Me and my gf have been together a few years but due to certain circumstances, we haven't been intimate for almost an entire year now. I thought I could deal with it just fine, but i started talking to a girl that I know wants to fuck me. I thought I could do it, and I'm supposed to go to her tonight but all I feel is sadness and sick to my stomach. Like the thought of being with the other chick makes me want to puke. Anyway. My gf is generally distant but very loving when we are together. It feels great when we're together but that's like 2-3 times a month. I'm starting to get around the fact the relationship may be over for good but I don't think I can pull the trigger anytime soon. My gf is a very depressed person and her libido is completely dead, I basically took on the role of the supporting bf, not asking or expecting sex. Honestly it's not that big of a deal I really like and being with her in general is really great. We both enjoy ourselves non-sexually. But some nights when I'm alone I want to fuck a big booty girl and be with someone that I want to fuck all the time. Didn't want to write an essay but here we are, sorry fags. I don't want to break up with her because I'll feel like I'm just abandoning her and I'm worried about her mental health, she has had suicidal thoughts before.Tldr: gf of a few years, love her but 0 sex and emotionally distant.
man up. Tell her she can suck your dick or get to stepping. Her not putting out is a breach of contract. Its no different from you refusing to be nice to her or give her attention.
>>34732403You were with someone for 2 years yet didn't respect them enough to tell them that things aren't working out??? you are a piece of shit dude.
>>34732403If thinking about fucking the other girl makes you feel sick, then don't fuck her. It's not a moral issue: there's no point in doing it if you won't enjoy it.
>>34732403What are those circumstances?
>>34732403If you ain't having kids then dump the waste of time
