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I'll cut to the chase. I accidentally sent my cousin an explicit video on Snapchat. I didn't mean to. After I realized I did and unadded her, I later realized that didn't remove messages, months after. So recently I blocked her. There's a chance she didn't see it, as her profile doesn't have the green dot on it and she didn't block me, but the chance she did see it has me worried. It's been months and no one has reached out to say anything about it, but I'm still worried. She has my phone number and my family's, though no one has brought it up. Should I message her to see if she did see it and apologize, or should I wait it out and see?
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>>34726766
Text her and say hey I'm so fucking sorry misclicked and was too embarrassed to even bring this up mb gang
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>>34726779
Alright, I send an apology text, but she's left it on read for like 5 minutes now. My family life is over. Fuck.
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>>34726883
Nice u did ur job it's not a big deal and if she thinks it is call her a retard lol
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>>34726904
This is what I said.

>Hey cousin, I hope you're well. If you still use Snapchat, I just wanted to say I am genuinely so sorry, it was a complete accident, I misclicked, and I've been too embarrassed to say anything for while, still am being honest. I hope you can forgive me for this accident. If you don't have Snapchat though, I'm sorry for sending you this novel.
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>>34726766
>Should I message her to see if she did see it and apologize
Yes.
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>>34726927
good enough.
it'll still be weird but it's about as good as you can do
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OP here. I just had a horrible realization. What if she didn't know it was me, but this just outed me? I made a new account previously, so like that's possible right? Fuck. Did I make this worse?
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>>34727677
Not particularly.

If she already added you, it's reasonably likely she remembers it is you, or it's in the set of possibilities enough that you still did the right thing by apologizing on the off chance she saw.



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