I have been attending a sort of cycling club lately with a buddy. In the group chat we will pick times to all meet up and go cycling. Usually about 4-6 of us total. I actually have fun doing it and I do get to talk to more people I guess. I am a bit more introverted. Anyway, a woman from it messaged me on the side of the group chat and started asking me about cycling routes that she could try etc. I have cycled with her many and the rest of the group quite a few times at this point. She also asked me about cycling tips in general etc. Long story short, a few days ago we chat for awhile and she sends me a unprovoked nude image of herself via direct text message. Never received a nude in my fucking life. She then asked if I could send some as well. I didn't and now things feel awkward. I would never send a nude of myself but I am really uncomfortable with how ready she was to send it I guess. She didn't strike me as a weird person. But it was just her, in front of her fridge, butt ass naked.Realistically, I just don't want things to be awkward at the cycle meet ups. I was having fun. Now it seems odd. My other friend told me I am a retard for not sending anything back but I really didn't feel comfortable and nor would I ever feel comfortable enough to do that. What do you think? Also, is there a way to make things not awkward? I am not afraid of her or anything, I just don't want the situation in general to become weird and ruin the feeling of the cycling. I have heard about women getting random dick pictures from men but never the other way around. I wasn't appalled by it, I just felt awkward because it felt like she sent it to me for no reason as I was definitely not sending one back.
>>34724086She wants to have sex with you. I would personally avoid her, because women that move that quick sexually tend to be extremely crazy and not in the fun way. In the "ruin your fucking life" kind of way. I've had the experiences and they were never good wholesale.
>>34724139Feels weird because I assumed I really wasn't all that sexually attractive. I think I am okay but I couldn't see a woman actively being the one to pursue. I assume they can all see my autism and it repels them. I just like cycling. If she didn't move as fast as she was trying to, I'd probably go on a date with her but the nude was just too much for me. It felt really extreme and skipped a lot of steps as to how I perceived a relationship should progress. However, it makes me feel like an idiot because it seems like any "regular" man would have jumped on her immediately. I just didn't feel that way though.
Bump. I could still use some more advice on this as she has been quite persistent. However, like I said, I don't want to be so blunt with her that I make things super awkward.
>>34726924The only two bits of important info here are she's into you, and she's crazy. You will have to decide if you're down for that into you level for that crazy level.You're gonna regret it either way because either she's gonna be the crazy fish that got away and you missed out on the craziest sex/relationship of your life, or you're gonna blow up your access to the bicycle club / the bicycle club / your life and get your dickpics posted online attached to your face, so ultimately decide whether you want the smoke and go whole-ass either way.
