I'm a guyI'm a khhv, but I've had """esex""" (hate this term) with two womenI always thought the idea of esex was cringe, and I never thought I would engage in it, but I was kind of pressured into it both times. I hated it and literally couldn't maintain an erection or cum (I actually had to fake an orgasm over vc lol). And that's on top of having a borderline lethal cringe attack the entire timeI feel like shit, like I'm not pure (kek) anymoremy question for khhv femanons that want khhv bfs is, does all this make me significantly less of a virgin/used up? Would you still date a guy like me?
>>34725655Stop fetishizing your virginity and making it part of your identity. Also all of this reads like you are so terminally online that you believe the real world works like Hentai. Just look for a normal woman, or as normal as you can manage, and in all likelihood shes not going to give a shit about your virginity either way.
>>34725655I'm not a girl and I'm not KHHV, I'm a guy who got around romantically and sexually multiple times. I am not trying to make you feel bad, but your mindset repels women, even the virgin ones, because you are preening your self image like a maiden or a princess dude. "I feel like shit, like I'm not pure". I'm sorry my brother but as men we need to get something very clear: None of us are pure, as men we are born with lust in our eye and a snake in our heart. We have aggressive instinct and if we were unsocialized, and I mean really truly unsocialized, we regress into something resembling a beast of bloodlust. We have seen that every time a small boy or infant has been abandoned in the wilderness and somehow miraculously survives either tended to and raised by animals (yes this has happened). When a male has been left to stay true to his male nature like this, you can see what happens, he kills with a smile on his face and bliss in his heart, large animals small animals, not even for food just for fun and will laugh like a kid while cracking open another human's skull. There's a documentary about it, happened to a guy in Vietnam lol. When you adopt this prissy attitude of being a pure maiden-boy, it fools absolutely no-one, especially the women, in fact the women take it as a sign that you are not in touch with the dog in you. And when a man isn't in touch with the dog in himself, it means he isn't in control. That's why even virgin females will choose non-virgin men. I know this sounds demoralising as shit, but you need to adapt to this reality. You don't have to fuck into a big body count, just go dating, stop caring, if you don't wanna fuck, don't fuck, but get a portfolio of experience with women and then you'll attract whoever you want. The reason I bothered explaining this to you is because women don't know how to tell men about manhood, because they're not men.
>>34725655Nobody gives a shit about this, just don't bring it up.
>>34725759I'm sure women that are sex havers don't care, but I'm not interested in them>>34725756I actually think you're right about the nature of human sexuality, but I'm resolved to fight against this naturemy instincts tell me to do a lot of things (eat everything that tastes good, never exercise, jerk off all day)what separates me from other animals is that I don't have to blindly follow what my instincts tell methere's a reason every major religion has placed restrictions on the sexuality of both genders. It's because religious leaders knew that, left to our our devices, we would just have debaucherous sex all day and accomplish nothing of valueand I think you're right that women are attracted to men that have that dog in them. That divine masculine wild essence or whateverI still have that. I just try to be very careful about how I deploy it. I know superficially I might seem like one of those psychologically self-emasculating guys that try to present themselves as sexless and nonthreatening, but I promise you that's not me. I have a sexuality, I just choose to focus it like a laser instead of letting it rip like a floodlightand the right woman will appreciate this about me, just like I'll appreciate her resisting the urge to fuck every chad she meets or whateverIt's fine that we both have these instincts--actions are what define ustl;dr you're right about the nature of human sexuality, I just think it's nobler to discipline oneself and reserve these primal instincts for 1 (one) person with whom you share a very deep spiritual connection>>34725697you don't understand. I WANT a girl that cares about virginity
>>34726999No what separates you from animals is this: when an animal gets food it's to eat. When you get food it's meditated through language, you also can get: love, comfort, approval security at the same time. There is always something extra there is always a surplus.
I never understand esex. Why can't you meet these girls in real life or just send nudes.
>>34725756No the child has not fully entered the symbolic world if he is feral. That's why.
>>34726999>know superficially I might seem like one of those psychologically self-emasculating guys that try to present themselves as sexless and nonthreatening, but I promise you that's not me. I have a sexuality, I just choose to focus it like a laser instead of letting it rip like a floodlightAlright then I believe you. I had you mistaken for a different type. As long as you know that you're a full blooded man that's good. And I'm not saying we should regress into something savage, our entire lives as men is we try to ascend to something nobler. But all the same, we cannot deny what we are at a primal level, it's a balance. You already know that. I guess I'm just pointing out the social optics to you. Women would rather you not care about yourself being virgin. So just don't worry about bringing it up with her.>>34727128The feral mode of man is what we are, to be feral means to be undomesticated, wild. When the human male returns to this state, he is an apex predator. While we have developed refined consciousness and a conscience, we still have that in us, whether we want to ignore it or not. Tying it back to the OP and why I bring it up, women don't particularly care for virgin men anyway. Because the instinctively know that virgin men haven't been socially tested, haven't shown they are capable of having sex with a woman without killing her. They feel suspicious about men who haven't had any romantic or sexual experiences for that reason. Which is why OP shouldn't worry about being "used goods" as a man.
>>34727178>our entire lives as men is we try to ascend to something nobler. But all the same, we cannot deny what we are at a primal level, it's a balancevery well put, I think you're the only anon itt that understands where I'm coming fromit's funny that in order for a man to become the nobler version of his self, he has to accept and integrate the feral part of himself and learn how to use it appropriately. It took me a long time to figure that out>>34727124me neither, I never wanted to do it
>>34725655What is a khhv?
