>>34736241
It may be you laid but you will attract the type of woman who you will regret, I strongly recommend against it.

>>34736256
Where should I go to get laid with women I won’t regret then?

>>34736241
Do you have friends? Can’t you just ask your friend to gangrape random girls?

>>34736295
Unfotunately if you have to "go" places its already over. Just "go" places to make friends and then you will how women in your social circle and get invited to private events.

>>34736241
How old are you? I was under the impression that zoomers don't hook up through bars anymore.

>>34736241
Even if you're a chad it won't work, because women always go to bars with friends. So you would have to talk to one girl while her friends stand beside, which is never gonna happen. The friends will be bored/jealous and try to pull her away from you.

But they won't even talk to you in the first place because being alone at a bar is very creepy and loser. Having friends (especially good-looking ones) shows women that you're someone that can be trusted because you got the seal of approval from other men.

If you go to a bar alone you'll only embarrass yourself. You'll always get flashbacks of doing such a humiliating thing. Your self-esteem will greatly suffer because in the future you may talk to some coworker girl or something and then the flashbacks of you going alone at a bar and seeing all these stares and weird looks will flash in front of you and you'll lose the courage to talk to that girl that may be interested in you.

If I were you, I would hop on anti-psychotic medication as soon as possible, because thinking about going at a bar alone may be a sign of "delusions of grandeur", which are common symptoms with recluse, schizoid personality disorders. If you let these delusions make you do dumb shit and humiliate yourself publicly, it will 100% leave a permanent mark in head for the rest of your life.

>>34736410
>I were you, I would hop on anti-psychotic medication as soon as possible, because thinking about going at a bar alone may be a sign of "delusions of grandeur"

If I wer you, I''d legitimately kill myself for advising strangers on the internet to permanently change their brain chemistry with hardcore drugs reserved for morderous schizos.
Stop projecting your own issues and deal with them.

>>34736241
Worst that happens is that you sit at the bar and nurse your drink, then go home. But honestly, women who are into you will make themselves available, split from their group and post themselves up next to you at the bar under some excuse.
Or you just sit with a group, have a good time and one of the girls is into you. Also tons of girls go jsut with a friend to look for guys, just be polite to her friend while you rizz her up.

It can be awkward, but I met multiple women this way. However, its honestly just a thing I do if I've got nothing better to do on the weekend and don't want ot be alone, not a desperate bid to get laid.

>>34736256
Dunnno where you live, but around here its completely normal regular women who are just on a night out and not opposed to meeting a guy they fancy.

>>34736501
>Dunnno where you live, but around here its completely normal regular women who are just on a night out and not opposed to meeting a guy they fancy.
Well you said 'fancy' so I'll guess you're a brit. Pub & club culture is different there to the states. In the states it's mostly a hub for trash. Last guy I was wing manning for met a nice girl at an arcade it was going well. He was a sperg, and he thought it was a good idea the following week to go to a bar to keep expanding his options even tho girl #1 was nice and sweet on him, good looker too. He hooks up with a 49 something year old psychotic woman at the bar instead, fucks her, then is shocked and surprised she keys his car and gets possessive and he has to call cops to get a restraining order

>>34736501
If he was even remotely good-looking or interesting, some women would have asked him out during the literal decades spent in school. If zero women came to him when he was sipping his drink in a school cafeteria every single day with HUNDREDS of EXTREMELY HORNY HORMONE-PEAKING women witnessing him... then, I don't think he's gonna pull shit in a bar with 10/15/20 girls. Thinking of doing that and being successful is a clear delusion. Any shrink hearing that would immediately put him on 20mg Olanzapine.

>>34736518
>Well you said 'fancy' so I'll guess you're a brit

No, I just spent some time there and I guess it influenced the way I speak English. Anyhow, European bar culture isn't that different from English pub culture in general although they tend to lean less into the "extenal living room" thing that is typical for pubs.
>He hooks up with a 49 something year old psychotic woman at the bar instead, fucks her, then is shocked and surprised she keys his car and gets possessive and he has to call cops to get a restraining order
Theres definitely bars here where you will meet that demographic, but they tend to be such utter shitholes that you easily recognize and avoid them before you even set your foot through the door.

>>34736610
>some women would have asked him out during the literal decades spent in school
Delusional.
>Any shrink hearing that would immediately put him on 20mg Olanzapine.
My own Psychotherapist encouraged going out and talking to women in order to combat my social anxiety. It worked. My anxiety is gone.
Any Therapist prescribing last resort antypsychotic for minor social issues would be liable to go to prison around here.

You are literally fucking insane and in no way qualified to give anyone else advice, and anyone who listens to your delusional projections does so at their own peril.
It is most likely that you have been put on antipsychotics by your own psych as you actually need them, since you are clearly living in a world created by your own mind.

>>34736410
>If I were you, I would hop on anti-psychotic medication as soon as possible, because thinking about going at a bar alone may be a sign of "delusions of grandeur", which are common symptoms with recluse, schizoid personality disorders. If you let these delusions make you do dumb shit and humiliate yourself publicly, it will 100% leave a permanent mark in head for the rest of your life.
god fucking dammit i knew it

>>34736694
Don't listen to that anon he's full of shit. A delusion of grandeur is where you can't separate fantasy from reality, where you genuinely believe you are God or the most intelligent man to walk the earth or the most handsomest man alive and you become so deluded that every interaction you ever have with other people your mind instantly interprets it as proof of your genius/attractiveness/glory. It's not a schizoid thing it's typically a Narcissistic thing.

Going to a fucking bar to hope to get laid isn't a delusion of grandeur, it's debatably an act of despair if your whole angle was to find romance but that's about it

>>34736707
>>34736694
The only thing that can humiliate you is repetitive cold approaching in specific locations. If you cold approach in wide open public spaces, such as parks, museums, shopping malls, car parks, amusement parks, forest trails, beaches, etc etc then you will become known around the community and people label you as the local town sex pest. Autists who do this don't understand that people talk behind closed communities or networks and your name gets passed around or someone even takes a picture of you from a distance as you could approach and it's spread on a town watch Whatsapp group or something and before you know it everyone is giving you weird looks and avoiding you. It can be so bad for some autists (I knew one) who after cold approaching girls too much at some point a girl said 'yes' and lead him to an apartment where 5 men waited for him with crude weapons and beat him into a bloody pulp and he was hospitalized because the town ran a rumour that he was a potential sexual assailant.

>>34736707
>>34736729
Bars and clubs are fair game. Being a lone drinker and just chilling and occasionally offering to buy a girl a drink if she happens to approach the bar is okay. It can get you into shit only if she has a boyfriend or husband nearby, so just keep your wits about you and make sure you aren't accidently hitting up someone's girl and you're fine.

>>34736631
>antypsychotic
>anty

You're so dumb you can't even properly spell the prefix "anti", which is literally used in 24 major languages. Perhaps you should be put on antipsychotics too, since you're trying to sound smart but fail to realize how shortsighted you sound. Imagine giving such a speech in front of people, seeing them laugh at your stupidity and STILL come out with a puffed chest thinking you're smart. That's exactly a delusion of grandeur, and that's exactly what I want OP to avoid.

You going outside and walking naked in front of people will decrease your social anxiety. By the fifth time, your social anxiety will be gone!!! But... does that mean walking naked in front of people is normal? Nope. You just got your brain used to doing embarrassing shit. You now have an easier time doing crazy embarrassing shit, congrats!!! But it's STILL crazy embarrassing shit.

The reason you got social anxiety in the first place is because your brain was telling you "hey buddy, you're an ugly dumb dysgenic freak and every interaction you've had with people so far was BAD... perhaps we should stop doing that shit, don't ya think??". Maybe you should have listened.

I sincerely hope you don't behave like this in real life, because boy oh boy would I feel embarrassed for you. I think I would even snitch on you with an anonymous tip call for "psychiatric emergency".

>>34736729
>then you will become known around the community and people label you as the local town sex pest

That only applies to small towns with a few thousand inhabitants. In any actual urban area no one will know or care who you are, unless you do it constantly and regularly. Just shooting your shot every once in a while on occasion is not an issue unless you're in some everyone knows everyone incest shithole.

>>34736754
If it's not a town watch the city has cells of neighbourhood watches, you can evade it longer in cities but eventually it can catch up. Never underestimate how fast word of mouth can travel

>>34736758
>If it's not a town watch the city has cells of neighbourhood watches

Are you living in some dystopian alternative reality? Did they happen to uhhh "gangstalk" you as well? Lmao this thread really attracted the schizos

>>34736766
No, never happened to me since I don't cold approach to get women. And it's not gang stalking it's called nosy pedestrians who love gossip. You can cold approach a random girl in public and you have no idea who she is, if she's the daughter of some community pillar you're fucked. Or if it's a nobody girl you can still be fucked because a bystander witnesses it from across the street and when your back is turned they are out with the camera phone and snap a picture. You forget that everyone has cameras in their pockets and if someone sees the random loner approaching young girls constantly in the public, the reputation you build for yourself isn't great. I'm only saying this so the guys here stay safe

>>34736803
>nosy pedestrians
>community pillar

I think you have never lived in a city with more than 20k inhabitants. Once you have several million people living together, none of what you mentioned is a thing in any way.
You're literally describing some podunk shithole everyone is best off with moving away from. Those are not places to get laid, thats if you want to meet one girl, get hitched and simp for her forevermore in fear of getting ostracized if you divorce. If thats your jam, go for it.

>>34736766
>>34736803
Also the fact that you consider community watch groups to be a dystopian schizo thing tells me that you are unsocialized (not trying to insult you). Go Google or your Facebook and look up your community you live in and find the local town/city watch pages and see for yourself, people chatter about what they say, who they say, when they saw it and sometimes pass details and pics around

>>34736817
800k population where I'm at. It doesn't matter if you live in a big city, the cities are divided into districts and within those even smaller networks. This shouldn't surprise anyone it's typical human behavior. People love to form gossip circles and community watch groups whenever you go

>>34736818
What they see, who they see*
This is why cold approaching is a shit method, because the more it's done the less and less likely it works because at some point people talk. Word spreads, and if your photo isn't passed around, your name or description is and people largely stay out of your way and finding friends or a girlfriend becomes harder (unless you move somewhere else or travel far afield). People who are "players" know about this phenomena so well it's why their first move is to always travel at least a 50 mile radius away from where they live to go on the hunt for cold approach hook ups

>>34736818
I'm from Europe, having snitches hang around and watch your every move is not well looked upon here. I have never heard of a "town watch group" existing in my country outside of extremely rural incest villages, and well socialized people would simply get together to beat them up for not minding their own business. >I also have no idea what "my community" is supposed to be or why it would have a webpage.

>>34736830
I only know from the US and Britain that snitching and gossiping networks are appsrently very common there. So decidedly non-human behaviour.

>>34736838
>I'm from Europe, having snitches hang around and watch your every move is not well looked upon here.
Doesn't matter if it's Europe or America or wherever they always exist, go look yours up. They're always run by the elderly, typically middle aged to older women or married couples who network with other families and their whole point is to look out for potential social dangers for their families and that's why it's such a common practice, and with social media used by near everyone it's widespread.

The "no one likes snitches" attitude is something that's only honored among teen/young adult males typically single men. Your town elders most likely don't give a fuck and they talk. You cold approach a girl and she says no, she goes home and guess what she's doing when she speaks with her folks? "I was at the train station today and I got weirded out. This guy just approached out of nowhere and." Blah blah blah you get the picture.

The only time this isn't a problem is if the culture or community you live in is high trust and no one sees cold approaching as a danger. But I know for a fact in Europe, America, Canada and Australia thanks to western media, the trust is low and communities don't take kindly to cold approaching.

>>34736861
Nope. The only people who do that here are former Stasi members, and they are thankfully dying out as people piss on their graves. This type of Soviet style social policing is not wanted here. Deal with it and accept that you're living in a shithole full of weirdoes.
>she goes home and guess what she's doing when she speaks with her folks?
I don't know her filks, they don't know me, we will never meet and even if we did its unlikely the woman would even recognize my face again. Even then it would require me to be an actual creep about it and not a nice normal guy. You're trapped in some anxiety induced panic phantasy and doing taht whole incel thing of pretending that talking to women will get you socially ruined. Its just your fear speaking.

>>34736241
I hung around in bars alone for a couple years in my mid 20s. I met people, formed a small group of other loners who went out drinking together, had a lot of fun nights, and could have done something with several women if I had had the balls at the time to pursue. I did eventually end up going over to a girl's place one night but I couldn't seal the deal. had women flirt with me, approach me, even buy me drinks.

>will I just look like a creepy loser
You only look like a creepy loser if you're deliberately trying to. I actually have the perfect example from last weekend, there was a guy by himself sitting in the corner of the bar scowling. I bumped into him because there was a small crowd/line waiting for the bathroom and smiled and apologized, and he just looked away angrily. Later I saw he had moved to a table and was scanning the room with the fucking Kubrick stare looking like a sexual predator.

If you smile at people, start random conversations with anyone nearby, and generally don't hide in your phone, you'll be just fine. That's how I met people/women and did shots with strangers and shit like that. Bring a pack of cigarettes and lighter even if you don't smoke.

>>34736241
It'll certainly give you more chances to than not going at all