Instead of waiting for a predator to prey on you how about taking some initiative and pursuing and asking out guys you're actually interested in?

Op here, the only times I tried anything serious with anyone I'm met with people who stop talking because I'm autistic or just ask me to do things for them which I do and after this they leave me, so I'm curious to know what can I do better since even predators don't want me

>>34737710
There's a loneliness that she's looking for that attention her (as usual). I would advise OP to stop whatever this BS is. Not girls fault if you've been made to seek attention, but whether you feed into it is very much your fault.

>>34737731
Maybe it's not because you're ""autistic"" but because you're a sorry sack who uses the label to excuse their shitty personality nobody wants around

>>34737731
To stop being desperate. Likesaid, it's quite likely you're just seeking that here. Doing this will lead you to more troubles than less. Not your fault if you're feeling like attention-seeking, but as said, whether you feed into that's is completely your fault.

Op here again idk how to answer one person specifically. Yes i do like attention, and i do want advices. I'm described with a calm personality and I do my best to be sweet w everyone so i don't think i have a shitty personality. I'm disabled like i said and it affects i act but even being textbook version of a disabled person i still see people like me complaining about predators, if I'm not doing anything wrong why not even predators want me? Its not that I want a predator but even people like me get attention, even ppl with bad personalities get into relationship so what can I do? It's not a looks problem, and not a personality problem since ppl like me have partners too

>>34737705
Post a picture so we can tell you if you're really attractive.

>>34737705
>Idk how this site works so I'll take some time to make a account or whatever you have to do here to see if anyone answers
This an "anonymous" site for people who dont like associating their name with their posts or make any sort of account. Some people will lie and be deliberately unhelpful for the fun, some will give heartfelt advice but they could be neets in ther moms basement with no real life experience.
Some people are attention whores still and give themselves names or trips, if you give yourself a tripname and especially if you claim to be a woman, people will pass everything you say through a fine tooth comb, the doxx danger is real.
You could do a tripname for just one thread so no one impersonates you and then discard it at the end of the thread and remember to take it off before you post in any other thread and any other board.

>>34737780
OP obviously don't do that, if you think is useful you could maybe get some stock photo of someone who kinda looks like you or has similar body type.

>>34737705
>>34737789

Samefagging. What a weird way thing to do. Like... what exactly do you get from this?

Op here again I don't have idea what is a trip name, I'm just reloading the page to see who comments. Since you're all strangers I'm not sure how safe it's to post photos of my face I thought about sharing social media but I think it would be the same thing. Describing how I look is not dangerous I think? I'm still deciding. I know someone maybe dont believe me but if there's something I'm sure of myself is that I'm pretty

I will not be a part of another man's masturbation fantasy.

>>34737801
Read the https://4chan.org/faq and rules

>>34737817
Do not use trips because is stupid and attention whorish though.

>>34737801
Just post your damn picture instead of wasting everyone's time. It's 2026 and everyone has his picture on social media. What exactly is the big deal?

>>34737801
Definitely don’t post your face lol
What do you do to find potential partners? That’s the best place to start.
Do you have hobbies, are you going out to be bars, online dating?

Don’t just do whatever anyone tells you to do. You’re autistic but you clearly have a brain and can form opinions. Think about what you’re being asked to do and if you want to do it. Anyone would get bored with someone who just “keeps sweet” and has no opinions or thoughts to share.

>>34737823
This site is not viewed positively in most circles, its a stupid thing to do unless you live somewhere with little job prospects anyway

Op here again I'm not sure if I should post photos since two asked but others said I shouldn't. I never interact first with anyone but if anyone interacts with me at any place I am in I accept, if I'm asked about anything I always tell, but even knowing some things are wrong I ended up in situations like almost getting prostituted by my partner because I thought that was normal since he was asking me all the time. I don't have idea how relationships work even if it's just friendship so even if I may think it's wrong I end up accepting anything. I do have opinions about most things and I have many hobbies also, I like doing many things.

>>34737831
Normies don't even know or care about this website. Even if they knew, what does this have to do with OP? No one here knows her. All we want is to be able to tell her that YES you're good-looking and looks are not part of your problem... or NO you're ugly and no one wants to be with you because of that and all your friends/family telling you "you're so beautiful!!" are only doing it to make you feel happy.

It's like that other girl here who claimed she was soooo good-looking but didn't understand why she couldn't get a boyfriend. Then, when she posted her pic we saw that she had one lazy-eye and wasn't really good-looking. So she was offered tips on fixing her eyes and improving her looks. Had she not posted her pic she would have received useless advice.

Anyways, OP is likely trolling.

>>34737862
You’re trolling for a random girls pic.
It’s a stupid idea, and bad advice.
Ugly people get married all the time, your opinion on her looks is irrelevant.

Its me op again, I'm kinda offended because i look at the mirror and my eyes are definitely my prettiest feature, god can take my soul in this second if i was lying about being beautiful, i look at myself and i see a pretty girl, i go out and get compliments so of all things to doubt about what i say my looks are not to doubt. I'm also not a liar or trolling, again I'm not 22 years old not a 12 years old boy

Its me op, i wrote wrong because i was nervours in the last sentence, i am 22 years old is what i meant

>>34737871
>>34737876
You're really mentally ill for making this thread and the cringe samefagging. How about you go pollute some other board instead of this one?

Op here. Yes i am mentally ill, I'm quite aware of this, people here are bad at advices which i thought was the main point of this place that's why i wrote a bit text asking for advice. If there's a better place to pollute asking for advice other than the advice board you can tell me!!!!!!!!!!!

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I don't think attractive people have to wonder whether or not they're attractive. Women who are good looking usually get more male attention than they want.
In either case this thread is fake and gay.

Op here i still haven't learned the button to respond to only one person. I don't wonder whether I'm pretty, yes this post is gay because I'm bisexual. I do get attention, the thing is idk how to keep the attention, as i wrote in the start i had a boyfriend which makes it clear yes i can have attention but then i also wrote it lasted 2 weeks!!! So if the problem is not my looks or lack of attention i asked for advice on what i should do

>>34737937
stop bumping this shit, dipshit faggot

>>34737937
Someone already told you here>>34737827
Out yourself out there where you can interact with people while also being mindful of your personal safety have a personality and opinions of your own otherwis people will have no interest in you.
Also this is a dying website, threads stay up for days.
Check in in a couple of hours if you want.

What is bumpi,g this shit? And I'm not a faggot, men are faggot, use the slur for a woman if u want since i am one, are women a rare sight here?? Why everyone thinks im gay and fake

>>34737959
How did you find this place?

>>34737710
yeah I was gonna say the same thing.
This chick aint got what it takes to play the game. She needs to find a life raft & GTFO.

>>34737705
>What confuses me is people around me regularly tell me I'm attractive, and I know it's true. I'm also socially stupid enough that I know I'm easy to manipulate because I miss social cues.
>Online, I constantly see autistic women talking about being sexualized, fetishized, or attracting manipulative men.
>So... where are these people even finding those guys?
>I'm not saying I want to be manipulated, but if I'm attractive and socially naive, why do I struggle to find anyone and I mean anyone willing to date me at all? Even evil and bad people don't seem interested on me.
Im sorry to hear that.
Perhaps youd feel better if you showed me your tits?

Its me op. Im not sure what do i get showing my tits desu. And 4chan is not niche or anything like that i just typed and searched, im surprised i only see men here, horny men mostly who think im gay and fake

>>34737991
>i only see men here, horny men mostly
isn't that exactly what you're looking for?

>>34737991
Proof that you are a woman. Posting tits is mandatory, otherwise you are a man pretending to be a woman.

Rule 29 of the internet states that all men on the internet are men, all women on the internet are men and all children on the internet are FBI agents.

Herbs, and I suggest for everyone else to do the same, this is an obvious troll.

>>34737991
> doesnt want to be fake & gay
> wont show tits
theres just no reasoning with some women.

>>34737991
Bitch I already told you this is a slow site, check back tomorrow.
There is a limit to how many threads can be open at once in a board, when someone makes a new thread that thread is on top and pushes down all the old ones and the old ones gets closed one by one, everytime you make a post it "bumps" the thread, putting it back on top.
When the thread has 311 replies it cant be bumped anymore.

I like the attention, men can be a bit easy giving that but my main reason was asking advice which i didn't got any that was good enough

>>34738000
>my main reason was asking advice
You didnt ask a good enough question.
If you want specific advice we need specific details. I ask you to show your tits you wont, how can we progress without basic details?
In generalities, you need to learn to navigate people. If you want to associate with someone, you need to make their life & they can gravitate to you. Similarly for negative people, they need to have reasons to avoid you.

sorry I'll search online the rules of replying! I have to wait like how many hours to answer?

>>34738004
Answers are nit guaranteed and much less good answers, is just so happens that is a slow site, it doesn't have as many people as it once used to.
This is like 4 time explaining this

>>34737937
>i still haven't learned the button to respond to only one person.
You include their post number after a double > symbol. To do this quickly, select any text that you want to quote in the post you're responding to, then click on the post number.

>>34737705
>Online, I constantly see autistic women talking about being sexualized, fetishized, or attracting manipulative men.
>So... where are these people even finding those guys?
Why the hell would you want to? I suppose, if you're autistic enough, you may not realise quite how horrible and quite how psychologically *damaging* being with someone abusive and manipulative actually is. Please trust me when I say that you are much, much better off being single than you are being with someone like that.

What I suggest you do is to think hard about what kind of person you might actually enjoy being with, and don't try to date at all until you have some ideas. Some people make the mistake of thinking that dating is about changing who you are to get someone to like you. It's not about that at all. It's about finding someone who likes you the way you already are (and that you like in the same way). Once you have some idea about what sort of person you're looking for, then you can think about where to find him.

Btw, ignore everyone who is telling you to post a picture of yourself. This is actually against forum rules on /adv/. If you really want to, you can post a picture of yourself somewhere on /soc/ and link to that from here, but I don't recommend it: those guys don't want to help you, they either want something they can say unkind things about to make you unhappy, or they want to jerk off to it, or both.

>>34738004
>I have to wait like how many hours to answer?
Reply as quickly as you like, but you can't expect other people to instantly respond to you.

>>34737705
>Even evil and bad people don't seem interested on me. I mean if I was a evil man or woman and saw a pretty girl who does anything for me I would be happy, and if I was a good man or woman I would also be happy, so what am I doing wrong??

You're doing nothing wrong. That's what scares people off about autists. I am a bad man myself, I often hurt people intentionally for the purpose of enjoyment. If I find out I hurt an autist it makes me feel genuine disgust with myself and guilt and remorse, like I just took a shot at spitting on innocence or smth. I only ever feel that way with autists for everyone else I don't give a fuck so I avoid autists if im looking to date because I don't want to hurt them and I think they're better off without me and should find someone nicer

>>34737705
>I also realized I was manipulated in ways that, if I described them in detail, most people would probably tell me to file a police report

If it's possible without doxing yourself or being too specific
Could you describe it?

And don't post photos or images despite what some here may ask

And wdym do anything for them, to the point of abuse?

hi i dont wanna come off as a weirdo but im also a biowoman who struggled and still struggle with similar things, do u wanna be my friend, would u mind posting ur email or something istg im not a larp

>>34737710
Am autistic. Did that. Worked out well.

>>34737909
that dude literally has makeup on, talk about fake and gay lmao

>>34737705
Maybe nobody wants to date you because they're not interested in being accused of manipulating you? Ever think about that?
Freak

>>34741807
>>34737705
I say this cause honestly you're creepy and fucking weird and you won't ever stand up for yourself for take any choices. Nobody should have to deal with this shit

You are coming off as a big blank sheet of paper, boring as hell, you sound great for hookup but nothing else. The fact that you are autistic can be cute to some, but most people don’t like retards if they aren’t retards themselves.

>>34737777
I had an ex who was/is autistic and she was a bore. She was naive and willing to do most I'd tell her to do without hesitation, but at the same time she had no character and foundation. I felt like I could do whatever the fuck and she'd never give me shit except getting passive aggressive or having a implosive meltdown. Mind you, she was/is top model tier looking and every man thirsts after her, but she only attracts the manipulative/effeminate/nerdy-entitled fags on a deeper level. She also has a latent-lesbian character which made her repulsive to me once I realized it, she is always in denial.

All in all people like you, of either sex radiate something anti-life and anti-strength, you feel to us like nothing because deep down you feel you are nothing, and it's hard to love someone or be attracted to when you are nothing.