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For the last 3 months or so I've been having a huge infatuation with this random girl who suddenly got suggested to me on Instagram. I've been quite obsessed ever since, even though I never talked to her or even saw her personally, she matches my type almost perfectly, both physically and personality-wise, cute, introverted, never had a boyfriend, has similar music and movie taste to me etc.
Recently I've found her Reddit account and have been watching it constantly, I've found out she went on a date recently and my week has been ruined, I've literally not been able to eat on the last 48 hours, I keep asking to myself: why the fuck that's not me? It's even worse because the date was botched because the guy apparently was an asshole, I know I would be so much better.
How can I cope with this shit? I'm just the average 25yo chud with a shitty job, poor physique who never had a meaningful relationship.
I know this is not normal and could use it as fuel to improve myself, but I have so many problems I don't know where to start and just give up
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"I never talked to her or even saw her personally" Bruh, what are you expecting from that? do you think she is going to fall in love with a chud that has been stalking her accounts for the last 3 months? Get a life, getting that reaction from her going on ONE date is INSANE, leave her alone, your chances are ruined because you're a pussy and couldn't talk to her since the beginning, sorry bro
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Start fixing your shit now while there is time. Lift some weights at a minimum. It's going to be hard to get the internet girl but it's a situation I can't be proud to say I've been in. Best advice is to wait until she sounds lonely or sounds ready for a bf then slide in the dms. But fix your shit in the meantime. If you can improve your profile like have some fun things with friends going that will help too.
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>>34725679
>suddenly got suggested to me on Instagram
Think of it this way:
The app knows you come there to look at girls you never talk to
The app, then, also knows what kind of girl you like
So to keep engaging your attention, it showed you something interesting.
In other words, you just got your entire psyche blueballed by an app designed to sell useless shit to women. Remember that the internet isn’t fucking real.
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>>34725679
You don't know her personality if you haven't talked to her



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