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Men who are incapable of finding a partner (despite wanting one) are living in the wrong niche.

They have a career, lifestyle, demeanor, ideology, aesthetic, etc. that doesn't actually follow them.

If they did, they would be thriving. Stop acting like someone you aren't.


"living in the wrong niche", "Stop acting like someone you aren't"
How can i find myself?
Only few things that's objectively certain about me.
27 years old, man, life seems suicidally dead end.
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>>34762634
>Only few things that's objectively certain about me.
What are those?
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>>34762634
I kind of get this but I have mixed feelings about the opinion. Get a good job and move to an urban area and just always be outside meeting people.
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>>34762634
Traits and characteristics necessary for a man to possess in order to be considered relationship material in 2026 in no particular order:

• Self esteem and self love
• Relatively well adjusted mental health
• Agreeability and temperament complimentary or compatible with hers
• Values, life goals, world view and potential similar or on par with hers
• Adequate social skills
• Adherence to social norms and expectations
• self respect
• mutual physical attraction
• an active in person social life, including established friendships
• Financial potential and ambition
• Life experience & maturity
• Independence, including but not limited to not living with nor financially dependant on your parents
• health outlooks relative to her own
• genetics compatible with hers
• good hygiene

Yeah it's over that's what it is.
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>>34762808
Fuck off doomer.
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>>34762811
Doom is eternal, there is no escape.
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>>34763351
The things listed are not some herculean task, and you don't even need all of them to get a girl (or at least having the trait be the best version of said trait).
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Why should you care about people who just overreact all the time, don't listen to you, and make a scene out of avoiding you all the time? I don't know OP, but I think that would kinda get old after a while dealing with the same type of behavior of constantly being ostentatiously indifferent all the time due to superiority issues? I'd really try no to let how people win get to you. People who act like they are winning all the time are kinda delusional and paranoid. Sometimes the people who don't go far in life tend to have the best outlooks on life compared to those who do.
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>>34762644
>What are those?
27 years old, man, life seems suicidally dead end.


>>34762778
>Get a good job and move to an urban area and just always be outside meeting people.
That's what the op pic criticises by "living in the wrong niche.", "They have a career, lifestyle, demeanor, ideology, aesthetic, etc. that doesn't actually follow them"

There's a chance you'll not succeed in having a woman even if you've got a perfect career and million bucks. Because it just doesn't fit you at all.


>>34762808
To archive any of them, you still define your self first.
>>34763351
>Doom is eternal
So is the opposite eternal.
Doom can exist because there is light, it's counterpart.
If there wasn't light you couldn't be able to know it's doom.

You believe Doom because you believe there is light.
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>>34764818
>To archive
achieve. sorry
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>>34762634
the reason why people in general have trouble finding partners is because there is no community anywhere. people dont feel like its socially acceptable to talk to people which is what community is great for. i dont even know who my neighbors are much less greet people on the sidewalk



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