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There are certain common characteristics that guys who's have been fucking girls cinema they were 13 tend to have right? I'm trying to get in character so I can LARP as one, but since I am an incel at 25, I'm having incredible difficulty putting myself in there shoes. Can any of you help me build the character model? What kind of interests do they have? What kind of things do they say or speak about with women? What do they dress and look like?
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>There are certain common characteristics that guys who have been fucking girls since they were 13 tend to have right? *
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Sorry anon but they are simply genetically superior individuals. Subhumans like you will never make it.
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>>34762997
And you're one of them?
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>>34762943
Might be different in america (im from spain) but here i come.
What kind of interests do they have?
Whatever is popular at the time and soccer. Also sex
What kind of things do they say or speak about with women?
Normie shit
What do they dress and look like?
Like how everyone else who likes hip hop does.

people who fuck early are, with some exceptions, just plain normies (gangster wannabe variety) their personality tends to be really loud and extroverted but also really dumb and reckless. There is also a bit of a lack of personal identity in these people, at least the ones i have interacted with. Also very little empathy.
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>>34763008
No I'm a fellow subhuman. Takes one to know one you know.
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They are bored all the time. Thats how you feel when you have won at life. So most of their interactions are about deriving entertainment. They latch on to any novelty they can find and usually when they are talking to people they are trying to find what is interesting or unique about them if anything. This is in stark contrast to someone like you who goes through life in fear and subconsciously frames everything about avoiding pain.
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>>34763984
What pain am I avoiding?
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>>34764053
Embarrassment, rejection, judgement, humiliation, etc etc
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>>34764055
Am I not trong enough to endure it?
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>>34762943
>putting myself in there shoes.
THERE = in that place
THEIR = belonging to them
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>>34762943
Pic related
They don't "try", it just happens, like natural instinct.
If you missed out, it's not because you tried less, it's that there's something fundamentally wrong with you
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>>34762943
common characteristics: start heavy smoking and doing every hard drug
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>>34762943
The most obvious characteristic is leadership. If you can get to the top of a hierarchy of friends and lead others then you will get women way easier. As a caveat, you still have to lead the women.
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>>34766255
What if your a sigma and only have 2 friends
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>>34766258
Then you aren't the guy you're describing, you're the other one.
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>>34766280
What other one
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>>34762943
That kind of person is genetically superior to most men. Either they lack any long term planning skills, thus bypassing all fear or rejection and succeeding more by the rule of statistics, or they are more attractive than you.
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>>34766344
I will leave that open to interpretation.
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It's confidence and independence. If your entire focus is on wanting to fuck women, you'll obsess over the first one who *might* give you a shot. Just be a chad, love yourself and let them come to you

t. guy who was a virgin until 28 and has had crazy experience with uncountable women now by 32
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you know how there are people that raised super religious and sex is bad and a lot of them end up as incels if the trad wife thing doesn't work out? well some people do the opposite and teach their kids that sex is awesome and it's no big deal.
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>>34766551
I lost so many opportunities and life experiences thanks to my Baptist parents. Fucking piece of shit cult made specifically to make you an incel.
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>>34766419
I'm not obsessing over any at all, and I still get none. I'm 25 and 5'6. How tall are you? Race?
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Guy who's been fucking girls since he was 13 while also browsing 4chan here:
Make jokes. Make your thoughts known without sounding like a serial killer (unless you can make jokes about it). Make a girl feel like hanging out with you is an adventure and you win. Also don't be a boring faggot but that's a given with the whole "adventure" thing. If you don't like anything, you're ngmi. If all you like is shit online give up now or be happy settling with a moody landwhale
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>>34766610
you seem low iq
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>>34762943
>>34762997
>>34763984
>>34766048
>>34766255
>>34766355
>>34766419
>>34766610
The biggest thing that makes a guy successful with women is being able to relate enough to them to make them feel like they want to give up the pussy.
There's nothing genetically superior about a 110 IQ assistant manager who can rizz up 90 IQ pinhead whores on a regular basis because he can hold a conversation about a dumb chick flick or horoscopes for an hour.
If you're an autist or have substantially higher IQ than most people (130+), then dating is just harder in this day and age where making a woman feel "comfortable" is more important than status. Tesla for example, had tons of women that wanted him back in his day, I don't think that would be the case now, and I can guarantee you no one in this thread is a more "genetically superior" human to Tesla, and no mediocre manwhore is either.
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>>34766919
>horoscopes
I actually can about this specifically, but i am embarrased about it. I don't want to come off as schizophrenic.
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>>34766919
Funny that you think anyone who gets laid is low-IQ. I'm certified 136 IQ through a proctored test and, as I said, it's easy if you're not a boring faggot. Your autism isn't a sign of high IQ, it's a mental defect you mask with overinflated ego because it's far easier than self-reflection and self-improvement. You are boring, retarded, and likely have poor hygiene. You've convinced yourself you're the main character who "never got a break because of normalfaggots" instead of facing the fact that you a genetic dead-end. And no, this isn't a defense of modern women or a recommendation to be some faggy lookmaxxer either. If you can't manage charisma without a guide you shouldn't breed anyways. Hopefully a few more generations of this and your kind will be stripped from the gene pool entirely.
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>>34762943
OP, this is one of those moments in a movie where I want you to be yourself instead of someone people prefer. Okay, how about you buy some exercising equipment and workout and talk to people. Get to know yourself and other people, and then do that. Added, fucking 25? 25? Dude that is not the end of the fucking world. You've been doomscrolling way too much and been way too hard on yourself when you see interactions in real life. Next time you go to work or to your college club, try to vibe and relax, not be someone who is pissed off because you see the alpha talking to the alpha chicks. And I fucking bet to you that alpha guy wants to be your friend, you're just so damn focused on doomscrolling bullshit.
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>>34767400
I already workout. I can Incline bench 250lb for 3 reps. I can squat 350lb for 5 reps.
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>>34767387
>projection
>lying
>coping
>seething
>tl;dr
Damn, it's all there
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>>34767400
How dare you have the arrogance to make this shitpost reply after the Anon before you made a serious high quality reply. They are reply-mogging you!
You should be ashamed. Go away Zach!
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>>34767387
Hello. I am not sure if you're being serious, but your insight seems solid, so I would like to ask for some advice (not the OP, btw).
I was in the gifted program in highschool and am apparently goodlooking according to older women and some girls, my first girlfriend ever approached me after classes back when I was in highschool. I am also fit if you must know.
The thing is, I am now in my early 20s and am a virgin, even though I have had many chances to get laid. One chick even put my hands on her breasts without any effort on my part.
The thing is, I am afraid of intimacy or something, I don't know how to explain it.
I believed in god growing up, have always had fear of STDs, and am a strange combination of cold/anxious when I am in an intimate situation where I am alone with a girl.
I am not asexual and I am not gay, I do not know what my problem is, I really do desire to go further.
I tried to force myself to get it over with many months ago and ended up chickening out for the final time, now I barely leave the house and get really depressed whenever a beautiful woman/girl smiles at me or tries to talk to me, with recent encounters ending in me being overcome with panic and avoiding their gazes and walking away quickly.

I never had this problem in highschool, I was a normal boy and could flirt with no problem, I genuinely don't understand what happened.

I hope you end up seeing this and taking my enquiry seriously since this sounds like a joke and there seems to be no name for my condition whenever I attempt to look it up online.


tl;dr: I have a mental block or aversion of some sort o going to last base.
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>>34769027
OP here, sounds like your neural pathway that controls your ability to interact with women has atrophied since leaving highschool. The brain is moldable though, so don't fret! Just throw yourself into social situations and do the opposite of what your brain wants you to do. This is how you give it the feedback that changes it.
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>>34766048
Hello I am the this guy >>34769027

something went wrong after highschool for me, but it feels like something mental rather than social.
I am not sure of you're the same anon from your attached image, but incase you are, what do you think my problem is?
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>>34769037
I definitely have tried doing exposure therapy with the intention of starting small and building up confidence, but it seems to be getirng worse and feels like I have become terrified of women.

I have even started consuming large amounts of alcohol for the first time in my life if I am aware that I will be interacting with a woman on any given day.

I was never like this before, I was once chill and could talk to any girl around me. I don't know what has gone wrong.
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>>34769049
Your brain atrophied that area since you weren't using it. It's the same for me. I was very social and outgoing at 12yo, but then I switched to a ghetto school and became a recluse. Now what came naturally seems so foreign to me.



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