I don't mean "acquaintances" who I see every few days and hang out with. I mean actual friends who I can share my deepest thoughts with. I met a dude recently who I thought I could befriend but then he started messaging me morning and night everyday to hangout. I only knew him for 2 weeks so I had to tell him to fuck off cuz he was being weird. Same with another dude I hung out with who would message me literally the entire day. I can't be friends with people who have no lives which is ironic because I myself have no friends in this city. I'm friendly but i end up attracting the weirdest kinds of people (ive been stalked before) because of it. why is it so hard to find a regular ass dude who i can be friends with? how do i do it?
>>34728505https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 30 or 40 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
>>34730371there's comfort in giving up, which is why the answer is laboriously sifting through people until you make a connection, and even then you're right in the sense that if it wasn't formed in adolescence it's likely to not even last for long. it's work, finding a friend. But if you want it bad enough, it's always possible
