How bad of an idea is marrying the first gf you ever had?We are both 24 - I don’t think I’ll ever find someone that likes me again, been together nearly 3 years now, no major fights but her family is very tradIs this an ok decision?
>>34727422that's why they call it settling down.imagine not settling down and remaining adrift, maybe forever.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA&ra=m
>>34727422i married my first gf after being together for 3 years. we were married for 16 years. she was batshit insane. i barely made it out alive. i still love her, but by the end i couldn't even fuck her anymore. it was just so wierd. we still talk. but mentally i'm ruined. i don't i can ever be in a relationship again. just my experience.
>>34727422good idea as far as the bad idea of mairrage goes
something is probably wrong if you are asking us. Not necessarily wrong with her either maybe wrong with you.
>>34727422Yeah, I think it's optimal. If you guys start fighting, just remember to communicate, and go out of your way to be forgiving/ kind. If both people do this, it will last.
>>34727524why didn't you notice after 3 years? did you encourage her crazy behaviour over the 16 years?
>I don’t think I’ll ever find someone that likes me againShit reason. You chose desperation to be what you highlight instead of anything you like about her.
