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What the hell is a "date"?
>go out with a female friend, hang out and talk, get no sex at the end
>ask a girl out on a "date", hang out and talk, get no sex at the end
And yet one of them is a "date". ???
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A humiliation ritual that feels like an HR job interview.
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Life is still beautiful.
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>>34728499
On a date, both sides are *hoping* beforehand that it will lead to something. Sometimes it doesn't, because there's a lack of attraction, or lack of chemistry, or whatever; but the hope exists at the start. If you're hanging out with a platonic friend there is never any expectation that it will be anything else.
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>>34728529
>If you're hanging out with a platonic friend there is never any expectation that it will be anything else.
Haha
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>>34728499
>go out with a female friend, hang out and talk, get no sex at the end
Many chicks _would_ in fact call that a "date", even though it's indistinguishable from just hanging out. If you're friends with a chick you're way better off _not_ asking her out formally. Just keep things easygoing, it helps set the right boundaries for her too.
This whole notion that you're supposed to go up to a complete stranger and "ask them out on a date" as opposed to just hanging out in a friendly manner with folks you're thoroughly acquainted with is a deeply misguided custom of the US-influenced modern West.
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>>34728499
I want to get out with female friends without wanting to fuck them but I don't have any friends.
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>>34728499
The only difference between dating and hanging out with a friend-who-is-a-girl lies in the label you each put on it.
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>>34728499
friends dont go out on dates
friends dont have sex
friends dont have romantic feelings for each other.
thats why they are called friends!!

what you have is a fuck buddy or a gf
not friend
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