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I (red user) was messaged by this blue user on discord after i posted a message in my country's discord saying i am looking for friends. I only know her for two weeks and she got upset that I forgot to wish her happy birthday after she mentioned she is turning 24. Is that weird or no?
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>>34767705
It's just a comment.
It's natural to congratulate someone on their birthday. It's part of common etiquette. Even if you don't take formalities seriously, it's good to know what's normal for others.
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Dude, that's a diva in disguise. I've dealt with discord girls like that from Reddit. They get very divaish if you slightly disagree with your believes. Get a gentle and pragmatic girlfriend. The one you passed off too much that you found attractive. People who truly are your friends are types that don't go all haywire over simple stuff like that. Definitely looks like the type that would throw a temper tantrum if I randomly talked about how Trump is not effecting the gas prices.
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>>34767705
Not weird. It's not like she expected you to remember her birthday or smth. She said it was her birthday, it is normal to say 'congrats"
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>>34767705
She's either being playful, or is a dangerous bpdemon. Looks like the first one to me.
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>>34767705
It's fucking weird you didn't wish her happy birthday when she explicitly told you it's today. If you're looking for friends try being nice.
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>>34767705
You both acted weird. That said, she seems more committed to the conversation than you are. You're unlikely to find girls too committed to actually giving any input into the conversation aside from letting you carry it, give her more of a chance, say "my bad" and keep talking. Don't overthink THIS much.
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>>34767705
are you autistic shes clearly being lighthearted just say "haha sorry, happy birthday" she doesent care you dont care i dont care noone fucking cares noone is going to remember this within 10 years, everyone will have forgotten this conversation everyone in this thread you her, they will all forget it or die, and maybe in 10 years we would have found a cure to autism which i suggest you take HIGH DOSES OF no offense
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>>34770572
girls care a lot desu
OP fumbled this
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>>34770618
How does she care? she first messaged me 2 weeks ago



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