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My relationship has always been one of convenience. I'm not tall or handsome, but I'm financially stable and I don't cheat, I don't drink, I'm not violent. I suppose that’s why she's with me. Not always, but sometimes I pay her rent and cover other expenses.

I've always known this kind of relationship isn't built to last. She looks at other men when we're out walking together. One time, I even noticed her drifting a few steps away when a good looking guy passed by, as if she didn't want him to know she was with me. She's done other small things like that too when we're around attractive couples. She's ashamed of me.

The problem is she's pregnant now, and yes, I'm thinking about asking for a paternity test, just in case. But what if the baby really is mine, like she says? Because she claims it's 100% mine. I don't know what to do.

I'm sad because I feel the relationship won't last long. And my kid is going to grow up in a broken family. This is not what I wanted, I always wanted to start a normal family like the one I had when I was a kid. But I know it's imposible, things have changed, society has changed and men like me will never be happy, even through I have worked hard and done nothing wrong. Im feeling hopeless and depressed. I want to scream and cry but I have to work in the morning, so I have to repress my feelings and anxiety, I can't afford to be weak right now.
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>>34765283
You need to be going to therapy to resolve your underlying self esteem issues so that you can be emotionally stable for your kid
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>>34765283
LARP thread but let’s pretend for you
The baby isn’t yours so don’t even worry. You know the fucking ANGUISH a woman would be in if she were pregnant with such a child? She’d probably just abort it without telling you, frankly.
Based on your first couple sentences you already know you’re just “the bank of anon” and not a person
Do not sign this birth certificate.
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>>34765283
Is there any low-profile way for you to kill her now so that things don't degenerate any further? Any accidents she might have? Cliffs or balconies she can maybe fall from?
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>>34765549
>The baby isn’t yours so don’t even worry
Totally agree.
I was in a real relationship in my early 20's while at college. GF of two years back home tells me she is pregnant and she and her parents start pressure for us to marry. I hold out for nearly a month and suddenly she comes asking for money for an abortion. wtf. Well turns out even she didn't know for sure if it was mine.

Point being OP it doesn't matter what you call the relationship you have with the woman you fuck you are sharing that pussy with other guys. Tell this cunt to fuck off.
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>>34765549
>having a girlfriend is larp
Male loneliness had made impossible for young men to see relationships are something that happens to normal people
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You may simply have self esteem issues
If the child is yours, he'll need a father
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>>34768615
That is the most autistic misunderstanding of a post I’ve read on this site in many years.



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