you're still looking forward to spending time with her
even after the "fuck multiple times a day, every day" phase

>>34728549
Do you the two of you have fun when you spend time together? Does being with her feel like a pleasure rather than an effort? Do you always have plenty of things to talk about? Are there things you enjoy doing together? Do you find her interesting, and exciting, but also reliable?

>>34728583
I love her but the truth is we barely fuck anymore and we have been back and forth between normal and talking about breaking up since February.

>>34728592
Yall do not love eachother

>>34728549
They are all the same. If (You) can make it work, that is what matters. A partner is realistically a business venture. They should be able to shore up your weaknesses and have faith in your vision, not think twice about slapping a sandwich together or otherwise being at the ready to keep you going. Or you should just be able to deal with her anyhoo. They are the same. It is what you make of them and vice versa.

>>34728549
>How do I determine if my GF is right for me
You know you were supposed to determine that a out her before getting into a relationship right?

>>34728549
>How do I determine that my gf is right for me?
If she was right for you, you wouldn't be asking about it on 4chan. Simple as.

>>34728549
She gives you peace of mind. She's like a fresh breeze every time you come home. She makes your life more colorful and vibrant. She makes you a better person. She's good at communicating and honesty is one of her natural traits. Also she has to have huge boobas for maximum comfort. If she ain't checking all of these criteria's, just leave bruh. Women generally ain't worth more than donkeys dookie

>>34728592
idk how you can do this, I was fucking my gf multiple times a day up until maybe a week before we broke up. I just would not suffer that shit.

Almost everyone here is retarded.

You will not find "teh perfect girlfriend" or a "soulmate". They do not exist. If you find someone very similar to you, you will be bored and it will feel empty. I know because I've been there. They're all the same, and we're all the same, a year or two in. You will get bored of her looks no matter how beautiful she is, her attractive quirks will start to annoy you, you will want someone else, it's inevitable if you go into it with "I want a perfect soulmate" mindset.

A gf is right for you if both of you are willing to put in the work for each other in the relationship, and if you can be honest with each other. If you don't like something, don't tolerate it. Discuss it. If your gf throws a fit and keeps going with the problem behavior without trying to improve the situation in any way, or without explaining why she cannot do that, then she is not right for you. If your gf says she does not like your behaviour, don't throw a fit, discuss it.

There will be problems in any and all relationships. The only thing that matters is if you two are committed and sane enough to discuss them and be constructive about them. Expect to be the one who sets the example relentlessly, teaching the gf that you will not be manipulated, you will not manipulate her, you want constructive cooperation.

This:
>>34728756

t. 12+ years successful relationship that survived wife's alcoholism, my unemployment, miscarriage, depressions, blah blah. She still begs for dick and stays in shape, I buy her flowers and do romantic stuff, we build each other up, there is no resentment. We started out very different and I dumped her multiple times in the beginning.

>>34729449
>We started out very different and I dumped her multiple times in the beginning.
What changed?

if you enjoy spending time with her and can see her as more than just a temporary girlfriend..?

>>34729449
Same background, different conclusions.

Our relationship surived so much shit and we're able to work things out because we had "teh perfect girlfriend" or a "soulmate". Neither of us tolerated any other people being shit nor want to work anything out.