people you know, the more among them will be girls. The more girls you know just as friends, the more likely you'll especially like or hit it off with one. It is MUCH easier to move from friendship to dating than to try dating cold, and you will also have become more at ease in female company. The dreaded friendzone may be a sad place to end up but it is a very good place to begin.
>>34722916what about meeting girls on twitter?
>>34723034garbage strategy that never worked. people aren't on Twitter to meet up
>>34722575Work at a bar. Everyone I know who did always had gf. Better the bar, hotter the gf. Its litterally that easy.
>>34722575Send him to the gym till he has abs then send him to somewhere he can play piano shirtless in front of people
>>34722575The decline of men approaching women functions like a political shock even when nobody frames it that way.It reshapes family formation. Fewer approaches mean fewer relationships, later marriages, lower birth rates, and accelerating demographic decline. That feeds directly into labor shortages, pension stress, immigration politics, and generational conflict. Governments can pass incentives but they cannot legislate attraction or courage.Second, it polarizes gender politics. Many women interpret non-approach as disinterest or resentment while many men experience it as rational risk avoidance shaped by social sanction, economic precarity, and fear of misreading norms. Each side builds narratives about the other and political movements harvest those grievances.Third, it weakens informal social trust. Approaching a stranger used to be a low-level civic act that trained people to tolerate rejection, ambiguity, and difference. When that disappears, people retreat into apps, algorithms, and identity-filtered spaces which harden group boundaries and reduce empathy.Fourth, it shifts power to platforms and institutions. Dating apps, HR departments, and legal frameworks mediate intimacy that used to be negotiated face to face. That concentrates cultural authority in systems optimized for liability management and profit, not human bonding.Finally, it produces downstream radicalization. Large populations of unattached men historically correlate with instability, withdrawal, or extremist politics. Most do not become violent but many disengage from civic life, work, and optimism itself which is politically corrosive.
