And no, going to dates, hanging around together, having sex or her complimenting you is not enough. Women do this to losers that they pity too, and they ghost them days after doing this kind of stuff for them>inb4 just askno bro, I can't ask several times a day, or in the remote chance she likes me she'll stop liking me very fast>inb4 get a higher self esteem before interacting with womenthe problem is that I've never been loved in my life, so I literally have no evidence that's possible. I need evidence it's possible before starting to believe it, and over 20 years not coming out of my room hasn't helpedI just need a bit of evidence so I can stop sabotaging my relationships
Just confidently shoot your shot. If she says no, ask if her friend is single. Or say maybe it's a good thing since she's not your type. You've got to stop worrying about what they think of you. They say yes or no. And move on. I feel like social media has people too shy and scared of rejection.
>>34730175have you even read my post? or is your post AI generated?I didn't say I want a gf, I want confidence. I said I am worried of her saying yes when she actually doesn't want to, which your advice makes worse, and>say maybe it's a good thing since she's not your typewhere in my post did you get the idea that I'm a spiteful hate riddled asshole who wants her to feel bad because she didn't give me pussy? how do you reckon insulting her and making her hate me is going to help me feel like I deserve love?
>>34730212You totally and completely misunderstand what I'm saying. If you're interested in her romantically, and think that her being in your life makes it better, then take the initiative and ask her out. If you and her are compatible it will work out. And if not, well you never have to have regret about the path not taken. Also you miss what I'm saying with those examples. Asking about her friend is a way to simultaneously mess with her a little, maybe make her jealous, but mainly to show you're interested in her but not over interested. Saying she isn't your type functions as both a joke and a way to flirt confidently. It's supposed to be said with a smirk. It's supposed to be said playfully. I was basically advising you to just pretend you aren't anxious about how you're perceived for a moment and to just go for it. If you're not interested in doing that then good luck with your endeavors, but I think women tend to respond positively to confident men.
>>34730212Also:>I want confidence. I said I am worried of her saying yes when she actually doesn't want to, which your advice makes worse, andOkay confidence has to come from within you. I promise rejection doesn't hurt as bad as you think it will. It's like you're imagining being turned down or placated as some sort of huge massive catastrophe or issue. It isn't. You're over estimating the consequences of being told "no" or "sure... okay" when she didn't really want to. If she's not into it, it will become very obvious and you have to take initiative again and ask her what the relationship is to her and respect her wishes. Just.. relax man. It's gonna be okay.
>>34730155>Women do this to losers that they pity tooYou lost me there. The only fitting point on your list may be hanging around together, but even then a guy she pities is going to be an orbiter who regularly has to open his wallet or listen to her dumb shit. If you don't even believe that a woman likes you if she lets you blast a load in her snatchand possibly impregnate her, you cannot be helped.
usually it will be obvious, are we talking about a specific woman here? OP is pretty vague.
