I use to think I was probably completely hideous and could never ever get a girlfriend as a result of that. However, across the last two months, two different women have said that they are strongly attracted to me. One said it to me directly and the other mentioned it to a friend of hers who then told me. Unfortunately I didn't like either woman. One I am certain does drugs and the other is a woman with 5 kids already. However, could those women liking me mean that maybe I am not so terrible? I rarely get attention from women but a friend told me that most guys aren't getting attention from women directly. Women basically never tell guys directly they even like them. How true is that? What can I do to even make more attempts at meeting women? I think I actually can do okay if I can just get into a situation with single women who have no kids and aren't drug addicts. I think I do okay conversationally. I just never ever get to meet women whom I mesh well with I guess. Meeting women and not using dating apps seems impossible. I fucking hate the dating apps too. I think those apps are why I thought I was probably hideous or incapable of getting a girlfriend.
I was in this exact situation years ago, and I feel like I should have went with the woman with 6 children. But if the drugs the other is in aren't too terrible, that might not be bad. Hard drug addiction can pave the way to neetbux, so it's not all bad.
>>34730054>he writes in autism blocksYou might also be ugly, but being autistic comes first and is much harder to fix.
>>34730375Wait what is autism blocks? What gave away that I am autistic?
>>34730054It could be a situation of 30+ women getting desperate. You're probably not ugly though. If you want a girlfriend, start being proactive.
>>34730421He wanted you to reddit space like all proper /adv/ people do
>>34730433Any advice I can take to be more proactive? The most proactive thing I have been doing was increasing my preferred distance from 25 miles to 50 miles when it comes to using dating apps. Ideally, I don't even want to touch apps but if I don't use them, my chances of meeting a woman shrinks so much. I feel like I have no options because my biggest requirements are women near my age( give or take 4 years or so), women with no kids but willing to have them and relatively close to me distance wise(no long distance dating).
>>34730421>>34730435It's almost as good a tell >you can't help the person, they're kinda retardedas schizo time-cube style diatribes are of telling you you're dealing with a schizo whom you should ignore
>>34730054I'm kinda like you. I think I look hideous. Nobody has ever told me I look ugly, but unlike you, nobody has said they were attracted to me lol. >I think those apps are why I thought I was probably hideous or incapable of getting a girlfriend.How was your experience using dating apps? I've never used them before.
>>34730559My experience on the apps weren't terrible... just empty. I think I had one date from the apps over the 10 years I have been using 2 apps. I really think its because the apps are like 80+ percent dudes and the women are inundated with messages. So the few women who do use the app have tons and tons of messages and most dudes have next to none. This is compounded by the fact that I don't live in a really big city I believe. My city isn't new york or LA sized.
>>34730549that doesn't look like bricks though
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>>34730054What makes you think you are hideous to begin with? You make your appearance sound like your main issue and yet you just casually glossed over it.
