she's putting you in orbit
find a different girl to bone

>>34725346
She's either shit testing to see if you move too fast (filtering out for fuck boys) or she is bad news and is just keeping you for an emotional tampon while she cheats her boyfriend she never told you about. What you're supposed to do in that situation is be more clear in your expectations to the point she has to give you an answer on what you two are and what she hopes will become if it. If she flip flops on that, tell her to take a hike

>>34725346
Women have cycles. Sometimes they're into you, sometimes they're not. Hormones and shit. Don't take it personally.

>>34725588
She's already declined dating, after which I acted like a sperg and confessed my feelings (even asked her to meet up and cuddle, which she obviously declined)
Now the weird part is that she's cool meeting up again - I suggested we wait longer before meeting up this time (we waited two weeks before our first and second time meeting, and we were planning on meeting up in just under a week after that)
I made it clear that I'd rather not have anything weird happen between us (and even told her that stuff probably would happen if we hung out again).
Her response to this? To suggest we wait a week - she wanted to extend meeting by two days

I had to double down and ask this chick if she clearly heard the stuff I was telling her, and she responds with a ~yeaah let's hang out!

What the actual fuck is going on here
She's cute as shit but I don't want to weird her out, I just can't tell what she actually wants since we barely even talk about stuff in depth

>>34725594
Also meant to reply to your post with >>34725612

>>34725612
ooft
brother, move on

>>34725640
Initially suggested we just stop hanging out and she seemed sad
I genuinely can't tell if she wants more here or not
Tried asking on a more normie site but they're completely useless

>>34725643
sad that the free attention is going away
she doesn't want you romantically

>~yeaah let's hang out!
is her explicitly saying she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings

>op gets the will he chase me shit treat and doesn’t bail immediately
You fucking garbage simp

>>34725935
sounds like she wants him to make moves on her and possibly even go all the way without talking about it. women like that do exist, could be a trap though so OP should be careful

>>34725612
>She's already declined dating, after which I acted like a sperg and confessed my feelings (even asked her to meet up and cuddle, which she obviously declined)
>Now the weird part is that she's cool meeting up again -

It's weird only if you don't understand how females typically operate. To them, emotional validation and affection is the equivalent of a good fuck. When you give them all your heart right at the start, they get their fill and they either do one of two things. There's a rare third, but it's rare as shit:
1) They bail. They think "He's said this to all the other girls before me. His love is too easy to get, he isn't a safe bet, any girl could just lovebomb him and he will leave me" (doesn't matter if you are a sensitive guy who knows he is loyal, women don't know how you think because they are not you, only you are you).

2) They back off a bit but they think "Wow this guy is giving me all this attention so easily. I don't want this for a relationship (due to similar reasons as girl #1) BUT this is easy attention this is an emotional supply, I will string him along so that whenever I get rejected or my heart broken by other men, he will be there to catch me every time teehee~"

3) She draws a boundary, distances just a bit. She thinks "He could be the real deal, but I don't know, he could be a player or a fake nice guy. And I don't want to use him either. But I can't tell, I hope it's true. I will see how he responds when I have boundaries. If he respects them, maybe he is legit".

That's typically how it goes. All you can do is just talk to other girls until she reveals which one she is

>>34725954
Well it's definitely not 3.1 is most likely or maybe she just isnt into my personality but likes other things. Either way I'd never be disloyal, but I did fuck up by being so forward with her. she's cute though, honestly might just go with it and not expect anything

>>34725992
>1 is most likely or maybe she just isnt into my personality but likes other things
Maybe. But I got a different perspective in my experience with dating women. The personality thing is slightly overrated. I got success yeah but if I said it was because of my personality I'd have been a deluded egotist lol. All I did was I spoke my mind, I just said whatever the hell I wanted to on impulse and it reads as "charisma" or "confidence" or "personality". Truth is nah it's none of the three it's just I can't shut up. And girls mostly enjoy that because it makes you emotionally and/or socially 'visible' to them. And they want that visibility because then they can assess if you're a potential sex pest or a simp or the real deal. The introverted quiet neet guys, like autists, I know for a fact they got a shit ton of personality even more than myself its just it doesn't socially come out and they are very stone like and reticent so they aren't 'visible' to the girls and some girls back off. Not all though, there's girls who love that strong silent type.

You can go with it yeah but just don't forget you're the man, that means you are the gatekeeper of the relationship. You are the one who has the social power to determine if that girl gets a relationship where she is safe, secure, loved and desired consistently while you offer provision. If you see a girl playing games with you, remember you hold the cards and you can just discard her for playing you like that. Just don't do pump & dumps, because the girls talk among themselves and your reputation takes a hit and girls already know who you are before asking them out and you end up forever alone

>>34726075
>I just said whatever the hell I wanted to on impulse and it reads as "charisma" or "confidence" or "personality". Truth is nah it's none of the three it's just I can't shut up.
lmao thats basically what ive been doing in this situation.
in this case I feel like she's the one that's the introverted quiet neet who just really isnt present. I know theres a personality and opinions under there, just too bad I havent fully seen em yet.
I wouldn't pump and dump her and she knows that, like I said im not sure what her deal is.
>girls talk among themselves
well I met her on 4chan so I think im safe

>>34726119
Hmm.. we'll see how it goes then. If this is a femautist sort of deal, it will take repetitive interactions until eventually she accepts. Maybe you don't know what her deal is because she too is spilling her spaghetti, which I'm pretty sure for females is called spilling their linguine or something. Some shy chicks don't want to go fast and want a slow and measured climb into things and if they're socially awkward they don't exactly voice that requirement they just hope that you 'get it'. Lol

>>34725346
>what would you do in this situation
Actually talk to her rather than trying to guess.

>>34725594
my ex was obsessed with me. she wanted me always everywhere. like she was in constant heat around me. always trying to get me hard. her pussy was always soaked. good thing i got away.