i cant bring myself to be open about what i want when im highly susceptible to criticism sometimes i envy girls, these assholes get to be anything and recieve love, since i was born in an abusive household i dont have the luxury to be myself anywhere elsewhy anyone accept a man who aint confident?men would just bother/bully him, girls can just look the other way if not pick on him toofooken helli wish i was a girl i would be so loved
>>34728990If you were a girl no one would love you, they'd just love your tits. The novelty would wear off quick and you'd soon realize that the grass isn't actually greener on the other side. You should worry less about whether or not people love you, and worry more about whether or not you're deserving and worthy of love. Focus on being patient, kind, compassionate, generous and honest at all times. If you have those qualities, you'll begin feeling good about yourself no matter what other people say or do in regards to you.
>>34729062>they'd just love your tits.i would have an opening or a chance to go mainstream, its like saying wishing if i was a hot man. yes i would be objectified but i would appeal to more people, its a probability game, you have the luxury of choosing if ur wanted>If you have those qualitiesi always had them, it fucked me up, mentally made me a stupid & a loner, being unable to connect with anyone. i progressively became a shittier human.its going down hell.i am gonna bet 50 on you being a girl not trying to be rude :(
>>34729104You didn't always have them. Perfect wisdom, perfect patience, perfect compassion and perfect charity are the result of a lifetime of self renunciation. No one starts off life enlightened and wise. You have to work for it, and the first step towards beginning that work is to abandon your conceit and stop telling yourself that you were already perfect. If you were perfect, it would be impossible for you to get "fucked up" and "become a shittier human". Wisdom allows a person to thrive amidst adversity, it never causes him to become beat down by it. Wisdom and the virtues that follow on it are always accompanied by calmness, peace of mind, self-reliance and resilience.>i am gonna bet 50 on you being a girl not trying to be rudeI'm a man. Although my perspective has been broadened by the fact that I'm a man with long hair and a slender frame who has been hit on as if he were a woman. Trust me, it gets old. These days I would rather be told that I have a pure soul than a cute face, no contest.
